and she tries to identify positively with it in her OKCupid profile by calling herself a "fat babe".
It's a typo and she meant to write "fat baby".
and put some hard effort into losing weight, she would be way happier and might even find an enjoyment in looking thin and sexy in whatever she wears.
Not gonna happen. If she lost all the excess weight, she wouldn't suddenly turn into a super-model. All that stretched out skin won't vanish over night, she'd look like a
Shar Pei.
Also, I can't find any reason to pity her. She's in every meaning of the word repulsive - and I am not even talking about how she looks but merely about the way she
acts.
The thing that one shouldn't overlook, she chose to be this way. Oh sure, she might have some circle of jackasses that tell her what to think, people who either ignore her behaviour or even encourage it, but the thing is: It's very well within her grasp to not be like this. She's 22 years old, she's responsible for her behaviour and she's old enough to possess the introspection to decide if what she's doing is justified and appropriate. She chose to join that particular circle of people and she chose to let their nonsense poison her mind. She is unwilling to even attempt to understand the problems she's so adamant about and view it from more than the "THIS OFFENDS ME DUE TO REASONS!"-angle.
Hell, she's partaking in a movement that is trying to force their views down everyone's throat by howling "Free speech", yet tries to silence each and every opposition, dissent or criticism, by yelling "HATESPEECH!".
And it's a
riot. Seriously, there's a fully grown adult person that's attending a panel at a university and she's throwing a self-righteous tantrum in a huge crowd, completely devoid of any manners, self-control or even shame - cause she can't handle the mere thought of these people expressing their opinions. She's flailing her arms like a lunatic while screeching some nonsensical slogans, which she most likely doesn't even understand and has to pause for breath, taking a sip from what I can only assume to be a delicious bottle of ketchup.
Pity? Nah. She's made her bed, now she can sleep in it.