Times when you have felt genuinely sorry for Chris

There are many times when I felt sorry for him, pretty much all the time i do because regardless of his toxic behavior, he is too mentally incapable to understand the meaning behind his actions and takes everything lightly and comically.
But if I have to chose a time when I really felt bad for him was at the time of Bob's death, the death of his father marked a new era for Chris, an era where he had to start to act like an adult and provide for his family (mother in this case).
He didn't had anyone who could advice him and help him during difficult times, no one to rely on when he needed to and he was pretty much all alone facing life and reality without someone to guide him, and the saddest part is that he didn't realized the situation he was in and I'm pretty sure he still doesn't realize it even to this day. His life only went downhill after that and went very fast.
 
When Bob walked in on him cybering with Julie. Imagine someone as lonely and desperate as Chris having his first sexual experience (at age 27) being interrupted by his father, who he hated.

I feel worse that he had the first (perceived) one-on-one romantic encounter of his life get ruined than I do for him being told to shove the medallion up his ass or buy PSN gift cards for idea guys, because, like at any point during his life, he could have just walked away from the computer and stopped giving in to the trolls’ demands.
 
When Bob walked in on him cybering with Julie. Imagine someone as lonely and desperate as Chris having his first sexual experience (at age 27) being interrupted by his father, who he hated.

I feel worse that he had the first (perceived) one-on-one romantic encounter of his life get ruined than I do for him being told to shove the medallion up his ass or buy PSN gift cards for idea guys, because, like at any point during his life, he could have just walked away from the computer and stopped giving in to the trolls’ demands.
Chris's relationship with his father was tenuous at best, but I don't think "hate" would be accurate to describe their relationship. After Bob died I heard Chris broke down crying when the trolls tried to reach out to him.
 
But if I have to chose a time when I really felt bad for him was at the time of Bob's death, the death of his father marked a new era for Chris, an era where he had to start to act like an adult and provide for his family (mother in this case).
Unfortunately, Chris was coddled and spoiled through his adult years. If Bob was alive and you were to ask him if he had any regrets, I'm sure he would've replied with the mainstreaming through Chris' HS and college education. Bob carried Chris through 5 years of PVCC with nothing to show for it. After that, it was all just tugboats, trolls and sex dolls. Bob even left a binder for Chris on how to manage the house when he died, and all Chris did was spend and e-beg. Barb was of no help, either and made things even worse.
He didn't had anyone who could advice him and help him during difficult times, no one to rely on when he needed to and he was pretty much all alone facing life and reality without someone to guide him, and the saddest part is that he didn't realized the situation he was in and I'm pretty sure he still doesn't realize it even to this day. His life only went downhill after that and went very fast.
This is why Bob failed as a father. He was right there and tried to guide Chris. But Chris being Chris, took Bob for granted and paid for it after his dad died. With his coping, Chris refuses to realize anything and would just live in fantasy land until the day he croaks. Bob should have cut the internet and got rid of Chris' toys the moment he saw his son jerking it to trolls. Yes, I know the common argument is "Bob was too old to put his foot down." Sometimes, I think that's an excuse. If Bob could, he would've taken every toy Chris owns, but it in a bin and say "it's time to grow up." If Chris kept that up, just cut off his tugboat. The problem is that Bob never put any boundaries on Chris because he would feel he would regress again. IMO, it would be worth it if it meant Chris avoiding any trouble. But things ended up happening and well, here we are.

The Chandler legacy in terms of CWC is tainted because of poor parenting on Bob's part. His kids via first marriage are okay (at least for David Chandler), but I feel they've (rightfully) distanced themselves from Chris because of the nuclear autism that's been on display for decades. Kind of sucks for David, as he can't talk about his dad with his kids without mentioning his black sheep of a half brother.
 
getting reminded that chis also has a hzlf brother and sister outside of cole makes it even worse, they may have been the only normal people in his life if bob was an actual decent person.

at the funeral his falf brother was there but not his sister, and that is saying a lot about their relationship.
i can only imagine the horrors of chris standing there in a black mini skirt and crying like a bitch.
 
Honestly seeing the Rolling and Trolling video when he pretend that it was a troll all along is extremely depressing in hindsight.
 
When Bob walked in on him cybering with Julie. Imagine someone as lonely and desperate as Chris having his first sexual experience (at age 27) being interrupted by his father, who he hated.

I feel worse that he had the first (perceived) one-on-one romantic encounter of his life get ruined than I do for him being told to shove the medallion up his ass or buy PSN gift cards for idea guys, because, like at any point during his life, he could have just walked away from the computer and stopped giving in to the trolls’ demands.
Yeah, it stands to reason (some) parents don't seem to care that their disabled dearlings do have a sex drive and want to be treated with the same degree of independence and dignity we all want.

How exactly was Tardarina suppose to get his nut crackered if his own father, who had three children and should understand his fgt son need something of a romantic life, if he keeps interrupting him in his own kitchen?

It seems that good parents will take care of their kid's Tard needs, great parents will understand that their children are human beings and people that need social experiences of some kind and only want to be treated with the same love and dignity as well as independence we all want.

And then there's Christian and his shit-for-brains parents.

Also rather sad that Tardy is wasting away in prison.

All he needed was to be unhealthy the other way and lose all his weight as well as whatever is left of his mind.

If Chris turned out like this and Barb got her half-dead battery jumped, it's because the same people who "wouldn't allow" Chris to leave his own state of his own volition when he was an adult and the same system that failed are in play yet again.
 
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Its sad in a "what could have been" way but at the same time Chris displayed at least some awareness about whats expected from him yet he never made any efforts.
Maybe if he could have seen some of the rewards that come with hard work he would have tried.

But then his parents didn't push him did they?
 
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I felt bad for Chris when he lost unlimited access to the barbussy, shit was probably fire.

Jokes aside tho I did feel bad for Chris when he lost his job, employment is a really good tool for growing one’s strength of character and admittedly most of the people discussed on this site would probably be better off if they had jobs. If he hadn’t lost it he probably wouldn’t have gone knuckles deep inside the barbussy.
 
Jokes aside tho I did feel bad for Chris when he lost his job, employment is a really good tool for growing one’s strength of character and admittedly most of the people discussed on this site would probably be better off if they had jobs.
He was happy to lose that job. He doesn’t understand the concept of a work ethic or dignity from being employed (even at a fast food place). He understands that it was time he could be spending watching TV.
 
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I felt bad for Chris when he lost unlimited access to the barbussy, shit was probably fire.

Jokes aside tho I did feel bad for Chris when he lost his job, employment is a really good tool for growing one’s strength of character and admittedly most of the people discussed on this site would probably be better off if they had jobs. If he hadn’t lost it he probably wouldn’t have gone knuckles deep inside the barbussy.
Yes employment would have been a good thing for Chris. However for that to happen he would have to actually desire employment and learn some skills that are actually useful to an employer. Chris will never get a job now for to many reasons to count.
 
Chris will never get a job now for to many reasons to count.

I'm in the school of "Chris could have had a menial job but..."

What he would have done would have been a constant problem, i.e. needing supervision, special consideration of where he's placed i.e. his Wendys job was in a public facing capacity can you imagine if he brought his love quest into work or was there long enough to develop feelings for someone etc? He would refuse to do any physical labour, hell he would also refuse to stand for a prolonged period of time, he'd find ways to goof off or become a active neaucance to other staff etc.

The sort of job he could do he'd not like to do as it's either outside his comfort zone or required him to develop some form of physical fitness etc, the best thing that could have happened to him was getting the tugboat as it kept him fed, in some level of comfort and most importantly out the way (ok with varying success) of people who wanted to work in jobs for special needs people.
 
Admittingly there has been a part of me that has always felt a little bad for Chris.

Now, Chris is not a good person and even if I met him irl without knowledge of his internet infamy, I would not like him but obviously he was fucked from childhood. With the way he was raised, it was going to take a miracle for him to function like a normal adult.

Autism is a bitch. Untreated autism is a huge bitch. Untreated autism with parents who are neglectful in helping you develop critical skills for healthy adult life and instead spoil you rotten like a purse puppy is the biggest bitch that will absolutely fuck your life.

But my pity spiked when I read up on the Bluespike shit and then the idea guys. I'm not that old so I wasn't around when the Bluespike thing happened but my god, it may have given us memes but it also put a weird taste in my mouth.
 
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