Community Tard Baby General (includes brain dead kids) - Fundies and their genetic Fuckups; Parents of corpses in denial

[Chickensandhawks]

I really think Paisley (Prayersforpaisley) has it the worst. She is non-verbal, can’t hear without a hearing aid, has poor vision, eyes don’t track correctly, cannot breathe on her own, cannot eat, cannot move, cannot sit, stops breathing and turns blue when she has to poo, tongue doesn’t fit in her mouth so it’s constantly sticking out.


This is an excerpt from a mother who had therapeutic termination of her baby when she was diagnosed at 20 weeks.

“The next day the geneticist confirmed our fears. Yes, our little girl had this horrible condition. She had stunted skeletal growth with short arms and legs, a flattened spine, and a ribcage that would not grow to accommodate her lungs. She would die within hours, days, or weeks after birth from respiratory failure. Then came the dreaded choice. Carry to term and watch her die; run more tests to confirm the diagnosis, induce labor and then watch her die; do a D&C; or induce labor now.

Of course we loved her so very much, we didn't want her to suffer.”

She is Catholic but didn’t want her child to have a life of suffering so she made the very difficult choice of having an abortion.

Paisley’s mom, Melissa Courson, refuses to see anything through her daughter’s perspective and would rather have her daughter suffer in pain with every breath that is forced into her tiny body. Melissa is only doing this to selfishly save herself from saying goodbye.

 

[Blanche]

The testing process and support for autism in schools are a bit stupid, I think. It goes like this.
Kid disrupts class and is pretty obviously a sperg. Teacher goes, “hey, this kid is hitting and running away from the classroom and mushing his lunch into his hair.” Guidance wants you to give the kid a sticker chart like he gives a fuck about stickers. Shockingly, the behaviors continue/get worse. After fighting all year they finally test the kid for five minutes and say, “Well, yeah that’s the autism.” The teacher says, “Well, yeah. He only eats gummy worms and mustard.” And then they give him an IEP/504 that says he must have the sticker chart that doesn’t work and extra time to take tests that he doesn’t use.

People say Chris would have been better off if the school helped him. I doubt that. Unless your kid is non verbal and in the life skills/EC classroom, nothing is done to help.

Sorry to derail a bit.
Poor little potato baby.

No sticker charts. Given IEP and extra class time for testing in a quiet room, calculator provided for anything with math- multiple requirements to graduate removed and the teachers know not to call on you since you're spaced out half the time anyway. One period a day with a tutor, where they half-assedly 'guide' you through classwork and are rude if you don't immediately get it. Painfully blunt comments on IEP report.

 

[Bad Take Crucifier]

You can clearly see in the photos that her skin is fucking blue. Horrific. I imagine that Paisley has to constantly suffer completely blacking out due to lack of oxygen, and it does not appear that her parents care or understand her distress. I'm still horrified from that clip where they take off her oxygen tube so she can "practice breathing on her own"... with basically no lungs.

 

[GenociderSyo]

You can clearly see in the photos that her skin is fucking blue. Horrific. I imagine that Paisley has to constantly suffer completely blacking out due to lack of oxygen, and it does not appear that her parents care or understand her distress. I'm still horrified from that clip where they take off her oxygen tube so she can "practice breathing on her own"... with basically no lungs.

The mother has commented at least 3 times of having to ambu-bag her due to stopping breathing even on the vent. She actually made posts about how pooping would cause her oxygen levels to drop so far that she would need to be manually resucitated.

They are now taking her on some trip. She showed how one of their checked bags is just all of Paisley's medical supplies.

 

[Jeep1971]

The mother has commented at least 3 times of having to ambu-bag her due to stopping breathing even on the vent. She actually made posts about how pooping would cause her oxygen levels to drop so far that she would need to be manually resucitated.

They are now taking her on some trip. She showed how one of their checked bags is just all of Paisley's medical supplies.

That last photo of hers makes her look like a zombaby. Her eyes are filmy.

 

[nosferatu]

No sticker charts. Given IEP and extra class time for testing in a quiet room, calculator provided for anything with math- multiple requirements to graduate removed and the teachers know not to call on you since you're spaced out half the time anyway. One period a day with a tutor, where they half-assedly 'guide' you through classwork and are rude if you don't immediately get it. Painfully blunt comments on IEP report.

Elementary school vs high school
By the time you get to high school, they just want to push you out. The maturity helps with the mushing lunch into their hair and hitting. Unfortunately for ES staff, the kids just keep doing it.
I feel bad for all kids involved. The autist has no idea why he can’t read like the others (despite day dreaming about sharks all day) and the other kids don’t know why he won’t stop attacking them and breaking their shit.
Separate schools sound like heaven but I don’t think most parents go for that anymore. Full inclusion it is!

 

[Thomas Eugene Paris]

Not sure if this qualifies as tardbabies, but I dont know where else to post this.
This is insane.

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Meh. I mean they're gross people, who literally created a jewelry brand and an associated pumpkin-spice-tinted social media revolving around their dead kid, but the kid is dead, not a tard, and apparently simply died falling out of bed.

Looks like they had a 2 year old they left unattended on a bed he rolled off and injured his neck and had a traumatic brain injury. He survived 3 days in PICU. They had no health insurance so had a gofundme done which gained them 70K. Now they sell jewelry.

What? Sounds suspicious as fuck imho. There’s got to be more to that story or they killed him. Was the bed two stories high? A two year old rolling off a bed is not an uncommon occurrence, but it usually results in a little bump on the head and few tears if anything - not broken neck /death. Toddlers are engineered for falls and tumbles.

Something about that cemetery photo shoot for IG reminds me of Darlie Routier’s graveyard birthday party for the local news station.

I've been incredibly suspicious of these people since they first came up on my Instagram. "Falling off the bed" is the oldest story in the book to cover for non-accidental injury or abusive head trauma (AHT). Think about how big the average toddler is. Now think about how high the average bed is. It is just not possible for a small body to gain enough velocity falling off of something so low to to be injured so severely. The laws of physics apply to Mormons, too.

However the injury happened, I'm confident that it wasn't quite how they say it did. It's baffling that the emergency room physicians and hospital intensivists, who are trained to recognize AHT, appear to have bought the tired old story about the kid falling off a bed. Seriously, I cannot emphasize enough that almost everyone who shakes a baby to death or nearly so tries to explain the hallmark pattern of injury by saying the child "rolled off the bed".

If the parents had been brown instead of blindingly white LDS people with a temple recommend, I guarantee one or both would have been charged with something.

@eternal dog mongler and @cuddle striker what say you? Are you suspicious of this couple and their explanation of the mechanism of injury?

Also their kid's gravesite is tacky as hell.

 

[GenociderSyo]

Separate schools sound like heaven but I don’t think most parents go for that anymore. Full inclusion it is!

It is moreso that most seperate schools were shut down cause of the "Inclusion is best" movement. Inclusion is not always best and some children just cause the entire class to gain nothing for the class year.

 

[keyboredsm4shthe2nd]

I really think Paisley (Prayersforpaisley) has it the worst. She is non-verbal, can’t hear without a hearing aid, has poor vision, eyes don’t track correctly, cannot breathe on her own, cannot eat, cannot move, cannot sit, stops breathing and turns blue when she has to poo, tongue doesn’t fit in her mouth so it’s constantly sticking out.
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This is an excerpt from a mother who had therapeutic termination of her baby when she was diagnosed at 20 weeks.

“The next day the geneticist confirmed our fears. Yes, our little girl had this horrible condition. She had stunted skeletal growth with short arms and legs, a flattened spine, and a ribcage that would not grow to accommodate her lungs. She would die within hours, days, or weeks after birth from respiratory failure. Then came the dreaded choice. Carry to term and watch her die; run more tests to confirm the diagnosis, induce labor and then watch her die; do a D&C; or induce labor now.

Of course we loved her so very much, we didn't want her to suffer.”

She is Catholic but didn’t want her child to have a life of suffering so she made the very difficult choice of having an abortion.

Paisley’s mom, Melissa Courson, refuses to see anything through her daughter’s perspective and would rather have her daughter suffer in pain with every breath that is forced into her tiny body. Melissa is only doing this to selfishly save herself from saying goodbye.

The worst part is if you look at her eyes, you can see what appears to be consciousness (I don't think kids with her condition live long enough to be classified as retarded or not) and you can SEE the fucking pain and suffering in her eyes. Her prolonged existence ought to be classified as a crime against humanity.

 

[GenociderSyo]

The worst part is if you look at her eyes, you can see what appears to be consciousness (I don't think kids with her condition live long enough to be classified as retarded or not) and you can SEE the fucking pain and suffering in her eyes. Her prolonged existence ought to be classified as a crime against humanity.

There is one or two in teenage years that are mildly to moderately retarded. And one that is normal intelligence in early 20s who seems to be an outlier.

 

[Android raptor]

It is moreso that most seperate schools were shut down cause of the "Inclusion is best" movement. Inclusion is not always best and some children just cause the entire class to gain nothing for the class year.

The opposite extreme isn't exactly great either, where kids with issues are just warehoused at daycare for problem kids instead of getting the help they really need. Lotta kids who are acting out due to a bad living situation or other trauma who are just written off as bad kids or w/e. And of course all kids who end up in sped tend to get treated like defective morons, regardless of IQ.

My favorite thing I remember being written on one of my IEPs was one from when I was 12 or so that describef my interest in anime as "inappropriate for a girl her age". Because no 12 year old girl has ever been interested in anime apparently.

 

[Fiat Lux XOXO]

I really think Paisley (Prayersforpaisley) has it the worst. She is non-verbal, can’t hear without a hearing aid, has poor vision, eyes don’t track correctly, cannot breathe on her own, cannot eat, cannot move, cannot sit, stops breathing and turns blue when she has to poo, tongue doesn’t fit in her mouth so it’s constantly sticking out.
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This is an excerpt from a mother who had therapeutic termination of her baby when she was diagnosed at 20 weeks.

“The next day the geneticist confirmed our fears. Yes, our little girl had this horrible condition. She had stunted skeletal growth with short arms and legs, a flattened spine, and a ribcage that would not grow to accommodate her lungs. She would die within hours, days, or weeks after birth from respiratory failure. Then came the dreaded choice. Carry to term and watch her die; run more tests to confirm the diagnosis, induce labor and then watch her die; do a D&C; or induce labor now.

Of course we loved her so very much, we didn't want her to suffer.”

She is Catholic but didn’t want her child to have a life of suffering so she made the very difficult choice of having an abortion.

Paisley’s mom, Melissa Courson, refuses to see anything through her daughter’s perspective and would rather have her daughter suffer in pain with every breath that is forced into her tiny body. Melissa is only doing this to selfishly save herself from saying goodbye.

Paisley's parents are simple folks unable (or maybe unwilling) to see things for what they are. The mom chalks everything up to "God's plan" and throws temper tantrums whenever someone tries to question her beliefs. The paradox is that she is going completely against God's plan, because if it wasn't for Paisley's trach and tubes, she'd be long gone. To be fair, though, she's a 10x better mother than Robyn (Luna's mother), who's not only delusional but likely a hardcore narc. I do see humanity in the Coursons, and I attribute their desperate attempts at keeping Paisley alive to low IQs and self-serving religious beliefs.

 

[Chickensandhawks]

Paisley's parents are simple folks unable (or maybe unwilling) to see things for what they are. The mom chalks everything up to "God's plan" and throws temper tantrums whenever someone tries to question her beliefs. The paradox is that she is going completely against God's plan, because if it wasn't for Paisley's trach and tubes, she'd be long gone. To be fair, though, she's a 10x better mother than Robyn (Luna's mother), who's not only delusional but likely a hardcore narc. I do see humanity in the Coursons, and I attribute their desperate attempts at keeping Paisley alive to low IQs and self-serving religious beliefs.

Yeah now that you say that you’re absolutely right! Melissa really does believe she’s doing the right thing but she is a low IQ and uneducated person. She also seems to have developmental delays herself, she talks and behaves like a 13 yo girl when she’s over 30 years old. Her poses, posts, and reels seriously reminds me of girls in middle school.

 

[Fiat Lux XOXO]

Yeah now that you say that you’re absolutely right! Melissa really does believe she’s doing the right thing but she is a low IQ and uneducated person. She also seems to have developmental delays herself, she talks and behaves like a 13 yo girl when she’s over 30 years old. Her poses, posts, and reels seriously reminds me of girls in middle school.

Absolutely. I don't even dislike her the way I dislike Robyn. Your screenshots say it all... From what I've observed, she's stubborn and immature too. Her husband, like many husbands of these types of dominant personalities, is a follower and enabler although I do think that he's got a much better grasp on reality than she does. Too bad he has no say in anything, if he did, perhaps things would be different.

 

[CaseyTatumm]

I've been incredibly suspicious of these people since they first came up on my Instagram. "Falling off the bed" is the oldest story in the book to cover for non-accidental injury or abusive head trauma (AHT). Think about how big the average toddler is. Now think about how high the average bed is. It is just not possible for a small body to gain enough velocity falling off of something so low to to be injured so severely. The laws of physics apply to Mormons, too.

However the injury happened, I'm confident that it wasn't quite how they say it did. It's baffling that the emergency room physicians and hospital intensivists, who are trained to recognize AHT, appear to have bought the tired old story about the kid falling off a bed. Seriously, I cannot emphasize enough that almost everyone who shakes a baby to death or nearly so tries to explain the hallmark pattern of injury by saying the child "rolled off the bed".

If the parents had been brown instead of blindingly white LDS people with a temple recommend, I guarantee one or both would have been charged with something.

@eternal dog mongler and @cuddle striker what say you? Are you suspicious of this couple and their explanation of the mechanism of injury?

Also their kid's gravesite is tacky as hell.

I thought the same thing as well. My toddler recently did a face plant onto our wood floor off the bed. It was probably a 3 1/2 foot fall, other than her tooth splitting her lip open she was totally fine.

An infant may have been more injured falling from a bed but not a mobile toddler. I can’t really even fathom how a two year old could fall that hard. At that point they’re trying to brace their fall with their hands. That kids death is absolutely sus.

 

[Android raptor]

If the parents have money and/or sway in the Mormon church that probably has a lot to do with why the fall from the bed explanation was just accepted. People in positions of power can easily get law enforcement to look the other way even with blatant signs of child abuse, see also: the Duggars.

Hopefully the case is able to get a second look from authorities.

 

[Thomas Eugene Paris]

There is one or two in teenage years that are mildly to moderately retarded. And one that is normal intelligence in early 20s who seems to be an outlier.

Or misdiagnosed. There are a ton of rare skeletal dysplasias that cause thoracic insufficiency, and some of them are phenotypically indistinguishable. Molecular diagnostics was much less sophisticated even twenty years ago, and even now, it's difficult to diagnose these super rare entities. Most of the time, the clinician has to have an idea what he or she is looking for in the first place (building the probes, etc.), and for a lot of these disorders, it doesn't matter if you diagnose it as asphyxiating thoracic dystrophy or TD because your patient is going to die in the neonatal period anyway.

 

[AnOminous]

Hopefully the case is able to get a second look from authorities.

Or maybe they did a thorough investigation and ruled out wrongdoing. It does sound suspicious, but it sounds so suspicious it would almost have to trigger an investigation. I assume there was at least a medical examination postmortem as well as medical records. What you'd get falling off a bed isn't going to look like what you'd get from being beaten.

Or there might have been negligence not rising to a criminal level. Shit happens.

I know from about two on, from being told so, that I was a whirling dervish who was constantly careening around crashing headfirst into things, figuring out how to open the kid gate and then falling down the stairs, getting into the electrical box and turning off the electricity, etc. I don't even remember any of this, I may have been told tall tales, but it's nearly impossible to keep a kid completely 100% safe. They will find incredibly creative ways to injure themselves.

Other than the Mormon thing and the inherent suspiciousness of "fell off a bed and died," there's not really strong evidence they're guilty of anything.

 

[booklover]

When I was a kid in the 1970s, there was a residential facility for "emotionally disturbed children" in my neighborhood, and the higher-functioning kids went to school with us. (The facility had its own school for kids who weren't ready for regular school.) Most of the kids had been in and out of foster care all their lives, but I can think of two in particular who were almost certainly on the autistic spectrum - one a boy, one a girl, and both had some degree of intellectual impairment. Most of the time, we couldn't tell the kids were from there until they told us, but there was one thing ALL of them had in common: No matter how intelligent they were, they were always performing at several grade levels behind their actual age.

There was also a boy who we were told, in those pre-FERPA days, had "childhood schizophrenia" and he was sent to a state facility. Whatever normal is, he definitely wasn't, although his sister was.

ETA: After he was sent away, his sister's school performance improved drastically.

 

[MysticMisty]

It is moreso that most seperate schools were shut down cause of the "Inclusion is best" movement. Inclusion is not always best and some children just cause the entire class to gain nothing for the class year.

That was the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act. When IDEA replaced EHA they decided to close most dedicated tard schools and put everyone into standard sped classes and more speds into regular classes because they redefined what the least restrictive environment should be. They had good intentions to give higher functioning tards and autistics the chance to interact with their peers in a normal school (or even the opportunity to just go to a normal school) like normal kids. This is good, especially for the higher functioning group that can perform basic tasks and need role models on how to act like normal people, and also give regular kids a chance to see that tards are people too.

In practice however you get kids who have no business outside the sped class, or even a specialty school, being pushed into the regular class and ruining things for the kids who can actually learn. Like when you wheel in the near-potato profound kid who has never indicated he even knows what a school is, let alone that he's there all day, to shriek and bite and hit himself while the normal kids are supposed to learn and take tests. It's technically the least restrictive environment, but is it the ideal environment for someone with his level of disability? No, of course not.

I can guarantee that IDEA is how the Chandler's were able to avoid Greene County's requirement to put him in the special school, even though they had to change counties to manage it. They just had to go to someplace else that agreed that a special school wasn't the least restrictive requirement and therefore wasn't necessary. Not that Bob 'n Barb would've enforced/encouraged anything he learned at a special school at home anyways.

extra class time for testing in a quiet room

The mainstreamed autistic kid in my 2nd grade class had something like this in his IEP. This was back in the 95-96 school year so obviously no one told us he had autism, because this was back when if you asked why someone was obviously different the teacher would snap that it's none of our business and stop being nosy. Though the teacher did have to admit that yes, he is different in a "special" way one day after we were shoved out of class when he started to tantrum and destroyed the class one day.

But anyways, that year we had 5 minute math quizzes every Friday, and the only way to become exempt was to consistently score high enough very test and prove to be a math genius. Except for him, he was instantly exempt, and if you asked why the teacher would snap that it's none of our business. And having graded his regular math tests on more than one occasion I can say that he definitely did not have the stereotypical autistic math Rainman genius going on either. Quite the opposite actually and hence why he was exempt from the weekly quiz in hindsight: because he was shit at math and a slow test taker and therefore the weekly quiz would be too mean.