This right here, this right here. I'm gonna give a little more context to my, uh, situation.
So, I got out of an abusive relationship and I took a break on social media talking about it because I was getting backlash from his family. *deep breath* And um, basically they enabled his behavior and they let him do whatever he wants to do. And they defend him, to no extent!
With that said, uh, whenever I started back up, because I was like "they're finally of my case," y'know? The restraining order is in effect, cannot contact me, his girlfriend seems to not want to contact me, we're good!
I was wrong. Every single time I would speak up she [Polissa] would come in and be, "oh it's
my story, you're telling
my story!" when she was just a side character in
my story and
my experience. But the fact of the matter is, is his mom and his sister have tried to shut me down and try to get me to shut up.
His sister went on TikTok--actually you can find her videos on here if you know who she is-- and basically slutshamed me, uh, degraded me, uh, belittled me. She basically made fun of m-me self harming. And what she failed to understand is the only reason I self harmed was because of
her brother. Because of what he put me through, because I had no other way to get my feelings and emotions out without feeling crazy.
And so, as far as me being pregnant, at that time I chose the baby over my mental health. I chose to make sure I wasn't putting anything into my body that could harm my child, that could cause my child severe birth defects that are preventable, essentially. If if, what I am taking into my body can cause my child to have a birth defect, that would inhibit them, and is also preventable [note: she was taking lithium, which is
very much a drug you do not want to take while pregnant] I could not live with it.
Now at the time, they [Polissa and Tyler's family] demonized that too, they weaponized it and they villainized it, saying I was crazy, I am insane, I am off my anti psychotics [considering how extreme her effects were from I presume stopping cold turkey, I do wonder now what measures are in place for pregnant women that need to get off severe mood stabilizers like lithium. That is some strong ass shit. Just wondering] When they failed to realize that the only reason I didn't take certain medications was at the advice of two different doctors-- one being my OB-GYN and the other being my psychiatrist. And they would've known that had they listened to me at the time complaining about the fact I was bouncing between two different people and trying to figure out a good medication mangagement that would be good for my mental health and also safe for the baby.
So yeah, his sister- biggest piece of shit in the entire world. *deep breath* When I was at my lowest and needing help, all she did was kick me, and belittle me, and drag me through the mud.
[Kiwi Farms review:]
And she's actually quite famous on a website called KiwiFarms. [this thread is hardly famous but I am quite flattered, thanks] And the only reason why I knew about that was because she would complain about it. And what KiwiFarms does, they are kind of a bully, but at the same time, they gathered what she had been posting on social media. And you can go find her social media, and and, it's a lot. She's not a good person, at all.