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I had to Google magic mike and I swear to God my first impression was "is this gay porn"
Corissa Enneking / fatgirlflow and Juliana "J" Aprileo / comfyfattravels - Delusional fat-acceptance lesbian couple, junk-food addicts with expensive taste, denied a mortgage due to excessive Doordash ordering
- Thread starter Hamplanet Fitness
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- Apr 7, 2016
Because they are stupid. If they were smart, they would have not purchased the house in the first place.
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This whole house saga is literally just a pathetic veiled attempt to one-up Anna, who bought a house several months before them, and I'm fucking living for it. You just know corissa has been bitterly stalking anna ever since that shit went down between them. corissa is so batshit insane that she just jumped into this fucking "lets buy a house asap" arc as a dunk on Anna and ended up getting hit in the head right back
Bitch literally fucked over her life and credit over dumb internet drama with another deathfat she will never meet.
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I wonder what this "shmintershmew" that J so coyly referred to is about? Job interview? Comfyfat influencer interview? Inquiring minds want to know! Since J is hesitant to go full shaved-head until after this shmintershmew, I'm betting on job interview. Although, where is J going to get a more secure-with-benefits job than working at the local university? And where is J interviewing that being half-shaved head J looks like a better hiring prospect than full-shaved head J?
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This is a fantastic throwback reference and I wholeheartedly agree. J is Fat Fuck Sebastian from a parallel universe. Addicted to food instead of heroin.
“WHERE’S MARCEL AT????”
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I bet I'd an influencer interview. With photoshoot of course. Girly wants to look her cutest.
She has some ig stories today asking for tv show recommendations. She is extra girly and femme and cheerful.
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“So close to being done!”
Lol. They’ve got literal holes in the ground, a dangling light fixture, three different floors, doorless cabinets, no backsplash, an unfinished, half assed countertop, and whatever the fuck is going on with the wall.
But sure those cheap open shelves look Instaready!
Lol. They’ve got literal holes in the ground, a dangling light fixture, three different floors, doorless cabinets, no backsplash, an unfinished, half assed countertop, and whatever the fuck is going on with the wall.
But sure those cheap open shelves look Instaready!
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The after photo looks worse in many ways, especially the floor. There's a floorboard just sticking up and they didn't cut the heating vent out properly or even bother at all.
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It looks like shit and THAT'S the instagram version. Wow...
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The fact that they gave up half of their functional cabinet space to put useless shit on the walls for tHe aEsThEtIcS really drives home the reality that they must order DoorDash (or go to a drive thru if they’re feeling especially adventurous) for literally every single meal. All of the remaining cabinets will probably end up overflowing with junk food, because where else are they going to put their copious piles of candy and chips? I hope the homeowner saga ends up as a hoarding travesty because IIRC the house is pretty small square footage-wise.
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I had to spend 5 mins looking at the captions because I was sure the first one was the renovation, Why does it looks worse? That was a perfectly acceptable, if old, kitchen in the first photo and now is a unusable mess.
I cant wait for the bathroom renovation saga were they change their current tub for a even lower one and the toilet for a squat, to make it even more impossible to use for them
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New article has been posted by Corissa.
Summary:
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TW: fat hate, fatphobia in clinical setting
When I was 22 a therapist told me that maybe I should stop hanging out with fat people. I wasn’t fat at the time, but I was dating someone who was. And I was struggling with my mental health and had become agoraphobic. She suggested that the reason i was unable to leave my home was because the people around me aren’t motivated to stay healthy.
I’m not joking. This is an actual thing a therapist told me.
For years, the thing that has hurt the most about being fat has been that I know what people said to me about fat people when I was thin. And that now those people had to be faced with the reality of my changed body and everything they had ever once said. I don’t have a lot of the same friends I had when I was thin because those realities some times hurt too much.
But there are a few people in my life who have made all that hurt melt away by being the absolute best friends and family anyone could ever ask for. They’ve shown me what love looks like, and how caring about accessibility can totally be a love language.
I believe that there is an unspoken feeling in our society that people are responsible for creating their own accommodations for their bodies. But what would it look like if we all considered if our friends in wheelchairs could access all the places we could? What would our world look like if we considered our environment and how we exclude others with certain choices?
Whether you have fat friends, disabled friends, elderly friends, or totally able bodied buds with a few needs for their bods – I want to tell you about the things that have made me feel extra loved and cared for. And maybe sharing these things can help all of us think more about how we show love and thoughtfulness to the people we care about.
Seating Adjustments
A few years ago one of my best friends got married and when checking out her venue she realized that the seats seemed a little… fragile. She purchased chairs that matched the venues that were rated for a much higher weight limit for my partner and I so that we could be totally comfy at her reception and it was so thoughtful. I hadn’t considered that we would need that but she did, and it meant a lot.
To be clear, she absolutely did not need to purchase the chairs for us for this to feel thoughtful. Even giving us a heads up, or offering to let us bring our own chairs would have been incredibly thoughtful and would have required no extra monetary commitment. Even better than making sure we had a literal seat at the table my friend made a point to talk to the venue operators about the chairs and point out that she didn’t feel they were as inclusive as they could be.
Seating is always a little tricky for fat people and disabled people alike. So what are we looking for? Sturdy seats that are neither too low nor too high, and plenty wide. Consider if a person’s whole bottom would fit on the seat or if they would hang over the sides, whether there are arms on the chair that would dig into a person’s hips, and whether or not your friend could easily settle into the chair while also being able to get up/out of the chair with ease.
Making a reservation? Give the host a heads up that you have a fat person (you can say “larger bodied” if you’re uncomfortable with the word “fat” – but we should probably deconstruct why it makes you uncomfy at some point!) in your party who needs room to get in and out of the seating area and ask for sturdy seating. I promise once you do this a couple times it becomes second nature, and people in the service industry seem to really appreciate the heads up if a guest needs accommodations.
Making Sure We Can Join You
My bestie got a hot tub. And then my bestie’s husband started looking for stairs to get into the hot tub. And they realized that very few stairs for hot tubs are rated for 300+ pounds. So he got to work building accessible stairs for the hot tub (pictured below)!
Now, again – this type of kindness is not something I expect! The point is that as people who want to host us and want us to join them in their home, our friends considered if there was a way to make one of their purchases more accessible and then acted on it. Now, not only do they not need to worry about us being able to hang with them in the hot tub, they also have a safe way to get their kiddos in and out of the hot tub, and if one of them were to be injured they’d know they can always have safe stairs for enjoying a nice soak.
Making things accessible rarely takes away from anyone. Sometimes it means that you don’t have as many options aesthetically, but having more accessible belongings in your life is often beneficial to more than just a few people in your life – including you! Many of us forget that everyone ages – even those of us who feel like we’re still kids. And with aging bodies, comes needs for accessibility – so considering how to make your home accessible is not just good for fat friends, it’s also a sustainable approach to your future!
Support Inclusive Brands & Get In The Know
For years my sister and I have been buying matching clothes, handbags, and shoes. We are our mother’s daughters and love a little retail therapy. When I began my blog and started talking more about how difficult finding plus size clothing was, my sister really listened.
If you’re plus size you know that our options are lacking, if you’re thin you may not realize how serious the issue is. If I need a dress for an event there are zero options for me within an hour of my home – not even good ol’ Walmart carries my size. There’s no run to target, or a local boutique. If my closet doesn’t have an option that’s it, there’s nowhere for me to turn.
As my sister has heard my complaints, she’s paid close attention to the brands that do serve people my size and she’s decided to start making her dollars count in a big way. She’s made a commitment to try to spend most of her clothing budget at shops that carry inclusive sizing – she doesn’t want to wear anything that I wouldn’t also be able to wear.
That’s a big deal. Imagine the impact we could make if all of our thin friends and family members said “I would love to shop your brand, but you don’t have inclusive sizing!” to all the companies out there that have the ability to make plus size clothing but choose not to.
Another great thing that’s come from my sister paying attention to what sizes brands carry is that our conversations about clothing are not one sided. She doesn’t recommend places she knows I can’t wear. And when I talk to her about how I want a cute jumpsuit and she remembers one she saw at an inclusive store she follows on instagram I am not bummed that it’s not in my size. It makes our relationship and our communication feel more thoughtful and considerate.
Look, your fat pals aren’t asking for you to change your life for them. We want you to enjoy all the same things we do, and we’re just asking for that same consideration from others. I have incredible people in my life that show me time and time again what friendship means, and I can’t help but believe that you probably do too. Perhaps we all just need to share a little more about what would help us and give people the opportunity.
Oh, right – that’s a big part of this my fat angels. You’ve got to accept the love people want to show you. You are not a burden, and people making adjustments to their life to include you is not a hassle. We are all here on this Earth to connect and experience love, and if there are uncharted ways that we can do that it’s up to us to chart those waters together. Showing our bodies love and reinforcing that every body is worthy is something that we don’t only do for ourselves – we can do it for others too.
Summary:
- A therapist (press x for doubt) told her that hanging around fat people is what made her agoraphobic and this was due to them having unhealthy motivations.
- She makes a point to state she doesn't expect anyone to do stuff like this for her, while also stating she should get this all done for her.
- One of her friends purchased chairs matching a venues chairs so she and J could attend the wedding without breaking the venues furniture.
- "Making a reservation? Give the host a heads up that you have a fat person (you can say “larger bodied” if you’re uncomfortable with the word “fat” – but we should probably deconstruct why it makes you uncomfy at some point!) in your party who needs room to get in and out of the seating area and ask for sturdy seating."
- People in the industry appreciate this.
- One friend built stairs to support her to get into a hot tub.
- She can no longer buy clothes in stores unless it is planned and specific.
- Supposedly her sister will only buy from inclusive shops now.
How To Be A Friend To A Fat Person
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TW: fat hate, fatphobia in clinical setting
When I was 22 a therapist told me that maybe I should stop hanging out with fat people. I wasn’t fat at the time, but I was dating someone who was. And I was struggling with my mental health and had become agoraphobic. She suggested that the reason i was unable to leave my home was because the people around me aren’t motivated to stay healthy.
I’m not joking. This is an actual thing a therapist told me.
For years, the thing that has hurt the most about being fat has been that I know what people said to me about fat people when I was thin. And that now those people had to be faced with the reality of my changed body and everything they had ever once said. I don’t have a lot of the same friends I had when I was thin because those realities some times hurt too much.
But there are a few people in my life who have made all that hurt melt away by being the absolute best friends and family anyone could ever ask for. They’ve shown me what love looks like, and how caring about accessibility can totally be a love language.
I believe that there is an unspoken feeling in our society that people are responsible for creating their own accommodations for their bodies. But what would it look like if we all considered if our friends in wheelchairs could access all the places we could? What would our world look like if we considered our environment and how we exclude others with certain choices?
Whether you have fat friends, disabled friends, elderly friends, or totally able bodied buds with a few needs for their bods – I want to tell you about the things that have made me feel extra loved and cared for. And maybe sharing these things can help all of us think more about how we show love and thoughtfulness to the people we care about.
Seating Adjustments
A few years ago one of my best friends got married and when checking out her venue she realized that the seats seemed a little… fragile. She purchased chairs that matched the venues that were rated for a much higher weight limit for my partner and I so that we could be totally comfy at her reception and it was so thoughtful. I hadn’t considered that we would need that but she did, and it meant a lot.
To be clear, she absolutely did not need to purchase the chairs for us for this to feel thoughtful. Even giving us a heads up, or offering to let us bring our own chairs would have been incredibly thoughtful and would have required no extra monetary commitment. Even better than making sure we had a literal seat at the table my friend made a point to talk to the venue operators about the chairs and point out that she didn’t feel they were as inclusive as they could be.
Seating is always a little tricky for fat people and disabled people alike. So what are we looking for? Sturdy seats that are neither too low nor too high, and plenty wide. Consider if a person’s whole bottom would fit on the seat or if they would hang over the sides, whether there are arms on the chair that would dig into a person’s hips, and whether or not your friend could easily settle into the chair while also being able to get up/out of the chair with ease.
Making a reservation? Give the host a heads up that you have a fat person (you can say “larger bodied” if you’re uncomfortable with the word “fat” – but we should probably deconstruct why it makes you uncomfy at some point!) in your party who needs room to get in and out of the seating area and ask for sturdy seating. I promise once you do this a couple times it becomes second nature, and people in the service industry seem to really appreciate the heads up if a guest needs accommodations.
Making Sure We Can Join You
My bestie got a hot tub. And then my bestie’s husband started looking for stairs to get into the hot tub. And they realized that very few stairs for hot tubs are rated for 300+ pounds. So he got to work building accessible stairs for the hot tub (pictured below)!
Now, again – this type of kindness is not something I expect! The point is that as people who want to host us and want us to join them in their home, our friends considered if there was a way to make one of their purchases more accessible and then acted on it. Now, not only do they not need to worry about us being able to hang with them in the hot tub, they also have a safe way to get their kiddos in and out of the hot tub, and if one of them were to be injured they’d know they can always have safe stairs for enjoying a nice soak.
Making things accessible rarely takes away from anyone. Sometimes it means that you don’t have as many options aesthetically, but having more accessible belongings in your life is often beneficial to more than just a few people in your life – including you! Many of us forget that everyone ages – even those of us who feel like we’re still kids. And with aging bodies, comes needs for accessibility – so considering how to make your home accessible is not just good for fat friends, it’s also a sustainable approach to your future!
Support Inclusive Brands & Get In The Know
For years my sister and I have been buying matching clothes, handbags, and shoes. We are our mother’s daughters and love a little retail therapy. When I began my blog and started talking more about how difficult finding plus size clothing was, my sister really listened.
If you’re plus size you know that our options are lacking, if you’re thin you may not realize how serious the issue is. If I need a dress for an event there are zero options for me within an hour of my home – not even good ol’ Walmart carries my size. There’s no run to target, or a local boutique. If my closet doesn’t have an option that’s it, there’s nowhere for me to turn.
As my sister has heard my complaints, she’s paid close attention to the brands that do serve people my size and she’s decided to start making her dollars count in a big way. She’s made a commitment to try to spend most of her clothing budget at shops that carry inclusive sizing – she doesn’t want to wear anything that I wouldn’t also be able to wear.
That’s a big deal. Imagine the impact we could make if all of our thin friends and family members said “I would love to shop your brand, but you don’t have inclusive sizing!” to all the companies out there that have the ability to make plus size clothing but choose not to.
Another great thing that’s come from my sister paying attention to what sizes brands carry is that our conversations about clothing are not one sided. She doesn’t recommend places she knows I can’t wear. And when I talk to her about how I want a cute jumpsuit and she remembers one she saw at an inclusive store she follows on instagram I am not bummed that it’s not in my size. It makes our relationship and our communication feel more thoughtful and considerate.
Look, your fat pals aren’t asking for you to change your life for them. We want you to enjoy all the same things we do, and we’re just asking for that same consideration from others. I have incredible people in my life that show me time and time again what friendship means, and I can’t help but believe that you probably do too. Perhaps we all just need to share a little more about what would help us and give people the opportunity.
Oh, right – that’s a big part of this my fat angels. You’ve got to accept the love people want to show you. You are not a burden, and people making adjustments to their life to include you is not a hassle. We are all here on this Earth to connect and experience love, and if there are uncharted ways that we can do that it’s up to us to chart those waters together. Showing our bodies love and reinforcing that every body is worthy is something that we don’t only do for ourselves – we can do it for others too.
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Oh God this shit is so slimy and narcissistic. She couches it in touchy-feely language about how accessibility is loving and caring for others. Which, like, nobody disagrees with? Obviously if you have disabled friends and loved ones, you should try your best to make sure they're just as included in your social gatherings as anyone else.
But then she spends the rest of the fucking post basically bragging about how much of an obnoxious burden she is on everyone else thanks to her soda and quesarito addictions.
It's that weird stomach churning narcissist paradox where they love to act all appreciative towards the people who enable them, while subconsciously believing they're entitled to the burdens they place upon their enablers.
There's a big difference between making sure your wedding venue has wheelchair accessibility for your cousin with cerebral palsy vs paying extra for a strong chair for the stupid fat bitch inlaw so that you can avoid both a fatty meltdown and an even worse damage fee from the venue when she inevitably breaks one of the standard chairs.
But then she spends the rest of the fucking post basically bragging about how much of an obnoxious burden she is on everyone else thanks to her soda and quesarito addictions.
It's that weird stomach churning narcissist paradox where they love to act all appreciative towards the people who enable them, while subconsciously believing they're entitled to the burdens they place upon their enablers.
There's a big difference between making sure your wedding venue has wheelchair accessibility for your cousin with cerebral palsy vs paying extra for a strong chair for the stupid fat bitch inlaw so that you can avoid both a fatty meltdown and an even worse damage fee from the venue when she inevitably breaks one of the standard chairs.
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- Jun 30, 2017
FAs are not the only ones to do it (munchies are another, troons and SJWs as well) and what they've done is turn "radical self acceptance" into weaponized narcissism. Basically they write a million words to say "it's not me -- it's always you" when something is not centered around them. "Being a good ally" or whatever just means indulging the most absurd power grabs by the narc. Now someone gimme a stone statue.
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Pube 'stache and pube dewlapbeard is coming along nice!
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Her sister and quasi-BIL must have been so sick of her shit.
Completing the first stage of a piecemeal renovation usually means putting baseboards back in place instead of leaving them lying on the floor (next to the cabinet), temporarily filling any gaping holes in the floor with pieces of plywood; putting light fixtures back into place instead of leaving them hanging by the wires; and putting some sort of trim on the rough edge of the sawed-off countertop so it won't be a splintery, dirt-catching eyesore.
Those things aren't just about aesthetics; they're about safety as well, and there's no excuse for leaving them undone—unless it's the realization that you're being used as free labor by a sanctimonious, unwashed deathpig and her useless eater girlfriend.
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it looks worse????
In Memoriam
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Wow, they totally destroyed their kitchen! Gj girls, now do the bathroom!
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lol fire hazard
Seriously, these two are too dumb to fucking live. Do the bathroom next, please. I wanna see how y'all fuck plumbing up.