Corissa Enneking / fatgirlflow and Juliana "J" Aprileo / comfyfattravels - Delusional fat-acceptance lesbian couple, junk-food addicts with expensive taste, denied a mortgage due to excessive Doordash ordering

When will Juliana become bedbound? As of January 2022

  • Within 3 months

    Votes: 33 4.3%

  • Within 6 months

    Votes: 118 15.4%

  • Within a year

    Votes: 206 26.9%

  • Within 3 years

    Votes: 140 18.3%

  • Never

    Votes: 21 2.7%

  • Shes already there

    Votes: 247 32.3%
  • Total voters
    765
LonesomeDud said:
hear adults talking about "child parentification" a lot, and almost always incorrectly.
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Boom. For me I prefer the term "emotional support child"
if your parent starts treating you like their therapist
If your parents are dumping all their emotional shit on you
If one parent is just kind of lonely as an introvert while the other is an extrovert and you feel guilty while they're alone all the time so the extroverted one has you "mom sit"

(Can you tell I was an emotional support child)

But then you also do the stuff you're supposed to do as well. Drive to appointments when you can. Wash their hair at the hospital and push their wheelchair. Walk their dog when they cannot.
We shouldn't be so damn unhealthy that we can't do those small things for our ailing parents.


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We're All Going To Hell 2 said:
Boom. For me I prefer the term "emotional support child"
if your parent starts treating you like their therapist
If your parents are dumping all their emotional shit on you
If one parent is just kind of lonely as an introvert while the other is an extrovert and you feel guilty while they're alone all the time so the extroverted one has you "mom sit"

(Can you tell I was an emotional support child)

But then you also do the stuff you're supposed to do as well. Drive to appointments when you can. Wash their hair at the hospital and push their wheelchair. Walk their dog when they cannot.
We shouldn't be so damn unhealthy that we can't do those small things for our ailing parents.


It's good to be back to bitch about these two.
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What you experienced is a subtle form of child abuse, and it sounds like you're a pretty aware, thoughtful person.

Driving my mother-in-law to get her groceries when I would rather watch Survivor isn't abuse or any kind of victimization or me, no matter how many cryptic SM posts I make about how I have the hardest, saddest life. In fact, those children in Calcultta ghettos growing up in near cannibalistic conditions? They just don't know how lucky they are compared to me and J. We are expected to be contributing members of our adult family.
 
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Angry New Ager said:
I see it at Joann Fabrics. Every location seems to have at least a couple of People of Gender on staff, but the one nearest me has two of the saddest ones I've yet seen. They're both young women who have absolutely wrecked themselves by taking T. Neither has had any surgery, and one (who is very voluptuous, if chubby), still dresses and presents as a typical "quirky-retro" girl, just with a disgusting pubic-looking beard on her second chin, and a wispy moustache and cracked voice straight off a 15-year-old boy. She wears a they/them pronoun pin and other trans flair, and just exudes misery. I mean, I can't even begin to convey how depressing her entire vibe and demeanor are to be around just while getting fabric cut; actually living as her has got to be hell. The other one, who makes an attempt to dress like a boy (albeit out of some anime or other), has a raging case of acne that, I'm pretty sure, she didn't have before starting testosterone. Her pronoun pin says him/they, and again, it's like she's wrapped in a fog of despair and it's all she can do to function.

It's fucking tragic. I feel bad for them both. They are not mentally well, but instead of getting proper help they got sucked into an intensely misogynistic gender cult and ended up on hormones that have already done permanent damage. And seeing them makes me despise TIF influencers like Juliana even more, because she's just another emotionally damaged girl who grew up to despise her own female-ness, set out to destroy it, and is using her platform on social media to encourage other young women to do the same.
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Holy shit, do we go to the same Wal-Mart/Jo-Ann?? Of course not, because they're everywhere now I guess, which really shows how mainstream and boring this most oppressed class ever that is constantly being murdered has become. You nailed that description, though, it was spooky.

I'm guessing these girls think that getting a job at Jo-Ann will be cool because they're so ~creative and quirky~ and the word is out that HR is full of pride bullshit and they will let them have their !fun! dyed hair and pronouns or whatever, when in reality the company does not care and it's like working at a CVS but with fabric instead of hemorrhoid cream.

Anyway, back on topic- I truly do feel for every one of them, but yeah, there's a line that influencers like Julianna cross when they start becoming aggressive gender propagandists and trying to actively brainwash people. I still pray for them but my heart goes cold. They aren't just confused or fleeing pain then, they're preying on people for their own satisfaction and gain.
 
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We're All Going To Hell 2 said:
Boom. For me I prefer the term "emotional support child"
if your parent starts treating you like their therapist
If your parents are dumping all their emotional shit on you
If one parent is just kind of lonely as an introvert while the other is an extrovert and you feel guilty while they're alone all the time so the extroverted one has you "mom sit"

(Can you tell I was an emotional support child)

But then you also do the stuff you're supposed to do as well. Drive to appointments when you can. Wash their hair at the hospital and push their wheelchair. Walk their dog when they cannot.
We shouldn't be so damn unhealthy that we can't do those small things for our ailing parents.


It's good to be back to bitch about these two.
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Yeah, I guarantee what little J can do for her parents is not child parentification or whatever that was. She would be bitching up and down about it, like they bitch about everything else in their lives. The fact that she hasn't mentioned this shit before tells me she's just a lardass who hates doing anything at all for anyone else.
 
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LonesomeDud said:
Driving my mother-in-law to get her groceries when I would rather watch Survivor isn't abuse or any kind of victimization or me, no matter how many cryptic SM posts I make about how I have the hardest, saddest life. In fact, those children in Calcultta ghettos growing up in near cannibalistic conditions? They just don't know how lucky they are compared to me and J. We are expected to be contributing members of our adult family.
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Agreed 100%. What a lot of the Twitter types who complain about "parentification" fail to realize is that it only refers to having adult responsibilities foisted on you as a child. It does not mean that expecting you to handle adult responsibilities as an adult is abusive. The people who complain the loudest about this seem to think it is the role of parents to let you leech off them indefinitely while they shield you from the realities and expectations of adult life, and that is their God-given entitlement. If your parents require more help as they age and their health fails and you, as a grown adult end up their caretaker? No one is saying that shit isn't stressful, but that has been accepted as an often unavoidable part of life for all of human history, people can't just decide not to get old because you complain to reddit that needing help is aboose.

J is so entitled and averse to responsibility that she has convinced herself the world is wrong for not changing literally everything to accommodate her choice to eat herself to the point she's too fat to wipe her own ass. It's very possible J's parents are vultures but I'm not inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt on this. But if her parents fuck right back off the second J is on her own in need of someone to turn her over every couple hours, then we'll know.
 
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vanilla_pepsi_head said:
Agreed 100%. What a lot of the Twitter types who complain about "parentification" fail to realize is that it only refers to having adult responsibilities foisted on you as a child. It does not mean that expecting you to handle adult responsibilities as an adult is abusive. The people who complain the loudest about this seem to think it is the role of parents to let you leech off them indefinitely while they shield you from the realities and expectations of adult life, and that is their God-given entitlement. If your parents require more help as they age and their health fails and you, as a grown adult end up their caretaker? No one is saying that shit isn't stressful, but that has been accepted as an often unavoidable part of life for all of human history, people can't just decide not to get old because you complain to reddit that needing help is aboose.

J is so entitled and averse to responsibility that she has convinced herself the world is wrong for not changing literally everything to accommodate her choice to eat herself to the point she's too fat to wipe her own ass. It's very possible J's parents are vultures but I'm not inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt on this. But if her parents fuck right back off the second J is on her own in need of someone to turn her over every couple hours, then we'll know.
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That's how all these deathfats are. If you notice, almost none of them have close familial relationships, and, in fact, don't seem to have many relationships, period. The act of eating yourself to disability is so selfish and alienating beyond asspats on social media. J's parents are aging like everyone else's and because J is a selfish fat fuck, she's supremely bothered by it.
 
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In 2020-21, a common refrain among my peer group (30s) was "I'm not worried about me, I'm sure if I catch covid I'll be fine-- but I AM worried about my parents."

I bet J and Corissa would consider that a statement of privilege, that those of us not completely immobilized by our own bad choices have the luxury of worrying about our aging loved ones in a time of mass health uncertainty. They have to expend SO MUCH energy on their own "self care" that they can't do the basics that most people do for parents they don't even get along with that well. What a sad way to live.

Isn't there an old adage about how it's not about who loves you, but about who you love? Or something?
 
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