On one hand, it's less emotional labor you need to invest if there's other people also contributing to it. If you're an emotionally stunted shit, I guess that could be appealing.
Nah, Kevin is too fuckin lazy to actually put any plans into motion. If anything he’ll bitch and moan on twitter about missing the city without making any moves towards getting back. Can you imagine Kevin taking the time to pack up all his plastic crap? He could never.
Where’s that tumblr screengrab where a normie explains to a nut that a “queer platonic partner” is actually just a best friend
Incel bullshit. Before I couldn't get a girlfriend so now I will have ALL the "girl"friends!!
Everything needs a stupid ass name now. Another good, but unrelated example is Narcissist and Autosexual or bisexual and pansexual. Its like they're allergic to just calling a spade a spade.
An auto sexual is a compulsive mastubator right
There used to be special places for autistic schizophrenics, until Tip O'Neil fucking ruined everything.
Autosexuals are attracted to themselves, so they're just narcissists essentially.
Quantity substitutes quality.
He doesn't have a lot of dilating experience either.
Oh, wow, you are like not being heckin validating right now at all:
Your second point is the more relevant one to this case and arguably most of these relationships as a general rule, but as far as the first goes there are a few good reasons for not being polyamorous not the least of which is actually two people dedicating themselves to a healthy, functional relationship that adequately addresses each other's needs and offers mutual support. I'm sure there are people who will swear up and down there's plenty of support between all the members of a polyamorous relationship but most of what I've seen tends to look like "one main squeeze with a bunch of side dishes that a given member will partake in when the main squeeze isn't in the mood/is too much hassle at this moment" which doesn't really line up with any idea of a healthy relationship I've ever seen.
It just sounds like they want to follow on from the idea of “highest form of love” or “agape”.
If you’ve ever tried to be friends with people like this, they’re basically terrible friends. They call everyone their friend but don’t invest anything in the friendships. They can’t commit to any plans or follow through with anything they say they’re gonna do. If you try to have a conversation with them it’s all about them.
Just another thought or two to toss out there among all the differing theories - polyamory seems to be the "new" thing along with having DID and Autism. It's been built up as this "ideal" love where no one is jealous and everyone just supports each other getting more "love" - but I've literally never seen one of these scenarios last very long because as much as these folks want to be iconoclasts, none of them have the maturity and communication skills to actually maintain multiple relationships let alone one. That, to me, seems to be an underpinning reason a lot of folks do this: lack of relationship skills coupled with a pathological fear of being abandoned (classic BPD shit). Lots of "relationships" means that they don't have their eggs in one basket, so to speak, and allows them to just turn to a different partner when they've mucked shit up with one.
), for whatever reason, Kevin always looked genuinely happy in photos with him and Wedge together. Compare that to Wedge, who always looked disinterested and clearly only saw Kevin as a way to get free food and money. It was obvious the relationship was one sided but Kevin was too stupid to realize it.