so i have heard the word "backseating" used alot and had no idea what i meant so i looked it up. are streams really getting their paints in a twist that people try to tell them how to play? like nigga, you could just ignore them or just say no thank you. no need to make up a hole new word and term to shame people into being silent. maybe you should interact with your viewers more?
if only Spnooy cried backseating when he streamed fallout 2 and told people not to tell him how to play. im sure he would have not been mocked and ridiculed by those toxic gamers.
it seems they making such a big deal over nothing.
I've never been in a position where I have thousands of people badgering me to do something, so I can't tell you exactly how annoying it is or how easy it is to ignore.
But I think if you're watching a stream, telling them exactly how to play the game so you can enjoy it without getting irritated just feels as autistic as it gets.
This is the analogy I like to use. Think of it as the difference between a friend sitting on the couch and bullshitting with you while you play a game, and one that walks up goes "OH BRO, IF YOU DO THIS REALLY ESOTARIC THING ON THIS WALL YOU GET THIS +15 KATANA OF SMITING THAT MAKES THE REST OF THE GAME SO MUCH EASIER!" Except, every time something like that happens, some other gaggle of idiots is spamming something else.
"STREAMER, YOU SHOULD NOTICE THIS ONE TINY DETAIL THAT ADDS SUPER LITTLE AND YOU MIGHT ORGANICALLY EXPERIENCE IT, BUT LOOK AT IT NOW"
"STREAMER, THIS DIALOG CHOICE IS THE ABSOLUTE BEST ONE TO USE FOR THE STORY"
"STREAMER, THAT LAYOUT OF COMPONENTS IS 13.2% LESS EFFICIENT THEN IF YOU DO THIS LAYOUT I'M GOING TO POORLY EXPLAIN, BUT YOU SHOULD JUST WATCH THIS LONG DRAWN OUT 45 MINUTE VIDEO TUTORIAL TO UNDERSTAND IT"
Some people this kind of behavior doesn't work on, like Ame. She actively does the opposite of what backseaters suggest just to piss them off. Her Outer Wilds stream was a good example of this.
However, streamers that either lack the spine or are just generally more apt to want to please the crowd (Kronii and Kiara being the two that come to mind right off the bat), they can be bullied/railroaded, and might kill their overall enjoyment of the game which just ends up hurting the stream overall.
The difference between helpful suggestions and backseating is going to be on a person by person level, but it shoudl absolutely be hammered down and stopped by the streamer to their comfort level ASAP, or the chat will just keep escalating and get autistically insufferable.