Yeah I thought it was obvious that if he (or she) wants to text you back, they will. You can't just hope super hard that someone will find you attractive.
Hot tip for the insta and Tik Tok fat activists community, I guess- have you tried being more attractive? That could help.
I wonder if he decided to check out her social media before texting her, realized what a narcissistic trainwreck she is, and noped out.
I am, of course, assuming he even exists, and that he asked for her number of his own accord.
That said, she went from zero to fully invested in this guy texting her in no time flat; she would not see the need to even post this if she hadn't. She was probably imagining where he was going to take her and what trinkets he was going to buy her, only to have humiliating reality come crashing down as days went by with no text.
She got all hyped up on her own expectations, and now she's pissed he didn't deliver, so instead of letting it go and moving on, she's got to publicly complain about him. Yet she still wants him to deliver, because she didn't name-and-shame him; if he texted her right now, she'd fall all over herself to get a date.
Can you be a global sex symbol if no one wants to have sex with you? How exactly does she square that?
She just makes it everybody else's fault. She's such a strong woman, they can't handle her; they really desire her, but men are too afraid of what their buddies might think; she deserves only the best men, and the ones who fling themselves at her are unworthy. All of her rationalizations lead to, "It's the men who are the problem; not me."
Inspired by a similar question from the Fugifoot board: How would you fix Tess' life?
Let's say you either wake up tomorrow as Tess, or you get hit by Truck-kun and get stuck to her as a ghost that lives in her head or something - What do you do?
I'd send my kids back to MS to live with my brother, before choosing the fucking rope.
(She lives in Long Beach; I'm sure the port can loan her a suitably strong rope.)
If she really had crippling anxiety she wouldn't embarrass herself on such a frequent basis. She'd also be a lot more critical towards herself and I don't think I've EVER seen her be self-critical.
Yeah, just like her wannarexia, her "anxiety" is bullshit, and Tess provides all the evidence of what a lie it is right out there on her social media.
I don't doubt she feels tense and anxious when she needs attention and nobody is there to give it to her—Narcissists are junkies, and need their supply. I also don't doubt she feels anxious about her career, financial future, or what she might have to do in order to keep her faltering celebrity and current lifestyle afloat But that's not an anxiety disorder; not even close.
Late, but:
Delete all social media and never, ever return.
Leave LA for somewhere with no massive celebrity culture — no New York, for example — but where living a healthier lifestyle is still feasible — so no waddling back to Mississippi. Maybe Colorado or Arizona.
There are cities in the South and Midwest she could do okay in, given a low COL. They are by no means glamorous, but they're decent places to live and raise kids and get your shit back together.
Enroll in community college. Study something applicable to a fucking career. Transfer to a public school and get a degree.
She's what my grandmother used to euphemistically call "not college material." There's no point in her going into debt for a four-year degree; a two-year Associate's degree that will get her straight into the workforce, or training as a MUA at a respected specialty school, would be the way to go for someone that vapid, who just needs to make a living.
Get started on a serious diet and exercise plan. Weigh and log every item of food. Maybe go high protein or vegan. Cut out processed food entirely.
Walk. Everywhere. Get a Fitbit and hit the step goal every fucking day. Do yoga and basic small weight exercise at at home.
Lose 50lbs then join a gym.
Also, give up on the entire identity she's built for herself as "the hot fat girl" and "first size 22 supermodel!"—both the public identity, and the one in her head. That would be the hardest part, I think. She's been fat for so long, and made it such an integral part of who she is and how she presents herself and gets attention, she doesn't know how to be a normal-sized human where her body size is not the primary thing she is known for.
If she lost weight, the other issue she'd have to deal with would be the changes in her face. She's old enough that her face isn't going to bounce right back to what it was even five years ago. She's also had fillers meant to counteract the increasing fatness of her face, and they're going to look very weird. She's not going to handle aging well anyway, but looking at herself in the mirror after significant weight loss would be extraordinarily difficult.
As hard as cleaning up her diet and getting her eating habits in line would be, I think the mental aspects of losing weight would be her undoing.
INTENSIVE THERAPY FOR NARCISSISM lol.
The occasional, rare, low-end Borderliner or Histrionic can use intensive therapy to learn some basic emotional regulation and how to mitigate some of the effects of their personality disorder. But Narcissists are effectively untreatable because they can't admit there is anything significantly wrong with them or the ways they think and act. Narcissists in therapy are manipulative, and use therapy as a means of getting confirmation that
they are the one surrounded by abusers.
So there is no such thing as intensive therapy for Narcissism (except maybe a bullet).
horrible shit happen to children in Hollywood.
