Your first kiss

My first kiss was a sort-of blind date -we were bookish Catholic kids, so neither of us had much idea of how to proceed. Mutual friends -two years our senior- introduced us and acted as chaperons. We walked around lower Manhattan in late spring, mostly talking about fantasy novels.

Though the older friends were through with that sort of thing, she and I were young enough that truth-or-dare was an acceptable way to kill time, and after a few rounds of priming us with softball dares and embarrassing truths, I was dared to kiss her. So we stood about six inches apart, and we kissed. I had enough sense to not push my luck (read: tongue) but our eyes were open the entire time -she has wide, expressive eyes. I remember it as a very nice kiss, even though I was red as a lobster afterwards.

We dated for a year. She got married some time in 2013 and is expecting her first baby in April.
 
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My first real kiss was when I was 15. This girl who I had been close friends with since I was in 7th grade and had always had feelings for. She came from a strict LDS family and forbade dating until she was 16. When she hit high school she became a little rebellious. We were sitting outside the school pool talking while I waited for my ride home. When my ride arrived she stood and on the way up she kissed me on the cheek and ran off. I was gob smacked and wondered what that meant.

A couple hours later I called her and asked if she had kissed me. She said yes, told me she knew I had feelings for her and told me that she had feelings for me as well.

So the next day during lunch we found a private corner of the school, talked a bit, then she asked when I was going to kiss her. So I lent forward and awkwardly kissed her, which turned into much less awkward making out. And as the next few weeks progressed we got much better at it.

I broke up with her because I was struggling at the time with depression and was planning on committing suicide and wanted to protect her. Of course I didn't go through with it, but she wouldn't talk to me for two years.

We became friends again, and still are, but never got back together. After high school she came to terms with the fact that she was a lesbian. I was supportive of her but jokingly asked if I could tell people that I was just too much man for her and no other man would do and that's why she's a lesbian now. She laughed and said yes. We're still good friends to this day.
 
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Would it make me a normalfag somewhat if I admit that I at least kissed a girl or two?

First "unofficial" one was when I was like 3 or 4 and with a neighborhood girl. I guess we were playing house or something but all I remember was me laying on the grass on the front lawn and the girl gave me like a peck on the lips. It grossed me out then because it was all wet and cool.

My first "official" one was when I was 21 and on my first date with some girl I met on MSN. She was a total bitch, but at least we made out in her car after the movie and although it still felt wet and cool, it didn't gross me out as much and I kinda enjoyed it. What a difference 20 years and puberty makes. After that, I guess I got to make out with like two other girls in the course of this past decade. I miss making out.
 
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The only time I've laid my lips on another person who wasn't my mother was last month when I kissed my best galpal on the cheek before she went to bed, she did the same thing to me a few months ago too.

I've never kissed anyone on their lips ;_;
That's okay though, I'm only fifteen.
 
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When I was 15, I got my first job at a pizza place down the road from a state university campus. Nearly all of the customers and just about everyone else who worked there was a student. One night there was some party going on and I got invited. One of my co-workers said "if anyone asks how old you are, you're 21." I got wasted and wound up making out with a 20 year old volleyball player. ...Apparently. I don't really remember but I do know that some of my co-workers thought it was the best moment of their lives when they got to tell her that I was only 15. She never came back into my work after that.

Alcohol, shame, and contributing the the delinquency of minors*. God I miss that place.

*and pizza. I seem to remember some pizzas being made as well.
 
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Metasync said:
The only time I've laid my lips on another person who wasn't my mother was last month when I kissed my best galpal on the cheek before she went to bed, she did the same thing to me a few months ago too.

I've never kissed anyone on their lips ;_;
That's okay though, I'm only fifteen.
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I'm in my late twenties now, and it still never happened.

At least you have much more time ahead of you if that's what you want.
 
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Rammspieler said:
Maybe not. I've come to realize that this place is like love-shy/wizardchan. Only with less emphasis on virginity/wimminz are evil sperging and more emphasis on being yourself while enjoying the exploits of lolcows.
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People think I'm crazy when I say that not everybody CAN get laid. (I still believe this, by the way) Whether or not this is actually true, as long as you're a chill dude, for the most part, it seems most people here are cool with whatever status you have in that respect.

I think "normal" society, if that's the proper word for it, puts way too much emphasis on an individual's virgin status. Right to the point where it's detrimental in many ways.

I didn't get along with anybody here at first (and still often don't) but I do not regret coming here. I'm glad that you're finding yourself a new home here, Ramm.
 
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