Thank you.
I am currently withholding judgment on what I can and should release. I do have many photos of she and I together from when we were dating, but from reading this thread it is clear to me that any pictures I share would be used to attack and shame her (and possibly, me) for physical appearance. I'm just not going to go along with that, it's needlessly disrespectful and doesn't achieve any legitimate gains in the discourse.
If I go through my documents some more, I might find something I think is safe to release. But I'm going to be very careful about that, it's not a decision I am going to reach hastily.
For the time being you should take me at my word. There may be things I refuse to answer, but any answers I give will be the truth.
You can look at it that way if you want to -- It's been a long nine years since I made the decision at age 29 to date a 19 year old (not 18 as you said). That's a decision I've regretted, and paid for, severely in the years since.
And I didn't claim prowess in bed, merely experience. The takeaway point is, I'm not so hung up on genitals as it appears you may be.
Sorry for the miscommunication -- We never dated, and never met in person, until after her 19th birthday In March of 2013.
I was 29. It was bad judgment on my part. I regret it, but I do not deny it.