Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[L4MM4SU 4 U]

Knew a dude in high school named jarred. He was a 6'2 wide Ukrainian tennis player. He got me into EU4 and a lot of punk music. When I met him I was a freshman and he was a senior. We played games on and off through the school year. After he graduated we didn't talk for a while till we started playing a EU4 game together. Idk how it got brought up but I said something negative about trannies and he went off and told me he was trans and is taking hormones.
I was taken back but just spoke my mind and he just blocked me. Calling me a selfish bigot.

He should be done with collage by now. His study was in dick doctor work (urology?).

what kind of collage is he making?

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

If it isn't some kind of gender-related brain rot, maybe the person speaking is setting up a long con. If the speaker can cite a witnessed history of using "they" for absolutely everyone, then they can't get yelled at for not keeping up with pronouns or not using goofy neopronouns.

They're probably just doing it to be inclusive, though.

You see a boob-having lady flouncing around, wearing feminine clothing and a shit-ton of makeup, and then you get yelled at by the entire online world for calling her "her" because she's a FtM and clothes don't imply gender.

Claiming not to see sex and calling everyone "they" is a good strat in an environment like that, I guess. What a terrible development.

I was gonna say, it's a zoomer thing and appears to be self-protective. There is a tech at my vet's office who aggressively theys even the pets. She is very polite and mellow and does not emit any kind of other red flags- no dangerhair, piercings, attitude, pronoun buttons. She just seems young and petrified and probably got eviscerated by one too many West Coast Leftist Karens.

 

[Ser Prize]

Trans is a cult. If you know someone who runs in those circles they're gonna fall in, generally.

 

[kittyfucker]

I know this isn’t quite what the thread is for, but have any of you got experience with friends who will say “they” for everyone over a call even when said person isn’t a troon and can hear them? wonder what makes people act like this.

I do. Unless it's just me and my friends I do it so I don't get snarkily "um, achtually,"-ed by a FtM and/or my face caved in by a hulking MtF freak

 

[Baraadmirer]

Knew a dude in high school named jarred. He was a 6'2 wide Ukrainian tennis player. He got me into EU4 and a lot of punk music. When I met him I was a freshman and he was a senior.

That's got to be wider than Wide Putin.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

Once zoomer ladies hit their "I don't give a fuck" forties troons and pronouns are gonna get dumped on the side of the road and set on fire. 20 something girls care a lot about being nice and not making waves, have a lot of fear about what happens if you piss off a crank. Old broads get tired of it and start saying "no"- the salt will be delectable.

 

[Apis mellifera]

Once zoomer ladies hit their "I don't give a fuck" forties troons and pronouns are gonna get dumped on the side of the road and set on fire. 20 something girls care a lot about being nice and not making waves, have a lot of fear about what happens if you piss off a crank. Old broads get tired of it and start saying "no"- the salt will be delectable.

Idk, modern gender ideology is like a new-age religion, I reckon there will be some adherents into their forties.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

Idk, modern gender ideology is like a new-age religion, I reckon there will be some adherents into their forties.

Oh no doubt. But the ones who are terrified of accidental misgendering at 21 because they fear being a social pariah are going to care a hell of a lot less about that by the time they hit 50. Just like kids who are afraid of wearing the wrong brand of sneakers- some never grow out of it and become loser consoomers. And others stop giving a shit and just wear what they want.

 

[Uncle Ted's Cabin]

Knew a dude in high school named jarred. He was a 6'2 wide Ukrainian tennis player. He got me into EU4 and a lot of punk music. When I met him I was a freshman and he was a senior. We played games on and off through the school year. After he graduated we didn't talk for a while till we started playing a EU4 game together. Idk how it got brought up but I said something negative about trannies and he went off and told me he was trans and is taking hormones.
I was taken back but just spoke my mind and he just blocked me. Calling me a selfish bigot.

He should be done with collage by now. His study was in dick doctor work (urology?).

I always thought HOI4 was the Paradox tranny maker game.

 

[cuddle striker]

I know this isn’t quite what the thread is for, but have any of you got experience with friends who will say “they” for everyone over a call even when said person isn’t a troon and can hear them? wonder what makes people act like this.

I do this as professional courtesy, and it's carried into my life outside of work. It's simpler anyway, there are too many people who are somewhat indefinite out in the world. Much easier to be gently corrected than angrily clash with someone who is a blob.

 

[L4MM4SU 4 U]

I live in a big city and am surprised I don't see more troons, the only two I know IRL are a friend of a friend who I lost contact with a while ago and my friend in the OP who went to an art school college (so a heavy LBGT prescene already). Then again I tend to steer away from people who set off my crazy radar.

I live in the middle of a European capital and it's crazy how few troons there are IRL yet they seem to make up 75% of Internet moderators.

 

[AMHOLIO]

I live in the middle of a European capital and it's crazy how few troons there are IRL yet they seem to make up 75% of Internet moderators.

There was a hobbyist meet up today in my area and I did see a good few. If you go to a place where terminally online people like to go, from group meet ups to furry conventions to video game bars.

Edit: colleges are another good place.

 

[Darkholme's Dungeon]

There was a hobbyist meet up today in my area and I did see a good few. If you go to a place where terminally online people like to go, from group meet ups to furry conventions to video game bars.

Edit: colleges are another good place.

The fuck is a video game bar? I might live out in bumfuck nowhere in the US but I've never heard of it when I lived in the large cities.

 

[DumbDude42]

The fuck is a video game bar? I might live out in bumfuck nowhere in the US but I've never heard of it when I lived in the large cities.

sports bar except instead of having TVs that show football matches they have screens that show matches from the korean starcraft league (or other competitive game events)

 

[Uncle Ted's Cabin]

The fuck is a video game bar? I might live out in bumfuck nowhere in the US but I've never heard of it when I lived in the large cities.

sports bar except instead of having TVs that show football matches they have screens that show matches from the korean starcraft league (or other competitive game events)

Maybe it's different in Europe, but in the US a video game bar is an arcade that serves alcohol. I believe it is a relatively recent fad.

 

[DumbDude42]

Maybe it's different in Europe, but in the US a video game bar is an arcade that serves alcohol. I believe it is a relatively recent fad.

no idea, never been to either type of bar myself, just know that these exist in some cities

 

[PfromAtrick]

I live in the middle of a European capital and it's crazy how few troons there are IRL yet they seem to make up 75% of Internet moderators.

Welcome to the Internet 2022

 

[Kosmo Kramer]

Spoiler: Massive Powerlevel

In 2017 my sister decided to troon out and things have only gotten worse. Ever since she joined the cult, she's stopped almost all forms of personal hygiene. She's become more depressed, gained weight, showers maybe two times a week at most. A year ago she started sperging out about our family not referring to her by her "chosen" name, and went as far as to say she would distance herself from us.
My mom and dad especially are hurt. They feel betrayed that she wants to undo the name they chose for her, and erase all of the things they did to raise her to be a decent person. Losing someone to transgenderism is something I legitimately don't wish on anyone.
I still blame her friends for making her buy into this shit.

Transitioning is a massively selfish thing to do, and troons don't realize how much of an effect it has on people around them.

 

[Panzerfrau]

Spoiler: Massive Powerlevel

In 2017 my sister decided to troon out and things have only gotten worse. Ever since she joined the cult, she's stopped almost all forms of personal hygiene. She's become more depressed, gained weight, showers maybe two times a week at most. A year ago she started sperging out about our family not referring to her by her "chosen" name, and went as far as to say she would distance herself from us.
My mom and dad especially are hurt. They feel betrayed that she wants to undo the name they chose for her, and erase all of the things they did to raise her to be a decent person. Losing someone to transgenderism is something I legitimately don't wish on anyone.
I still blame her friends for making her buy into this shit.

Transitioning is a massively selfish thing to do, and troons don't realize how much of an effect it has on people around them.

Losing a close family member to something like that is even more painful, I am sorry, hope she will snap out of it eventually

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I'm a tranny widow. Since the topic pops out from time to time in a sideshows thread, I've decided to do a one big post highlighting my ex-bf's best moments to point people to it, instead of powerleveling all over the place and derailing. Come and feast on my stupidity as I've endured a few years of this shit. Divided all of this into categories for your pleasure, Dear Reader:

Spoiler: BPD shit

- he would often say he's gonna 41% if I'll ever leave him, that I belong to him and that I need to leave everything and everyone and come live with him to the "trans friendly country" of his choosing
- he was convinced that sexual orientation isn't a thing and I just need to "stop being so stubborn" and overcome "my christian programming" (I'm not even christian lol) and become a dick-positive lesbian, because apparently "this is what you do when you love someone"
- of course it didn't work, so we had arguments every month or so, during which he would shake his antidepressants loudly and tell me I am the reason he needs to take them, that I am ruining his life and holding him back because of my "rampant bigotry"
- when he joined local tranny support group, he started becoming even more unhinged, acted paranoid about our friends, telling me to stop hanging out with certain people because they "don't seem to be good allies" (never explained what he meant by that, they never did anything transphobic, even gendered him correctly to avoid drama)
- (this was after our breakup) once he had a huge chimp-out about his landlord being a terf and a bigot, because he visited him, saw the typical dirty tranny rest and told him to clean all this shit immediately and pay for the damages
- when his started his medical transition, he had to get a mental evaluation. At first he went to the extremely based, old psychiatrist lady who after a few sessions told him his a fetishists and a walking case study of cluster B disorders and he needs lots, lots and lots of therapy. Of course he ditched her and went to the tranny-friendly one, recommended by Twitter. She told him he's uwu valid and he got estrogen after a month or so. He never went to therapy, but visits psychs for pill-shopping, because surprise, even after transition he's still a depressed train wreck.

Spoiler: gross fetish stuff (islamic)

- he didn't tell me about his troonism until I caught him masturbating while wearing my (way, way too small) underwear; I should've left right then and there, but I didn't because I was a stupid teenager and he damage control'd by telling me it's just an occasional fetish, nothing serious and he will of course stop...
- ...which he didn't, of course, I've lost count how many pairs of my socks and underwear disappeared, how many dresses of mine he destroyed trying to put them on when I was at work
- every time I tried to stop him, his defense was saying it's my own fault because I refuse to buy him stuff. And no, I don't mean I was stopping him from buying it himself, he wanted ME to pick, buy and pay for his fetish uwu girly panties, because he "was scared that transphobes will come and beat him if he would order women's clothes under his name" - I refused every time, which caused even more reeeee'ing
- he wanted to be called "a little girl" in bed and every time I refused, it would kill his boner and send him into tard rage
- after months of harassing me about sex and failing to pressure me into his larp, he switched tactics and started masturbating loudly, sometimes twice a day, with anime porn blasting from his PC
- every time I was hanging with other women he would fetishize it and make creepy comments afterwards, asking me if I was holding hands with them as "cute girls do", telling me I should fuck them and explore my "lesbian side". Bonus story - once I was getting ready to meet with two other girls and he started whining I'm leaving him at home alone to which I absentmindedly replied "oh that's because we're having a girls-only night". That wasn't a fun day.
- once he wanted me to stuck a banana into his ass

Spoiler: views on women

- before he came out as a true and honest strong whamyn, he was a red-pill, sperging incel shit about how women are stupid and incapable, how they live on easy mode, yada yada (I didn't know about his past for a long time)
- after "becoming a girl" he started treating anime girls as his role models
- he never hangs out with women irl because they make him angry and insecure

Spoiler: grooming

- that one Kevv's tweet cracked his egg. Yes, really.
- as every self-respected tranny, he was obsessed with cracking eggs and "helped" a few autistic, nerdy boys on the internet "discover their true selves". One of them get over it after a few years and is fairly normal now, one castrated himself and larps as a catgirl and one became a very suicidal alcoholic, in and out of rehab
- tried to turn me into FTM, because "there's no way you are a cis woman with hobbies like that" and were commenting about my lack of femininity constantly (I never caved in but needed a few years of therapy because of brainworms it gave me about my self-image)

Spoiler: bonus story: transphobic murder arc

I wasted my early twenties on keeping this dumb fuck alive. After living like this for a way too many years, I finally decided to leave. He went into the biggest tard rage I've seen, throwing stuff at me (including a vodka bottle), yelling, all that good stuff. I decided to get the fuck out of there and sleep at my friend's place. She got me a blanket, a few beers, some dumb movie, managed to calm me down... and then I got a message from him - this fucker actually decided to kill himself (or rather, attempt to kill himself to cause drama) and started sending gorey photos of his wrists sliced (to his credit, he sliced it the "right" way and very deep, no sad girl emo butter knife scratches) in our friend group's chat, and telling this is my fault because I am a transphobic bitch. Everything after that is kinda blurry, I remember calling an ambulance, throwing up, blood soaked bathroom I was cleaning the next day while he was live-tweeting his stay at the hospital, visit from a friendly-looking mr policeman. They released him after a few days and this is the part that still makes me mad, up to this day - he was SHOCKED when he saw me packing up my stuff and, while looking me dead in the eye, told me he was expecting that if he would try to kill himself, I would actually change my mind about leaving and stay to "take care about him".

Because of that, I am probably more proficient at killing troons than all Kiwis combined and my kill count is still 0. Man, what a bummer.

TL;DR fuck him I hope he dies, give me all your trashcans and PL stickers

 

[DumbDude42]

@Panzerfrau

- before he came out as a true and honest strong whamyn, he was a red-pill, sperging incel shit about how women are stupid and incapable, how they live on easy mode, yada yada (I didn't know about his past for a long time)

so he was a redpill incel, then switched sides to troon out, and then got a girlfriend (you) ?
sounds like going down the incel-to-tranny-pipeline actually worked out for him lol, first time i hear of a case like that