The latest gettr drama is that Joey Brite tried to have a trans widow committed. Is it true? Who knows?
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The latest gettr drama is that Joey Brite tried to have a trans widow committed. Is it true? Who knows?
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No Joey did not 'conspire' to have anyone committed to a mental institution! You all bought the re-written narrative of master manipulator Sierra Weir again! What came out of Sierra showing all those screen shots and reinterpreting them and inserting HERSELF into the victim narrative AGAIN was that we learned she herself has a brother who HATES her and would LOVE to see Sierra institutionalized. THAT is how she hijacked the entire conversation and took away from the torment that UTE HEGGEN was for weeks then months in late night drunken sounding emails and blog posts with barely veiled warnings of self harm. Here's the full story:
#GCJewGate2022: Dissecting a Legendary Battle
#GCJewGate2022 Four months in the making, this is an attempt to unravel the wreckage that became of several individuals, and give a huge shout out to the one who acted as 'the only adult in the room' when the dust settled. After piecing together posts from Gettr, YouTube, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, private email exchanges, chatter on two Discord groups, two slack groups & one private Zoom group, I did a deep dive on what became known as
#GCJewGate 2022. I met with 5 other women who also had been in a similar place in wanting answers to questions about how the whole mess surrounding Ute Hegen (aka Karen Ranney), Karen Davis, Alix Aharon and Joey Brite occurred and then Sierra Weir, (aka Exulansic) became involved. Then the horrible smear campaign against Joey Brite instigated by Sierra became a second part that I'll explore here. Our investigative group was made up of Americans, a Canadian, a Brit and one Israeli.
Three of us are Jewish and our my main subject was Alix Aharon, aka the Gender Mapper or Gender Mapping Project creator. Full disclosure - I was a big supporter & could be again if she weren't so cold. I really support her cause (abolition of gender clinics) and Joey Brite has the same mission. I'm an American and have admired Joey since she created the Can I Get a Witness conference and other projects stemming from that. I became a big fan of Only Enemies and was already missing fresh content when
#GCJewGate2022 hit in late March, 2022.
If you are not familiar with this ugly chapter in the GC world particularly in America, let this serve as a record of condemnation for any women:
A) That choose to follow content creators that seem to promote a woman-centered agenda but really are looking for financial support to spout whatever it is they believe their followers want them to spew., and they employ coercive control tactics (Sierra are you reading this?) to test their followers.
B) Who join in pile-ons of other women without knowing full details about the given situation, especially when the 'cult leader' they are following DIRECTS them to do so. Hint: ANY pile-ons are a terrible look for a person's character. It kind of places your integrity right in the toilet (Sierra are you listening?)
The shortest version possible: In March 2022 Alix Aharon apparently had enough of Ute Heggen, aka Karen Ranney, an American Jewish convert, misrepresenting all things Jewish. Ute is a major manipulator who had a story to tell: 30 years before she left a terrible marriage with a terrible man - an AGP - and her two grown sons sided with her ex and she was now wanting to vent all about it to the world in book form, even though her Wordpress blog was already doing this. She managed to insinuate her needy personality into Karen Davis' 'You're Kidding, Right?' You Tube channel and KD was too stupid to notice what a racist user and narcissist Ute was/is. All Ute wanted to do was promote her upcoming book to a desperate audience of AGP hating women and she was shaping her future audience of sympathizers. She became a semi-regular for almost a year on KD's channel. Then she began butting in on other conversations in social media about this book she was going to have published. She used this term 'Grass Widow' claiming it was Jewish but it isn't. She was spewing Yiddishisms all over and trying to get a little devoted group of 'Transwidows' under her spell and force them all to use 'Grass Widow' instead. I spoke with one who refused to join that group who said that "Ute has mental problems that run very deep and she even brought up suicidal ideation about standing on the Brooklyn Bridge thinking about jumping about twenty years ago. She brought that up several times and as a psychotherapist, I knew she was trouble trying to lead a support group of wounded women. I warned those that would listen but she had a couple who thought of her as some kind of Saint. She was creating a little cult. What's worse is that some women who aren't even transwidows felt sorry for her and she became like a wounded victim they wanted to nurse back to health - into the arms of GC women who thought they could save her wounded soul. That these women could not see what a master manipulator she is was frightening."
Many of us Jews could see that she was constantly trying so hard to get everyone to go along with her rouse about being more Jewish than anyone else (converts tend to do that). Ute's venom helped spawn the assistance of a creepy little group called HEARSHE, HEARSHE headed up by an anonymous woman named Shannon. Shannon issued a mass email that called for 'The Scold's Bridle' - a curse that harkens the days of capturing unruly women and placing them upon a bench and hammering a large nail through their tongues in the public square. (NOTE: 'The Scold's Bridle' is actually her motto! CREEPY AF!) (Looks like the ladies over at Advocates Protecting Children did not vet their guest when they platformed her in June!) This public curse was cast upon Karen Davis, Alix and Joey for the crime of...being 'evil' to 'an elderly transwidow'! (Ute BTW is only 65 years old so...'elderly'?? Really??) A facebook page even sprung up that cursed the three women and a bunch of us got it taken down within 24 hours. Disgusting HEARSHE women. And Shannon is another deeply wounded and creepy AF ROGD mom who was looking for attention. She speaks in emojis like no one else I've ever seen! CRAZY.
Ute was and is no feminist or real ally to women. Alix (who is really Jewish) publicly stated that Ute was not actually Jewish and she did this on Gettr on March 23, 2022. Either Ute saw it but would not admit it or someone told her about it and she began a war against Alix in her Grass Widow blog. Note: Later, Alix would claim that there was a large group of Jewish women who felt just as she did about Ute's misrepresenting Jewish culture and that she was the one who finally decided to say something publicly. My question to Alix is, "Why didn't you do this as a group then? Why would you think it wise to do this on your own given the fact that you know how online pile-ons are common?" No 'group' ever came forward to support her. This was really not thought out and it caused a lot of grief for other Jewish women to see the ignorant onslaught that went on next. Our little group applauded Alix at first because Ute's stupid tirades on social media were so anti-semitic it was tiresome. We had no idea she had not thought it out better though and she ended up looking badly. It was sad to witness.
Joey Brite who was also on Gettr let it be known as well that she also rejected Ute's claim to being a Jew. Although Joey isn't Jewish herself I find her sensitive to the issue of appropriation and so it made sense to me that Joey also added her voice to this topic. (Truth be told we also reject Ute as being Jewish and was turned off to her the moment she showed up on Karen Davis' channel & began pushing her shady attention seeking all over). So Joey and Alix apparently know each other IRL and that added to the support Joey gave Alix.
But this rejection of Ute's chosen identity (Yes we are 'born-not-worn' believers and anti-semite Sierra Weir can fuck herself) went from a couple of simple pretty benign posts only on Gettr to a livestream on KD's youtube channel with Ute starting trouble in the live chat before KD even went live. Ute typed in more than one message telling everyone (in the third person no less) that 'Ute is Jewish!' and that was super creepy. She began egging on Alix who showed up in the live chat and at first Alix ignored the constant taunting but then had enough and 'bit' as she later admitted she wished she hadn't.
A bunch of onlookers became participants after that livestream and began spreading their opinions all over Gettr. The anti-semitism was off and running with all kinds of stupidity and ignorance of this online gang. This brought up new trolls from anti-semite hell and the anti-semitism was already coming from Ute herself in the private emails to Alix and Joey as well as her own badly written blog. Then after that livestream KD got involved (she blamed Alix for starting the whole thing) because she had to get brought up to speed about the harassment Ute had begun via emails to both Alix and Joey that were daily and relentless. Ute had a little girl gang going and all kinds of new accounts cropped up and began harassing both Alix and Joey. Both began getting slammed with crazy shit emails from Ute and Ute went nuts in her blog about Alix's birth family and used the family surname when she found that out.
Ute began a witch hunt for every distant male relative of Alix's family in the New York area (where Ute lives) and contacted them telling in detail how horrible Alix had been and that her family should be shunned. It turned out that Alix's family surname matched that of a rabbi that had also rejected Ute over 20 years ago! She lost her mind plain and simple and word spread to Israel and had a negative impact on Alix's months of work there.
Ute then added KD to her target list because she got mad that KD did not support her doxxing of Alix. Ute all of a sudden began demanding that money she had GIFTED KD be returned. Ute's blog posts and emails began taunting and threatening KD as well as she now turned what had clearly been gifts that she wanted to be paid back in full. She was so stupid to post the receipts of her cancelled checks because anyone could see she wrote in the memo on one (something like) 'PR-Book Promotion' for $2,100.00 and on the other 'BDay Gift' for $300.00. Then Ute trashed KD as a thief and her triangulated emails became riddled with just enough mention of self harm that set off alarm bells for anyone who saw them. Ute became ramped up with anger and the regularity of these emails and blog posts mainly had a pattern very late at night and the writing was 'drunken' and mean spirited. Ute decided she was on a mission to destroy Alix, her birth family's reputation and drag along any angry AGP-hating feminist that would join her. KD, Alix & Joey received daily emails for months.
At some point though a decision was made to try and find someone - anyone - who might be able to influence Ute to delete a large number of damaging blog posts and actually see if she was experiencing a mental meltdown that could push her to self harm as she had reminded readers of her blog she was capable of following through with. Now someone knew her former husband's name and those of her sons and how they could be contacted and at some point KD hinted in a video that she herself knew that information so we're assuming that is how Joey followed up on contacting these men. Joey made reference to hiring a detective at some point but later said she never hired anyone and didn't need to but had just stated that to throw off any heat from the real source. (It HAD to be KD. KD and Ute didn't live that far from each other and Karen made reference to knowing Ute's personal details like who her AGP ex was, her son's names, her address, etc. all stated in videos). NOTE: The recent weird packages KD has received make it all the more clear how well KD knew Ute's residence address in Kingston, New York so keep this in mind reading forward.
The ex and the son were both contacted using LinkedIn and Joey claimed that she wrote to both the ex and one son and did so "to try and stop the bleeding" of the potential damage being done to Alix & her family. Joey also wrote that she "was concerned for the mental health of Ute and thought perhaps she'd been on medication and stopped taking it or might at least need a professional medical examination for fear of committing self harm". THAT explains the use of the term 'hospitalization' that Joey chose to use and then Sierra in-turn revealed (without permission btw) to the public. The public was treated to Sierra's interpretation of the 'evil' that lurked inside Joey and a group of women turned into sheep-people and didn't care to consider the source or her agenda in doing this very ugly deed. Our group and many others do understand why Joey made that fateful choice. We believe her and having been in a similar situation one time myself, I get why she made that decision. But anyone who has spent more time creating connections online as opposed to IRL seem to be out of touch with the actual physical experience of what it means to live in a community. Women see one thing and make snap decisions and seem to thrive on grabbing on a negative path to take good people down. They don't need context, they just jump to conclusions that help them feel alive in a gang that serves no good purpose.
Now the worst part comes in: enter Sierra Weir, aka Exulansic (read that last part as 'SICK'!). Joey had met her in person a couple months before. After the lunch they shared Joey reported having spent 2.5 hours with someone she did not find any connection with except that they were terfs living in the same town. She had hoped for an ally to do political actions with locally but Sierra is agoraphobic (so she claimed), so that was out of the question. Joey's main deal is being a grassroots organizer so Sierra wasn't going to be any help that way. Now anyone who has watched Sierra's videos can see what a total mess this woman is and her rants about CAIS and her constant victimhood about how people 'oppressing' her because they think she's Jewish is one of the most depraved online acts I've ever seen coming from a woman who's supposed to be a terf! Just grossly misrepresents so many things including the use of the English language! She thinks she owns it! But somewhere in the connection they did make, Joey got an email from Sierra who asked her what was really going on with all the gossip online about Ute, KD and Alix and the Jewish angle. Then because Joey had had a few decent email exchanges with Sierra and they had some contact in New York just a couple weeks before in person, Joey made the very big mistake of forwarding Sierra screenshots of her communication with Ute's son. She thought that would explain to Sierra what the backstory was about and understand the desperate move to contact former family. But Joey could not have made a worse assumption. Instead of confiding in what she mistook Sierra for as an ally in understanding the very real predicament Ute was placing everyone in and her fear that Ute had been presenting suicidality in her writings and wild behavior online, Sierra reacted in the way she does best: SHE CENTERED HERSELF. She read the word, 'hospitalization' that Joey used (meant to suggest perhaps Ute needed to be observed by a medical professional who understood what psychotic breaks actually look like), and Sierra created a narrative so vicious that depicted Joey as an 'abuser' and 'a collaborator with the enemy' (an AGP and a misogynist son). 'HERETIC! SHE NEEDS TO BE CAST OUT! SHUN HER!'
Sierra has got to be the most anglo-religious terf I've ever seen! And her stereotypical version of a millennial claiming to be 'triggered' couldn't be clearer! Really tone deaf when it comes to taking care of business in real world relationships. (We later found out that Sierra has a Lutheran background as does Ute!) Only the most vile use shaming the way Sierra does. Sierra began teasing out her anger at Joey using Gettr as her primary platform at first and gathering her online girl gang. She decided to make up a ton of lies about Joey being an aggressive sexual predator who pursued her apparently relentlessly and was a danger to women. She set about publishing an essay in her Substack to 'prove' it and made not one-but-three videos to 'prove' it some more! Sierra showing all the texting between herself and Joey and re-interpreting the exchanges to suit her own narrative was gold in showing what a narcissist she really is. As one commentator on KD's COMMUNITY page wrote:
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Neucleus: This all seems to have occurred when the use of Yiddish was criticized. Exulansic made a substack post and video about it, clearly annoyed. She took it weirdly personally. Everything else seems like vindictiveness on her end. I don't know why she ignores claims of Ute doxxing someone. Her faux outrage is selective. Her 'issue' with Joey Brite is a pathetic joke. There's clearly more going on there than she will admit. Both Ute and Exulansic are weird as hell and not in a good way."
This really got out of hand (of course - it's the CAIS bone all over again) and Joey issued an email to ask some supporters if they would please help her get the first video removed from Sierra's Odysee channel. Joey sent out screenshots on the process for removing that ONE video, and then a leaker sent this to Sierra. Sierra then turned the message into 'Joey's trying to get me deplatformed from my channel!" instead of the real ask. This created the other 2 videos and more evil attacks from women online with nothing better to do than be vile followers of this dangerous cult leader. Sierra then made sure to spread all her bile on every social media platform she has (Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, private groups and her Odysee channel). You'd think the woman had been raped or something. Really crazy shit she's made of. But we all saw her insanity in the months leading up to this latest drama and how she just would not shut up about CAIS individuals. She convinced all these viewers that she was an expert in that topic as well as several others and the simpletons just followed like the sheople they became. This brought out the worst in some women who had before seemed to have more integrity but now...they just couldn't help but join in the witch burning. Several popular names in the CG world spewed garbage attacks at Joey. They had a purpose and a target to hate. And they all lent Ute their support because their leader directed that was what was necessary and because Ute needed to be protected from any 'bad' people like Joey. One of the only well respected public figures to come forward to condemn Sierra was Jennifer Bilek and her words awakened a number of other women to the mean girl gang that was fomented by Sierra. That was brave of her and a rare thing for her to step forward like that. Sierra was still made of stone though and showed how cruel she could be instead of paying attention to someone much brighter and knowledgeable about life. Again - she's a millennial with no sense of community, ethics or standards of care with an additional problem of grandiosity and narcissism that is off the charts.
Sierra became a huge supporter of Ute and the ironic thing was that in the course of all this anti-Joey smear campaign, Sierra did discover that 'Grass Widow' actually is NOT a Jewish phrase at all and had to break that news to Ute. Ute watched like an audience member all the drama going on and she stopped sending multiple emails after a while. Her sidekick was doing the damage so she could rest up for a bit.
What did we learn from this disgusting campaign of jealously and hatred Sierra had towards Joey and hijacking the entire conversation that was begun by Alix's bold act to even call out Ute's anti-semitism?
HERE'S A GREAT COMEBACK FROM A FREQUENT YOUTUBE COMMENTATOR AFTER ALIX POSTED HER COWARDLY MISSIVE On KD's COMMUNITY PAGE & THEN BASICALLY DISAPPEARED FROM THE SCENE ALTOGETHER:
GenderMapper 2 months ago I am of course saddened to read this content, but I understand that Ute is coming from a very troubled past with a Jewish man and clearly has feelings relating to that. I completely forgive her for her words and wish her nothing but the best.
Ayesha de Queiroz 2 months ago That’s great for you and your image, but it does nothing to address the wreckage that was the consequence of standing up for your self. Do you see the bomb blast in America? We have to live with it while you can focus on some other content. It’s our movement that directly impacts our lives in our country. Everyone ignored the danger you faced in your country because they don’t live your life or know what you're working on, and instead focused on your attacker as the victim because your attacker said so. You had every right to stand up for yourself and set your boundaries, and Ute's and Sierra's reactions were not your fault, they were always going to get triggered eventually. I’ve been on the internet longer than many of you have been alive. Throughout the decades the first thing anyone did if someone became crazy, dangerous, and caused real world harm to others or themselves, their parents got a phone call. That’s the way it’s been done for decades. Families are called to stop dangerous behavior, but this time it triggered those who are susceptible to that behavior. How could you know, in a movement that comprises disordered and traumatized women. Other women aren’t here to clean up the wreckage of this while you pretend this isn’t happening and you don’t have to deal with it. You don’t get to skip out on the resolution by “forgiving” your abuser to placate a mob. Where are all the Jewish women that should have spoken up? Did they not want to risk reputation damage for doing so?
WHERE WE ARE NOW #CGJewGate2022
* In the aftermath,
KD published a few very ugly 'Catnip' videos but seemed to become nervous all of a sudden and began putting out more serious relevant content. She and Sierra have a pretend support with each other online that is very quiet as we think KD is scared of Sierra finding out that IT WAS ACTUALLY SHE (KD) THAT PROVIDED THE INTEL FOR CONTACTING UTE'S EX FAMILY. KD lost a ton of viewers in the shake-up with a few loyal hangers-on, but more got to see what a vicious woman she really is. She's dropped going after Genspect but that was one of her best moments. She keeps talking talking about organizing a protest but has never actually made it happen. HINT: She's NO leader except in a rock band where she can boss men around. KD has no women friends it seems which is unfortunately a serious problem for a number of these straight content providers. She wants to make money from her viewers to cut her time in substitute teaching so there's a survival goal for her in this.
After being quiet about the whole mess with Ute for a bit, KD then recently (in July) published images of a weird package she received by USPS that she clearly insinuated was sent by her former semi-regular guest. KD decided to use this surprise as content for the public to see again just how crazy her former non-friend is: the package was labeled for Joey Brite with a non-existent address but a RETURN ADDRESS of KD herself. Of course it appears to be a copy of her horrible GRASS WIDOW book which we're sure Joey would only care to burn if she ever saw one. KD & Joey seem to have no contact and when KD was asked in her COMMUNITY page if she contacted Joey about this creepy package, KD did not respond. Someone in our group reached out to Joey to ask if she was contacted by Karen about this and she replied she had not received any notification from KD and was surprised to learn of this development. (Upon posting this we learned from KD's COMMUNITY page that she received ANOTHER creepy package from Ute who refers to herself as THE BIG NANNY GOAT who is still waiting for her gift money of $2,400.00 to be returned!) Anyone who STILL doesn't get the capital 'C' in CRAZY that is Ute after all these months and her on-going displays of lunacy can go fuck themselves. The more we see her stalking abusive creepy AF behavior the more we understand the psychological torture she put all three of these women in and why it was decided that Ute just might have warned them of potential self harm. Imagine if none of them had tried to reach out for help and she actually offed herself? Would you be blaming them of her suicide a well? Of course you would! Of course....
*After weeks of torment and public shaming and lies about Joey's character,
Sierra finally moved on from direct harassment of Joey and continues to produce content on Odysee as she's been kicked off youtube now three times and has lost a lot of donations as a result. Jazz Jennings became her next 'bone' and she decided to venture out in public two more times since her tirade against Joey began. She attended the WLRN Women's event Madison in April as a last minute additional presenter and is rumored to have begun a romance with a younger woman who is a devout follower of the self-ascribed religious leader. (No kidding! Sierra has created an entire religion and she IS the leader). (Of course it would have to be this way! The devotee is a detransitioner who is ripe for being groomed, too!) Sierra was then added (last minute again) to the Sovereign Women Speak weekend in June. As more than one attendee from both events described these unusual outings for the agoraphobe, "It's good women are getting to meet her in person because they see her for who she is - a creepy slimebag!" (Note: It was after these events that a private Zoom inviting Joey was called for to give her support. Joey turned down the invitation and we understand.) Then Sierra's next act came in this form: Sierra seems to still be struggling to figure out how to be relevant, so she's decided now to claim that she's a 'detransitioner'! She isn't. Never was. All she did was attend gender studies classes, hang out with enbies, cut her hair short and wear some boy's clothes for a while. She still has detractors who go after her on Gettr and she still pretends to be an expert on the one true meaning of things like one on Gettr said to Sierra:
Katethegr8Jun 23Replying to
@exulansicEqual and the same are not the same word, even if you have the same motivation. Which I also think maybe you just didn't want your period to interfere with your sex life. Depo isn't good for anyone either, even if it still helps you. I sometimes feel bad for coming down on you so hard but your opinion about the treatment of intersex people just really changed my mind about you. I think your problem is you think same and equal mean the same thing. Intersex is totally different than transgender. You want unfair treatment for people who had no choice, and you don't think you're wrong for that and you are. You don't understand true exceptions.
In our group, we believe that Sierra's decision to center herself in this whole thing should serve as one more warning to anyone who 'follows' her. She's flat-out dangerous, arrogant and really very ignorant when it comes to human interactions. There's no way Joey ever came on to her and Sierra went so overboard to try and prove it that even her followers began to shrink away into the shadows.
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Alix came on like a firecracker with her announcement of rejecting Ute's claim of being Jewish and held strongly to that, but it was unfortunately short lived. Her venturing to show more warmth and become friendly with her supporters fizzled into apologizing instead and she quickly disappeared. She deleted her account on Gettr and began randomly doing frenetic live streams on her You Tube channel deleting some for unknown reasons. When someone asked her on her You Tube channel if she was going to do any more Only Enemies with Joey, she never replied. Her Facebook account had already been disappeared off-and-on and her private Gender Mapper workgroup page there was left without her input. (One of our group investigators was a gender mapper volunteer for a while. She's left with no answers or follow-up from Alix about the project and a bad taste in her mouth about Alix's leadership). Her Gender Mapper Twitter was where Alix could express herself at times, but after
#GCJewGate2022, her content changed. She began inserting more Jewishness in her tweets as if she was repenting her recent 'sins'. Shortly after the initial disappearance from the mess, some of her Twitter feed indicated the weirdest support for a misogynist Orthodox Scottish man who posted a selfie while on public transportation dressed in the fetishistic religious gear for Orthodox men. The gear includes wearing black straps that are wrapped around one arm and attached to little black boxes (called 'tefillin'), and these contain scrolls of prayers. (This is a practice that is not supposed to be bragged about publicly btw. This man has posted anti-woman statements so seeing this from Alix was disturbing!) Then she got banned from Twitter. It was predictable and took her a short time to reappear on Gettr again, but this time as Gender Mapper, not Alix Aharon. Her return to Gettr saw her posting a big announcement that she was going to be working with non-affirming American psychiatrist Dr. Miriam Grossman. She said that there were going to be conferences on ROGD, webinars, etc. and she was excited to share this news. This looked promising but then she deleted the post with no mention not long after posting it! No comment as to why but she's known to do this fairly regularly on social media. Looking back on Ute doxxing Alix, it is totally creepy that Ute brought Alix's birth family last name up to everyone's attention and focused on it so much. Ute is a loose canon though and vindictive so the details she released were all part of her trying to intimidate Alix. But at the same time, Alix does seem to have been careless about her other public names as all it took were a few clicks for us to find the social media account of her husband - or ex-husband our Israeli group member believes, and a photo of her son. (I'm not revealing that here as she doesn't need the grief, but it IS weird she hasn't gotten those things deleted). All-in-all Alix's Gender Mapping Project was a great contribution to the gender abolition movement, but anything else she does seems to be either behind the scenes or on her website. Her YouTube content is still sketchy to date, she's had Jennifer Lahl on twice now and a horrible promotional video with the 'Embodiment Queen' (aka 'KnownHeretic' who's got major psychological issues. She like a modern day sales rep for a weak brand of self indulgent navel gazing workshops for American women to join in on 'empowerment' - but the false kind). Alix's best stuff has been on Buck but much is repeated. Some got deleted by YouTube and it's sad because Buck is only gaining in her influence. Alix should focus on her heavily and actually script her segments. She isn't present as a part of Partners for Ethical Care (PEC) which is where she really got her start and she recently admitted on Gettr that researching porn did damage to her brain. She does seem to be a bit frazzled in the live streams and lacks the joy she demonstrated when paired with the outspoken and warm attitude Joey showed with her in Only Enemies. She will never gain the audience of a Kellie Jay because she shares nothing about her personal life at all. Every bit of her has become a nervous hair-and-wig flipping exercise and vaping on screen as her stammering has become worse. We hope she'll get back to some very focused content but for now she seems to be shrinking in repeating her on-going critiques of creepy TRA's and woke TV hosts instead. Her interaction with viewers seems shallow and with no real personal connection, her best content exists in print rather than videos. The consensus our group has is that Alix chickened out by apologizing at all and this just adds to the impression that she's not all that tough and that maybe her Orthodoxy takes over when the going gets rough? The main issue seems to be that she's trying to operate from two different worlds that she struggles with that are living inside her and this is not a sustainable position to be in.
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Joey seemed to be left holding the bag of blame when it came to contacting Ute's AGP ex and son. This was really a shame since there were obviously a number of women who understood immediately why it was an important - if also a risky choice to make. She appeared to have suffered a big slump in the live chats in her channel and far fewer viewers. She had to block a number of accounts in all her social media but continued to produce work online as well as her grassroots activism. The conversations she's been having published on her channel show consistent care and she has reported receiving apologies from several women who took part in the pile-ons, but she's also turned down a few interviews to talk about
#GCJewGate2022. We can almost feel the anguish this must have caused her as the entire thing lasted over 2 months. But she is working with a group of Canadian activists, has several writing projects going on and is consulting on a documentary that is supposed to come out this fall. We wish her the best and can't wait to see what projects she'll be revealing next.
This ugly chapter should be a lesson in how hard it is to create the kind of warriors we need to be in order to fight this social disease. When we have leaders that show more than a sparkle of success and are willing to train other women and lift them up to shine, we more often shoot those women down. Especially lesbians. A lot of women were discouraged by
#GCJewGate2022 and have admittedly dropped out entirely from any activism against gender ideology. Fear of being attacked online became the outcome for many unfortunately. It's only a few who can see the real effort it takes to start the conversation and ask questions before leaping to outlandish conclusions and condemn someone. And that is always our peril as women. It is our downfall as strongly as the women who cradle the creepy AGPs to their bosoms and open the door to them in what should be OUR spaces.
In the end, we support what Joey did. Her actions may have helped prevent a suicide but we'll never know. It never should have been made public and all of you who took part in condemning her can fuck right off. And anyone that did not or has not apologized to her can also fuck right off. Be grateful if you're never placed in the position that these women were placed in by a lunatic.
Again, the same commentator that gave Alix push-back on KD's COMMUNITY page hit it out of the park with this comeback to a Joey-hater:
JudeeSee 3 months ago @Ayesha de Queiroz this whole situation is a sad, sad, shit show. Again I say, 2, 3, 4, wrongs-don’t make a right. Seems to me there is plenty of blame to go around.
Ayesha de Queiroz 2 months ago (edited) @JudeeSee That’s because you don’t know what’s going on, and you decided to listen to someone who also didn’t know what was going on. You’ve been victim blaming and eventually you’re going to be incredibly embarrassed and ashamed. And you should be. Sad shit show is downplaying. I’m not a Jew, so it’s not my place to speak on behalf of them, and yet that is the community in which I spent my youth and have the best memories of. I’m not one to default to accusations of bigotry and racism, I had been dismissing and ignoring all of Ute's red flags for months, so for me to come to the harsh conclusions above is my last resort. This cherry picking victim blaming offers no other conclusions.