Debate User @Vingle on why the Chads don't want to push his shit in - lol gaycel

Cringe newfag said:
You start with just "hey"??

You don't ask some question about something they would be interested in? Like something from their profile?
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If you have seen profiles on grindr, you would understand. But they typically don't write much there, even though I do look if there's something is written there. But it's usually just that they're kind and outgoing (Which they never are), you need a face pic to to talk to me.
Neurotypical Mantis said:
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I like ducks too, but don't feed them. It makes them dependent on humans for food.
 
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Vingle said:
If you have seen profiles on grindr, you would understand. But they typically don't write much there, even though I do look if there's something is written there. But it's usually just that they're kind and outgoing (Which they never are), you need a face pic to to talk to me.
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 Do you have a face pic? I can imagine the answer is no it you hate the gay community, you wouldn't want to be out in public. How are you on the pic swapping game? Are you one of those "these fags don't DESERVE anything from me until XYZ point in the relationship when I decide to start giving them pics" types?
 
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Cringe newfag said:
 Do you have a face pic? I can imagine the answer is no it you hate the gay community, you wouldn't want to be out in public. How are you on the pic swapping game? Are you one of those "these fags don't DESERVE anything from me until XYZ point in the relationship when I decide to start giving them pics" types?
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I do have a face pic, and a body pic. Not because I want hookups, but to show I'm the best trophy husband in the city. Still working on it though, there's always room for improvement.
 
I think I may have at least a little insight into why the mens you are interested in aren't playing ball.

Vingle said:
Ablative CO2 lasers is where its at, and sunscreen, and tretinoin. And that's just the basics.
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At least to a straight guy, this seems kinda femme to me. I don't know what the standard is among gay guys, but I don't think I've ever heard any of my gay friends ever mention anything about skincare.

Vingle said:
I'm 183 cm/6 feet and 78 kg/171 lbs
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Somewhere else you said you are a Wegie, correct? The average height of an adult male in Norway in 2022 is 180.48. As such, you're fairly close to average height. Given the average in your country gay men in Norway might prefer someone taller? If 171 is after you have been gaining mass, I'm guessing you were in the 160's beforehand? If so, for that height, and assuming you have a low bodyfat %, the 160's would mean you were fairly skinny. For your height, at least in America, the gay friends I have that seem to always turn guys heads are a lean 180-190.

Vingle said:
I mean, it is a privilege to talk to me.
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This makes you sound extremely conceited. It's good to value ones time, but this seems like you are taking that to an extreme. I think most people would agree that regardless of sexuality, being conceited is a huge turn-off.
 
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Just go outside and try to meet people in the social settings that you're regularly in. I met my wife in uni because we shared a class together and one day I worked up the courage to ask for her number. I get that alot of women are on dating apps are skanks these days, but thats not the majority of women out in the real world. They're just not terminally online and easily accessible.
 
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Manul Otocolobus said:
At least to a straight guy, this seems kinda femme to me. I don't know what the standard is among gay guys, but I don't think I've ever heard any of my gay friends ever mention anything about skincare.
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Maybe, but I do look considerable younger than my peers. I do hope my babyface will make head turn in my 30's.
The standard to gay guys is not doing any skincare and party. The ones who workout, they don't even do something about their face.
Manul Otocolobus said:
Somewhere else you said you are a Wegie, correct?
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No, and what's a Wegie? I said I'm a twink.
Manul Otocolobus said:
The average height of an adult male in Norway in 2022 is 180.48. As such, you're fairly close to average height. Given the average in your country gay men in Norway might prefer someone taller?
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Don't know, I don't think gays are so specific about height as women.
Manul Otocolobus said:
the gay friends I have that seem to always turn guys heads are a lean 180-190.
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I will reach that goal, one time.
Manul Otocolobus said:
This makes you sound extremely conceited. It's good to value ones time, but this seems like you are taking that to an extreme. I think most people would agree that regardless of sexuality, being conceited is a huge turn-off.
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I mean, not my problem?
If they want to be together with a proper trophy husband. Then they have to make some adjustments. I'm fucking tired of hearing that I have to ALWAYS change something with myself, when I already are making way more of an effort than most. All I'm hearing is "Not good enough, not good enough". Well. what's good enough?

And I do hate most fags, as in I got bummed out when not any more got shot and killed when the sandnigger did shoot up a gay pub here. Because, there are just freaks that go to that place.
Don't take this as my wanting to do anything illegal, as that's for niggers.
 
Vingle said:
No, and what's a Wegie? I said I'm a twink.
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Wegie is American Northeast shorthand for Norwegian. Pronounced "Wee-Gee"

Vingle said:
I'm fucking tired of hearing that I have to ALWAYS change something with myself, when I already are making way more of an effort than most. All I'm hearing is "Not good enough, not good enough". Well. what's good enough?
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I can certainly understand where you are coming from. Same frustration from where I am sitting.

Vingle said:
If they want to be together with a proper trophy husband. Then they have to make some adjustments.
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You know the whole "adjustments" thing is a two way street, right? If you expect someone to change for you, you have to be willing to do the same for them. How much change you ask of the other person has to be equal to how much change you are willing to make to yourself.
 
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Manul Otocolobus said:
Wegie is American Northeast shorthand for Norwegian. Pronounced "Wee-Gee
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I'm a white Norwegian yes.
Manul Otocolobus said:
You know the whole "adjustments" thing is a two way street, right? If you expect someone to change for you, you have to be willing to do the same for them. How much change you ask of the other person has to be equal to how much change you are willing to make to yourself.
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I'm willing to do something I don't really like for a future husband, but when I want something. Nah, no way in hell.
Best example I have on this, is taking initiative to communication. If I'm not the one taking the initiative, it often goes week or months before I hear something from them again. Many do I never hear from again too.
Nauseated Courgi said:
So, you got raped? Is that what you're saying?
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Yes, and it's too painful to do it even years after the fact. I don't want to destroy my bum hole even further.
 
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You sound very bitter. Let me guess, you spent your teens and early 20s trading on your status as the prettiest twink in town, only to become bitter once you hit 27 and found that a new generation of shallow, fresh-faced twinks came along to steal your tiara? Many such cases.

Ever thought about growing up and not being such an immature, high-maintenance drama queen? You might have more success.
 
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Hellbound Hellhound said:
You sound very bitter. Let me guess, you spent your teens and early 20s trading on your status as the prettiest twink in town, only to become bitter once you hit 27 and found that a new generation of shallow, fresh-faced twinks came along to steal your tiara? Many such cases.
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I would say I'm prettier now though, in the way adults play teenagers in romcoms.
Hellbound Hellhound said:
Ever thought about growing up and not being such an immature, high-maintenance drama queen? You might have more success.
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That's why I'm bulking and almost live in the gym. As skinny grown men is just pathetic.
 
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