I've known gay guys who've complained about how difficult it is to find people who actually want a proper relationship, I feel bad for guys who just want to be normal but have to share the same space as the "kink at pride" loons. I get the impression there's probably quite a lot of gay people who're getting sick of the LGBT community at large that seems to think being gay also has include all the wacky sex and political philosophy that comes along with the current community, and if you don't accept it you're some sort of self hating gay.
Camp A is also the group that most people said "oh, you want to be gay? sure, go ahead I don't care. what you do in the bedroom isn't my business" and accepted. Camp B is the group that is slowly being less and less tolerated because most people aren't interested in the public kink show.
The same thing applies to trannies. No one would give a shit who walked into which restroom, or got pronouns right, if the trannies actually passed as whatever they're claiming to be. And there are definitely those who can pull it off, and no one cares(unless you end up dating one or something but that's beside the point). The problem group is the gross fucking weirdos who have a 5 o'clock shadow at 10am, throw on a halfassed wig and a $20 dress, maybe put on some lipstick and then just assume everyone is supposed to believe they're anything but a man when at best they look like the dollar store version of the Wayans brothers in White Chicks. Actually no, that's not right because the Wayans brothers put more effort into it. A recent example of what I'm talking about is that sonic drive through manager who got berated by a troon, who asked what about them looked like a man, flipped the camera and showed their ugly mug... EVERYTHING about that person looked like a damn man.
I have family super involved in the LGBT movement. I'm bisexual myself, which is a big part of why I have so much fucking hatred for the LGBT movement and the community around it, I've been quite close to it. I know compared to most of the more vocal Kiwis in the types of threads I lurk and post in I am basically an SJW, but fucking hell do I not agree these freaks need bashing and shaming.
My lack of support for the movement and eventually opposition of it, having come to see it as a movement of hatred and exclusion, has lead to a lot of them telling me I don't understand the movement, that is really is about inclusivity and acceptance (maybe once upon a time it was, but now it isn't), that I'm "not really bisexual", that I'm self hating and all that shit. Heck I had a 41 year old woman in my family tell me I need to "check my privilege" because I said that giving gays special treatment is just enabling them just over a month ago, like actually used the fucking words, I giggled at how much of a living parody she was. That compounded with the fact I, as a man, found a woman I love to spend my life with, rather than play up my LGBT nature and only dated men, is another thing they hate (despite statistically speaking, yeah most bisexuals not dating based on politics would likely find a long term straight relationship rather than a gay one). Also this woman, who works as a service worker specifically in helping poor "disadvantaged LGBTQ+ individuals", informed me that bisexuals don't qualify for her special assistance, but trans and gays do, because bisexuals can "choose to be straight". Mother fuckers, the straights, the gays, and the trans all hate bisexuals, but they still aren't oppressed enough to get special treatment form people whose job is to help those who are oppressed apparently. The fucking lunacy. Oh, for those wondering, niggers also don't get special treatment, only sand niggers and feather niggers do.
My experience with the LGBT movement and the community built around it basically consisted of "fuck cissies", "pick a side", "you're not really bi or you'd sleep with me", "you're just in denial of the fact you're gay, no one is really bi, just date dude you'll be happier", "real bisexuals are all poly sluts so how about you stop pretending or prove it and fuck us" and "if you were bi you wouldn't be with a woman". Yet if I bring up these experiences for why I don't support their collective movement then suddenly they deny such things happen, showing the truth of these people who always talk about how we can't deny the experiences of others. Nothing but hypocrisy. They exist to force you into their cult, to live their life style, and to throw aside your own values, morality, and decency.
Despite all that I still believe it is possible to support gay and trans rights without supporting the LGBT movement, it's community and it's degeneracy. I still support gay rights, I still support same sex marriage, I still actively donate to credible research to understanding and hopefully one day finding effective treatment for people with gender dysphoria to not be miserable without resorting to extremely questionable hormonal and medical procedures that do them more harm than good. I am opposed to people killing them just for being faggots or troons. In fact it's my actual genuine support for such things that makes me loath the degeneracy so much. It's what makes me hate these fucking troons and why I laugh sadistically at their descent into self destruction. It's why I don't lift a finger to help faggots who went out of the way to become AIDS ridden biohazards because they took no precautions. They deserve what they've done to themselves and the damage it is causing for everyone else who gets lumped in with them who just want to live the most normal lives that they can.