I keep saying I'm done ranting about this and then both Contra and Olly say within a few days of each other that they don't care about TERFs. I'll keep it brief but to slightly PL as a person from a non-white non-western background you just have to get exposed to disparaging and even outright genocidal comments on the internet, including here on KF. I can stand it just fine as some random who wastes time online, but not only is it too much for these people to listen to things they might not want to hear from women but they go out of their way to be extra condescending towards them without even bothering to hear what they have to say.
I'm glad that these people are so bad at managing themselves in front of people they can't help but be offputting even when they're pretending to be innocent victims of genocide or whatever.
Fr.
It’s a fucking bore that there’s racists and idiots on here soemtimes, thankfully they always out themselves with their absolute obsession with not talking about anything else or seeing things through a very fixed prism.
Even as a bog-standard white woman, there’s fucking terrabytes of hate written about you every day- you just don’t interact, don’t pay attention, and hope that the very worst of it is put forth by people so twisted as to not have any real control of your life; though by sheer volume and longevity of the archetypes, there is a drip-drip effect;
terf rhetoric on the other hand, is not only much smaller and more measured but it has no hope of erasing the privilege they already have.
Is it any real surprise they can cope tho?
These are the guys who freaked out so much they got in line to cut their dicks Of, ten minutes into people starting to take the piss out of them a bit- rich white men.
@AssignedEva
' It only stopped when by a wonderful miracle they got hit by a lorry and died. Occasionally I go to their grave and smoke a cigarette while staring at it. '
My Queen.
The one Sure-to God narc i ever really had a strong relationship with, I once pulled out of the way of a bus about a split second before it ploughed into him.
I genuinely regret noticing quickly enough to do that, one other, much nicer person would still be alive.
He's currently in Iraq, Larping as an assassin lmao- though by now he's surely in Ukraine.
VERY similar to Olly btw, posh bpy went to posh school but larped as revolutionary to the tune of completely reframing everything in his life- and no one wanted him to, he was just obsessed to do it. in fact, his little private school were rivals with Ollies (there's like two here)
the biggest test for 'is this person a narc?' is wether or not you feel EXHAUSTED after any time spent with them- even if you were technically having a nice time/ not doing much- you will still feel utterly drained for days.
you will need to take big gaps from them, much to thier displeasure, they will be harrassing you to come round again instantly.
God help you if you get into a relationship with one.
the one i mentioned above- i am friends with all of his ex Gf's. They described fights that went on for DAYS like 72 hour, no sleep, locked in a room fights.
he cut me off entirely when it became clear i knew way to much about his machinations and wasnt about to cut people off as per his instructions.
hopefully he'll be killed in a warzone fairly soon- this isnt just for everyone elses sake, but his own.
it must be exhausting being him, and he wends a trail of absolute destruction.
I've a feeling Olly's 'abusive' ex was simply his only long term relationship, and someone who managed to get away from him.
So, the stories begin, and they are happy to call you anything up to and including a murderer to anyone who listens.
Meanwhile, clap back is not only a risk but utterly irrelevant, as anyone you actually care about or respect knows fine well exactly who is likely to be lying.
images are from his Elon Musk video)
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