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@Det. Frank Washington Esq
I'd like to add a fourth, though I'm not sure how I'd label it.
The dishonesty throughout their entire movement. Dishonesty and lying, can very much be seen as a form of aggression.
In this case, forcing others to see them as what they want to be seen— despite actual visual evidence very much suggesting different— and being "othered" and seen as "phobic" the moment you don't. No offense and no aggression meant. A form of psychological warfare to make you conform. A dishonest one though. Trans people aren't more likely to be killed, raped, assaulted. Most lists even suggest the contrary.
Lying to each other about the potential outcomes of surgeries, the amount of side effects and dangers. Lying to each other about passing, about "caring" and being "concerned" — but only about the exact words they use.
Lying to everyone else about the necessity, the side effects, the longtime consequences, the ability to reverse changes, the surgeons and doctors, health care and straight up irrefutable evidence of biology.
It is dishonest in every single aspect. In the rules on their subreddits, their true intentions and the reason for their existence.
The one movement where saying "I will kill myself" isn't met with a "lol, do it" as in other oppressed classes, but with a "oh no, we'll change everything about our language and necessity for medical procedures just for you, pls don't queen/king"
Which should tell you plenty about their true level of oppression.