Yaoi is about smooth feminine boys doing love, kissing, and holding hands.
Bara is hyper masculine genre. It's about massive hairy men fucking each other brutally, often non consensualy, involves bdsm elements, and general ideas of putting human body to the limit. You can tell it was written by someone in a rutt.
Speaking of sex change surgeries as expression of psychopathy it was in fact originally a punishment for sodomites, and was also a morbid idea in literature and media forcing someone into a sex change. It would be such a nice return of karma if ghalagher was forced into sex change herself. Cut those milky udders up to the rib bone, graft her whole leg for neophalus, and administer high dozes of t and hgh so that she get that masculine neanderthal face bones.