Kelly Lenza / LividLipids / softbodytendermind / ass_child / photopotamus - "Radical body liberationist”, Intentionally Repulsive, Uber woke middle-aged SJW influencer wannabe, doxed her former therapist for getting WLS, ate her way to heart failure

...alright, I'm still on the “t-shirt with random numbers and words” level of understanding, can someone translate that for me? Seriously, I'm lost; it's something about feeding alright, but what neighbourhood, what does liberatory means; I’ve googled naafa - are they baddies or good ones, who are they condemning?

That costume group lolnoping at her certainly turned her brain in a mush.
 
...alright, I'm still on the “t-shirt with random numbers and words” level of understanding, can someone translate that for me? Seriously, I'm lost; it's something about feeding alright, but what neighbourhood, what does liberatory means; I’ve googled naafa - are they baddies or good ones, who are they condemning?

That costume group lolnoping at her certainly turned her brain in a mush.
For the first image:

NAAFA = National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance. It is the closest thing to an organized fat-acceptance lobby and employed Julianne (girlfriend to noted cow Ragen Chastain) until she became too fat to work a few years ago. Anecdotally (more specifically, based on the account of one skinny guy who went there for the lulz) it is truly horrible - weight can never be the problem, they claim to get triggered by others getting weight-loss surgery, and even shun members who are not fat enough for the group (again, based on the guy who was there for the lulz an obese woman who was attending a NAAFA conference broke down crying because she was not fat enough to be in the in-group there anymore).

Liberatory = Contrived, pretentious way of saying "liberating".

Putting these together makes me think she or somebody she supports got chewed out by a group (which may or may not be NAAFA, she is so weird that I just don't know if this is all meant to be an allegory for/distract from something else) and she thinks it is narrow minded to not consider all the nuances inherent in getting rid of a nasty person.

For the second image: She is claiming that kink/BDSM is very, very common among fat people to the point that being anti-BDSM is equivalent to being anti-fat. Apart from being really gross this is also hypocritical of her - if we are supposed to be paying attention to nuances, smearing anyone who is anti-BDSM sure sounds like the exact opposite of that.

Also I can't prove it but I suspect this is not just about the costume group: She had no problem doxing her therapist so it seems out of character for her to come up with all this fat liberation drivel as a cover for complaining about them.
 
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Honestly, I can't figure out whether, by "fat kink," she means fatties with kinks, or fatties who enjoy being the fetishized subject of others' kinks. She's so far up her own ass, she's not making sense to anybody but herself.

@Crepidodera fulvicornis , NAAFA (National Association for the Advancement of Fat Acceptance) almost never get mentioned in the highly politicized FatLib social media circles Kelly hangs out in. It was originally founded by middle-aged white guys with fat wives who fetishized fat women, which makes it problematic, even though social media fats owe it a huge debt.

I have no idea whether Kelly has a problem with NAAFA or not, or what exactly that problem may be, because she's not stating her complaint clearly. I'd have to go digging to see if they have some sort of anti-kink or anti-fetishism stance they've come out with recently, and honestly, I don't care enough to bother.

What I do find laughable is that, for someone who claims to have "long Covid" so badly, and is debilitated by it, she's got enough energy to throw a fit about fatty kink-shaming. Or that she was outraged at not being embraced by and made a leader in the historic costuming community—something that would require a talented, organized person to expend a considerable amount of energy. If she's so sick, why is she concerning herself with these things, and putting her limited energy into them?

She's an isolated, friendless Narcissist, desperately seeking attention and validation, not getting it, and it's driving her mad, so she's lashing out in random directions, hoping something gets a reaction. And @rocknrollmartian may be right, in that elevated BG levels may be playing a role in her agitation and incoherence (I mean, she posted a pic of her lunch, which was a grilled cheese sandwich and a pile of fries, which is hardly a diabetic-friendly choice).
 
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Practice what you preach, you fucking whale.

Congratulations Kelly. You are the entire deathfat white woman stereotype. Feeder fetish and all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Yes this shit is super harmful. Anytime someone keeps projecting this stereotype it's harmful. This is one of the "kinks" in many bdsm communities that is no no. To them killing your partner is not a kink.
To me, one and their partner are supposed to progress mentally, emotionally, spiritually individually & together. With the right partner capable of being better people today than yesterday so one can be a better person tomorrow than they are today together and separate. Regardless of weight... does deathfat feeder fetishism sound like that?

The tiniest % of deathfats are into or agree with this fetish. Sure the bopo movent but so many don't like their body and get uncomfortable with it being fetishized. Many deathfat women are simply hiding under the fat from trauma & abuse.

Women in general who want to be fetishized is a small %. Strangers aren't wanted in our inbox. Half the time we just smile & nod hoping another man doesn't speak to us.
No? Just me?

Kelly you are a fucking moron once again. jfc. Yes people are always going to go off about people slowly killing their partner or hey their children.
I think Feeders are sadistic psychopaths who enjoy the feeling of power that humiliating and harming another person gives them.
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Kelly is writing this shit like this cause she is a narc and totally oblivious how obvious her narcissism is to other people. She can't understand why people would give her shit for it.

Her narcissism is the same level of Chantal's and just like Chantal she thinks that if it applies to HER it must also apply to EVERYBODY ELSE and they are just lying that it doesn't. Theory of Mind, how does it work?

It would be utterly hilarious if she didn't have kids she is currently fucking up with this shit. I always wanna laugh about her, but then I remember she has small kids and it makes me sad.
 
Practice what you preach, you fucking whale.


I think Feeders are sadistic psychopaths who enjoy the feeling of power that humiliating and harming another person gives them.
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Kelly is writing this shit like this cause she is a narc and totally oblivious how obvious her narcissism is to other people. She can't understand why people would give her shit for it.

Her narcissism is the same level of Chantal's and just like Chantal she thinks that if it applies to HER it must also apply to EVERYBODY ELSE and they are just lying that it doesn't. Theory of Mind, how does it work?

It would be utterly hilarious if she didn't have kids she is currently fucking up with this shit. I always wanna laugh about her, but then I remember she has small kids and it makes me sad.
Her kids are too young now to understand a lot about mom, but if these posts still exist when they get middle school age, the humiliation and shame will be unbearable for them. Even as an adult, I wouldn't want to know if my parents were into BDSM. I honestly don't want to know if any of my friends, family, my kids' teachers, my dentist, etc. are into it, either. That's why keeping your sex life private is a good thing. TMI makes things awkward. If I found out someone I knew was into a kink that I find gross or unethical, it would affect how I view them.

Kelly does seem especially unhinged in these last few posts. Makes me worried that, at the very least, her kids are getting screamed at if they bother her for something. Fortunately, she might have a hard time chasing them down to do physical harm. Or, saddest of all, her kids might be in extra quiet mode because they can tell when Mom is enraged about something. That would mean they've learned they have to walk on eggshells around Mom or face the consequences. :(
 
Her kids are too young now to understand a lot about mom, but if these posts still exist when they get middle school age, the humiliation and shame will be unbearable for them. Even as an adult, I wouldn't want to know if my parents were into BDSM. I honestly don't want to know if any of my friends, family, my kids' teachers, my dentist, etc. are into it, either. That's why keeping your sex life private is a good thing. TMI makes things awkward. If I found out someone I knew was into a kink that I find gross or unethical, it would affect how I view them.

Kelly does seem especially unhinged in these last few posts. Makes me worried that, at the very least, her kids are getting screamed at if they bother her for something. Fortunately, she might have a hard time chasing them down to do physical harm. Or, saddest of all, her kids might be in extra quiet mode because they can tell when Mom is enraged about something. That would mean they've learned they have to walk on eggshells around Mom or face the consequences. :(
I'd worry that the kids aren't getting fed or watered while Kelly's having her little 'away with the fairies' moment personally.
 
I'd worry that the kids aren't getting fed or watered while Kelly's having her little 'away with the fairies' moment personally.
Don't worry. I'm sure the fridge is packed with random juice boxes or Capri Suns and the pantry is stocked with fruit snacks and chocolately granola bars for the kids. Children of narcs or (often) co-dependent narc/doormats relationship parents quickly learn to feed and water themselves. Kelly is a shit parent, but I doubt she'd be able to stand even a single snack item being out of stock in her kitchen.
 
Don't worry. I'm sure the fridge is packed with random juice boxes or Capri Suns and the pantry is stocked with fruit snacks and chocolately granola bars for the kids. Children of narcs or (often) co-dependent narc/doormats relationship parents quickly learn to feed and water themselves. Kelly is a shit parent, but I doubt she'd be able to stand even a single snack item being out of stock in her kitchen.

Or she hides them away from the kids and it's her own personal private stash. May just be a freezer full of hot pockets and dyi for the kiddos.

Kelly reees online nonstop and we have witnessed that when others do that it doesn't stop there but laps over into meatspace as well. No doubt the kids get the shit end stick of her narc rage. Most likely in extreme passive aggressive forms. "Mommy loves you so she's doing ____. It's for your own good. If you love Mommy you would do ______" Narc mom dynamics with kids are the fucking worst. Check out a Facebook group called Daughters abused by their Mothers. It shows a lot of this family dynamic and tons & tons of Kellies. Then go to Parents Abused by their Children. Sure there are some serious cases of Abuse (you can ping those easily with kids who have ODD etc... But you can pin point the Kellies in there too whose children abandoned them because they're asshole parents)

At Hazel's age if Kelly isn't cooking or supplying them with food as the freezer full of hot pockets and corn dogs empty in the slightest (all it would take is one time Kelly fucking up and after observing this vile creature I can see it happening more than once when she was too young to even tend to her own microwavable needs) Hazel can feel food insecure and eat until her stomach is ready to burst. Also a diet of microwavable foods for multiple meals daily for kids is what started the trajectory for mshpl patients.

No doubt Kelly shares the food or snacks she's eating at the time with Hazel. Hazel appears to be the golden child for now. Her sister doesn't appear to give as many fucks and even at such a young age the black sheep can figure out the family dynamic and mentally say fuck you I don't want to be like y'all.

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Lol okay I'm officially done with my random biweekly or so dose of Kelly. I think she's the only person here who actually makes me mati. Shanny too (Shanny I can laugh at though most of the time) I just can't point and laugh here. Probably because of former career and the kids.
 
Her kids are too young now to understand a lot about mom, but if these posts still exist when they get middle school age, the humiliation and shame will be unbearable for them.
I don't even think they'll need any posts. They are either going to realize that their mother is deeply fucked up based on how she behaves towards them, or they're going to become just as broken as she is and no collection of horrifying online content will be enough to make them see the problem.

I feel for them, because either way, they're in for a rough early adulthood.
 
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Wow, she indeed went full retard into “Im gonna make y'all feel disgusted and uncomfortable” with this shit.
It’s like in Recoil song, “I want to swing with my eyes shut and see what I hit”. She thrives on making others disgusted and unable to say that because that’s not really liberatory k. So she’s trying to offend someone, anyone, to take back control. Seeth, cope, struggle to breathe, Kelly :heart-full:

Ladies of the historic dress community, you can’t imagine what you’ve accomplished, hats off to you.
 
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Wasn't it Kelly who either wanted or has a sex swing? I can just imagine her family walking in on that.
She said she wanted a harness, but not sure if she never went though with it. The general consensus was this:
I'm not so much worried about the harness.

I'm worried about the fucking support beams it's going to have to be attached to. Those had better be some stable 4x4s. 2x4s aren't going to cut it.
I tried to find if she ever actually got the harness (whether for sex or not), but I'm not finding anything. Jerry won't look at her, so it's not like there was any point in her getting one except to scare the kids.
 
Uh Kelly... loads of people are into gross body stuff and find it fascinating and funny (or horrifying) I do, and anyone who posts in this subforum does too, otherwise we wouldn't be here reading it. The difference is that neither I nor anyone who posts in this thread posts lewds of our melted candle tits or mirror selfies in the bathroom with a caption about flinging period blood all over it on a public instagram account.
 
"I bring superfan energy to my friendships"
Right. Narc "love-bombing," you mean.
She's definitely ranting about something other than just the costuming group. This latest unhinged series switches from "victims of (unnamed vaguepost) aren't really victims, and their predators aren't really predators" to "how can predators change if you aren't patient with them and nice to them??" So Kelly, which is it? Is your vaguepost predator victimizing people or not? Anyway, predators don't "unlearn" their behavior. They learn to better hide it.
This heifer really has lost it this time. Whatever has her triggered, she's too coy to be explicit about but salty enough to scramble and invent elaborate cope in public. Lol, and furthermore, lmfao
 
She must be pissed off with some fellow SJWs or people from a minority group. She's vague posting because she cannot outright name and shame them, she knows that if she attacked a BIPOC/trans/fat etc person she'd be inundated with hate and she'd come across as a racist/transphobe/fatphobic etc.

Remember when she doxed her poor psychologist because she dared to have a weight loss surgery? She had no qualms doing it because she knew her online pals would defend her and join her in her insane attack.
 
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