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75% OF MEN ARE TOO SCARED TO CHAT UP WOMEN


Men are scared to chat women up for fear of saying the wrong thing a new study has revealed. Three quarters won’t approach a romantic interest for fear of saying the wrong thing or in case it is inappropriate.

Nearly four in ten (39%) men said that #metoo had hurt their loves lives, as did over a quarter of women (27%). While more than a third (38%) of those surveyed said they’d been approached less since #metoo. But two thirds of all singles (66%) said they’d like to be approached more by potential dates.

The research of 1,000 singles, commissioned by dating app happn, found that 72% of men didn’t think it was acceptable to tell someone they look beautiful. More than half (52%) felt the same way about extending an invitation for a drink and two thirds (69%) didn’t think it was acceptable to ask someone out to dinner.

However 65% of women said that they would laugh at a saucy chat up line and only 4% said they’d be offended. Can I get you a drink was deemed the most appropriate chat up line by (48%), followed by: you’re looking very beautiful today (26%).

The cheesy approach is less popular as only 8% of women said the chat up line: did it hurt when you fell from heaven was acceptable. But one in ten women were open to saucy lines and said: do you fancy breakfast in the morning, was an acceptable thing to say. However they drew the line at: you’ve got great boobs, which only 5% felt comfortable with.

Nearly two thirds (61%) of men said they feel more comfortable instigating romance online. While 30% like to find dates through apps and online.

Dating trends expert at happn says: “It is positive to see that #metoo has created such a tangible cultural shift. Men are conscious of being respectful in their language and their approach, which can only be a good thing when it comes to instigating a relationship. It is also positive to see that women are open to being approached in the right way in most situations and that the digital space is creating an environment where all singles feel comfortable and safe in approaching each other.”

 

[Tuxedo_Zemus]

In a vacuum, Metoo probably would have gone over well if it had been about getting rid of sex pests and child predators as initially claimed. However, it ended up being yet another excuse for feminists to bitch about men and jockey for gibs me dats while making a bunch of lame, pointless movies that no one watched and shoving more diversity down people's throats.

My theory is that it's less about Metoo specifically, and more about Metoo being the final straw that has made men blow off women in larger numbers than before. Men are simply tired of being lectured and are opting out.

Also, feminism is a jewish psyop to turn men and women against each other.

 

[Bugman's Burden]

Dating trends expert at happn says: "We are thrilled that the bottom 80% of men are being beaten out of the dating scene. This saves women time by allowing them to call the remaining 20% 'respectful and saucy' after they pass the wallet inspection."

 

[heathercho]

And this is not even addressing the monster known as Family courts. Which is actively encouraging western women to divorce their husbands for that easy payday. Never mind the fact that usually ends with the divorcing wife with wine and cats.

Men understand that the entire game is completely stacked against them. In short, the cultural landscape for dating is a complete shitshow because of what one side is about to lose if it fucks up. And the chance of fucking up is high. So why even play when there are better games out there?

There are a lot of women out there who feel the opposite way.
They don't want to have relationships with men, if it means becoming a second class citizen, being treated poorly and having an uncertain future, should a younger model come along.
Historically speaking, men haven't treated wives that great and have gotten away with it due to social and cultural "values".

For example : if a man left a woman, which historically happened a lot, she would be left with the kids, with financial problems, etc. It wasn't an easy life for the kids nor the woman. That was socially acceptable. It was also socially acceptable to beat the woman to "keep her in line". No one wants to give up their life to be at the whim of someone else.
What you describe as "stacking against men" is a completely new thing. It wasn't the way a century ago or even 50 years ago.

Having said that, the very vast majority of people out there today, male or female, are unbearable thots with no sense of morality or common sense.

 

[George Floyd Sneed]

When women say they want to be approached more by men, they are referring to attractive men only. A saucy pickup line will cause 65% of women to laugh…if he’s attractive. If he’s not attractive and he uses a saucy pickup line, well, best of luck, buddy. Maybe he’ll just get an awkward rejection because most women can’t handle a scenario where some unattractive guy is interested in them these days. Back when women weren’t fragile, they often had ways to reject a guy without making him feel too bad. Women are incentivized to be increasingly fragile so now they want society to deal with guys they don’t want hitting on them which increasingly means involving the law.

Unattractive men are continue to be expected to fuck off as per usual. Please also note that approximately 80% of men are deemed below attractive. My waifu and I are about to have our second child and he’s a boy so I dread the utter shitshow he has to get into. Women claim to hate how terrible dating is but they love having all of the power, which they use to push out the undesirables. Most guys will just get the hint and spend those nights playing online games.

tl;dr this article can fuck off

 

[Matt Damon]

Dating trends expert at happn says: "We are thrilled that the bottom 80% of men are being beaten out of the dating scene. This saves women time by allowing them to call the remaining 20% 'respectful and saucy' after they pass the wallet inspection."

Funny how this all changes once they hit 30-35 and it suddenly dawns that they can't ALL land one of that tiny fraction of men. And even if the math worked, those men have moved on to the new crop of 25-year-olds anyway.

I guess when potential romantic partners are in ultra-abundance, you don't think too hard about where that supply comes from and how long it will last.

 

[Drag-on Knight 91873]

This is not an affect of the Metoo movement. People in general have always been scared of hitting up the opposite sex. It isn't exclusive to men or women. As usual, bugpeople only think in the past 10 years and memoryhole anything prior. And as usual, the incels, scorned men, come in here using this article to validate their poltical beliefs. An article like this is more of a dopamine hit for them than a woman finding them attractive and wanting to be with them.

It's not literally the metoo movement that caused this, rather it is merely iconic of the general cultural shift. As a man who was in the dating market in the last decade I can assure you I was legitimately afraid of the potential social and legal ramifications of approaching the wrong woman. It's not just incels worried about this, there has absolutely been a massive negative shift in how men view the dating market and there is tons of statistical and anecdotal data to back that up.

Think about what you said, dating is already nerve racking right? Well imagine you not only have to deal with the normal anxiety, but you have to deal with the knowledge that any women could ruin your fucking life on a whim. A misstep is not just rejection and humiliation, it could literally be the end of your life. If you've been through the wringer and know how to avoid those psychos it's not as bad, but young men are entering a brutal and terrifying dating scene.

While I agree that asking for dates was always nerve wracking, it gets easier the more times you do it and when you invest less in each attempt emotionally. At least, in the old days. Now, that experience can't be obtained because that anxiety is now reinforced with actual fears. The risk really doesn't justify the reward and thus everyone now has to be alone because of single women's delusions.

Arranged marriages are going to have to be the future if the population wants to have stable growth. Why this practice? Because it doesn't just affect two people, but two families. It's easy for a woman to divorce her husband, but her parents getting mad at her for divorcing a nice man is not so easy.

 

[Male Idiot]

Nya! The master plan of cats is working purrfectly. Soon meow will only see catladies as long as the yarn ball can roll! Nyahahaha!

 

[George Floyd Sneed]

Funny how this all changes once they hit 30-35 and it suddenly dawns that they can't ALL land one of that tiny fraction of men. And even if the math worked, those men have moved on to the new crop of 25-year-olds anyway.

I guess when potential romantic partners are in ultra-abundance, you don't think too hard about where that supply comes from and how long it will last.

That used to be the case but I’ve increasingly seen women just cling to their astronomical standards to the bitter end. They’ve had more than ten years of hookups under their belt (which means over time they’ve been with dozens of men but let’s not go there for now…) and feel that the party shouldn’t end for them. The kinds that feel pressured to settle down might compromise their standards but again they’ve had dozens of notches on their bedpost with those standards.

Many are just going the catlady route. The thought of not being able to be with the hottest, richest guy at any given moment is beyond the pale. Some might even call it abusive. These women are going to blame men and society for their shortcomings. Millennial and zoomer women, it’s too late. Who knows what future generations will bring.

 

[derpherp2]

It's not literally the metoo movement that caused this, rather it is merely iconic of the general cultural shift. As a man who was in the dating market in the last decade I can assure you I was legitimately afraid of the potential social and legal ramifications of approaching the wrong woman. It's not just incels worried about this, there has absolutely been a massive negative shift in how men view the dating market and there is tons of statistical and anecdotal data to back that up.

Think about what you said, dating is already nerve racking right? Well imagine you not only have to deal with the normal anxiety, but you have to deal with the knowledge that any women could ruin your fucking life on a whim. A misstep is not just rejection and humiliation, it could literally be the end of your life. If you've been through the wringer and know how to avoid those psychos it's not as bad, but young men are entering a brutal and terrifying dating scene.

Also I wouldn't think incels would have a problem with this dumb bullshit, they were never at risk anyways.
Leave it to women to invent the word incel and then fuck up it's usage when bitching about how men don't wanna date them though.

 

[Matt Damon]

Leave it to women to invent the word incel and then fuck up it's usage when bitching about how men don't wanna date them though.

I'm pretty sure incels invented the word incel and it became a meaningless pejorative from there.

 

[MrGodSlave]

I've been with the squeeze for a hot minute, though I remember being young and trying to chat up girls at this beach party. One girl physically recoiled from my "Hey", so I sat on the beach and sulked. Then this other dame popped down and we started chatting. Ended up doing the mattress mumbo. Good times.

 

[Kel1 shi1]

That used to be the case but I’ve increasingly seen women just cling to their astronomical standards to the bitter end.

I've noticed this particularly with career driven women that aren't hooking up, the longer they go without a man the higher the standard gets because they want that pay off for waiting so long and overvalue themselves in the sexual marketplace as somehow their career makes them more desirable. But the guy still has to be earning more than them.

 

[George Floyd]

I wonder why western fertility rates are in the john? Must be because we're too smart for having children and stuff.

 

[DamnWolves!]

However they drew the line at: you’ve got great boobs, which only 5% felt comfortable with.

I would like to speak to this 5% of women; they sound like they're fun at parties.

Disregard anything that can't even get close to 1% of the population they're pretending to investigate.

I mean, 1% of the population is like 3.5 million people, so that's never going to happen. 1,000 will get you within 3-ish points, 19 times out of 20:

They don't want to have relationships with men, if it means becoming a second class citizen, being treated poorly and having an uncertain future, should a younger model come along.

I would like to counter:
70% of divorce is initiated by women.

 

[kurosawa]

Red pill goes mainstream.

I view this as a female shaming strategy - men don't approach because they're afraid. Really? I prefer to have them use their voodoo attraction signals that you can't really interpret be the sign. Seriously though, if a woman finds you attractive she'll make it known. That's when you get the #.

When you understand female nature you understand how they're likely to react. Women are attracted to what's in front of them. If its a phone with 1k+ good looking dudes telling them the same thing she's heard a million times but this time its different, don't waste your time.

The whole chat up line is bullshit, if she's attracted to you (or your resources) that is all that matters. You could start reading the latest Fed report and she'd be teeheeing.

 

[George Floyd Sneed]

You could start reading the latest Fed report and she'd be teeheeing.

Hey, stop stealing my moves!

I mean, 1% of the population is like 3.5 million people, so that's never going to happen. 1,000 will get you within 3-ish points, 19 times out of 20:

Yeah this is a pet peeve of mine here: people who don’t know how sample sizes work. Asking 1,000 people, if done right, is perfect valid and has held up for a long time.

 

[evilsponge]

Dating surveys are about as reliable as political polls, as in not at all. People lie about what they really want all the time

 

[LazyLizard]

"we've set up a system where everything men do to women is rape and men can have their life ruined just from an accusation from a woman even if proven to be innocent and now for some reason men won't talk to women anymore"

 

[heathercho]

I would like to speak to this 5% of women; they sound like they're fun at parties.

I mean, 1% of the population is like 3.5 million people, so that's never going to happen. 1,000 will get you within 3-ish points, 19 times out of 20:
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70% of divorce is initiated by women.

I don't disagree that whatever % of divorce is initiated by women - because women have more to lose by staying and tolerating it.
No one - male or female - is going to want to stay and tolerate abuse (and I don't just mean physical, it has various forms) or cheating. At all. You want to remove yourself from that situation.

It's not like the average woman is thinking "Oh wow, I'm going to divorce this cuck and ride 50 dicks a day and spend all his money whilst he slaves away at work and never gets to see the kids hahahahaha fuck him". She's likely thinking "This guy treats me like shit, thank god for society granting me the ability to divorce him".
I said average. Not some retarded slut that you picked and didn't vet properly. I mean actual real, proper people.

You also have to remember in that 70%, it's not just white people. It's people from a mix of cultural and social backgrounds. I know a lot of first generation women who have married and done what was expected of them in their culture, to only face abuse and thought well, in this new country, guess what, I can legally divorce this cunt.
So it's not like it's all thots and sluts divorcing men for shits and giggles.

 

[TungstenCarbide]

I don't see the problem. Once I met a fucker so desperate that he tried to hit on me during a funeral. If those losers are deterred from talking to women then it's all for the greater good. And I believe that smart, normal men are perfectly able to chat up a woman without coming off as insistent or creepy, and they know when it's appropriate and when it isn't.