Sorry to grab this from a few pages back but these kinds of tweets from Kevin and his ilk are the ones that always fascinate me the most.
Not only can he not understand the idea of loving, or even just liking, yourself but he's actively mocking and openly hostile towards the idea. It's so beyond his ken that people can accept the base they're given and spend their lives maintaining (staying healthy, hygienic...), improving (working out, learning new skills, finding ways to maximize your given strengths and minimize your flaws....) and customizing (hair dye, tattoos, piercings...) it that he acts like not even considering redesigning yourself from scratch is somehow ignorant.
It really is telling at just how much Kevin and his crew hate themselves to the point of being angry at the very idea that other people don't. Accepting the parts of us we can't change doesn't mean not growing or pushing your own limits, but is just a mature and realistic way of recognizing your own strengths and weaknesses.
To prevent this from becoming a mirror version of a troon word-salad I'll give an example of what I mean:
Let's say you're really good at basketball but not super tall:
Giving in to your flaw would be quitting playing altogether and bitching and moaning about how unfair it is for your entire life. If you're really bitter about it you may even try to get the game itself changed (I guess in this example it would be lowering the nets?) in a grotesque mockery of "inclusion" when in reality you just want the world to cater to your whims with the lowest amount of actual effort.
"Re-Rolling" as Kevin would put it would be getting experimental surgery and growth hormones to make yourself taller, thus fucking up your health and body to the point of preventing you from ever playing again but hey, when you stand up from your wheelchair your height sure does match the new one on your license.
Accepting your flaw would be understanding that you can still play the game, and still be really good at it, but you're not going to be the guy dunking it. Maybe this means compensating with better aim, or practicing your footwork so you can dance around others but the point is you know your height isn't changing, you know this gives you a disadvantage but you're still doing what you love and still rocking it.
To me that is by fair more admirable, more mature and leads to a much happier existence than just getting what you want now now now. People like Kev though would rather scream that it's unfair though because in their heads they're the main character and what's the point of something like basketball even existing if they can't be the ones dunking the ball and being called a superstar?
No species on this planet is meant to "re-roll", customizing your characters is a (relatively) new privilege in already unreal settings and doesn't translate into real life anymore than wielding a sword the size of Andre the Giant does and yet with Kevin's attitude towards it all he acts as though not being able to do so (or at least live out the fantasy that he's doing so) is a violation of his
human rights.
Another analogy I pull out a lot for troons is this:
Imagine you were born in Canada but always felt in your heart of hearts that you belong in Germany. You will always have been born in Canada, you will always have spent the years there that you did, living as a Canadian, but if you put the work in, learn the language, learn the culture, move your butt there and integrate you could potentially both socially and legally become a German citizen.
You know what
won't get you what you want though? Moving there and demanding all the Germans around you speak english to accommodate you, or constantly complaining that its not fair that you have to work so hard while some children just get to be born and raised German. No lies, papers or cosmetic changes will alter the fact that you were born in Canada, but that doesn't mean you can't be happy in Germany, it just means you have to accept that the path to get there will be a little harder to walk and a bit more twisty.
(drunken edit: This is an analogy, not a power level.)
