I know this is late, but what peak transd me wasn't trans individuals, but rather the conspiracy that this is "big pharma" trying to profit off of HRT, which is no longer considered helpful among most menopausal women.
For the most part I don't care about the "safety" thing. I think something that men overlook is that to a women, all individuals are dangerous. Women don't see other women as inherently non-threatening, so that's why they have an easier time accepting transwoman as woman, despite the fact that men see transwoman/TIMs as an aberration in that regard. Yeah, transwoman are freaks openly on twitter, but I know more women who have sexually assaulted other women(generally straight women too who are bullies) than I do men or transwoman. You don't have to agree with me, since this is just anecdotal, but I'm just saying it's what I believe based on my experiences.
And I'm also not usually a Big Pharma believer, but there are instances where companies will sell drugs knowing that the drugs will maim the users, and so in this case they are taking advantage of people who want badly to be maimed. Which I think is wrong, and why I've backed off on a lot of my trans support. This isn't something superficial like piercings or tattoos or scars either, its potentially life threatening procedures, and I just don't think it's right to "pressure" people into it.