"So I guess they want guys like me in the ladies room? How does that keep anyone safe?"
First off, you don't look like a man, you look like a standard butch lesbian with ugly glasses and a PCOS beard. If you look feminine in a carefully posed photograph, then I can only imagine how much more womanly you look in person. No lady would care that you're in the bathroom.
Second, this stupid argument ignores reality. If troons pass so well, then why are we even having this debate? If they pass and are just taking a piss, we wouldn't even know that there are troons in the bathroom in the first place. The reality is, the vast majority of MtF troons do not pass, and women don't feel comfortable doing their personal business with a MAN in a small closed off space.
Men are on average taller and stronger than women, and men commit the majority of sex offenses. For centuries, women have learned to be cautious around men they do not know, and for good reason. You don't even have to be taught this, women will very naturally learn that there are bad men out there and they can easily hurt you. This isn't some silly white cis het west cultural idea, this is something EVERY woman from every country, race, and religion knows to be true.
And yet, we're expected to take this instinct that is meant to keep us safe, and ignore it. lest we hurt the pervert's feelings.
