

"It is estimated that almost 70% of the children in foster care are affected by prenatal alcohol exposure in varying degrees." It's similar in pre-adoptive kids.
How do you think Tony'd manage the high likelihood that he'd end up taking care of a child with a fetal alcohol disorder?
Some characteristics I've seen in adopted children with FASD:
- dangerous and illegal sexual behavior:
--- inviting strangers, including, who they met online, into the family home. this resulted in one family being robbed by the stranger.
--- having sexual conversations with children online, when they are an adult
--- using an iPad at work to take sexual photos and send to strangers online, not realizing that the workplace monitors the device
--- getting into strangers cars to have sex
--- having unprotected sex with strangers resulting in multiple STDs
- needing to live in an out of home placement (group homes)
- getting kicked out of several group homes
- compulsive stealing
- physical and verbal aggression, hitting their adoptive parents, saying the absolute worst things you can think of to the parents or siblings
- need for lifelong support for housing and employment
Many children with FASD won't show symptoms at birth, many will only start showing behavioral issues in later childhood or teen years, something you can't screen out during an adoption process unless you are somehow totally certain the mother did not consume any alcohol during pregnancy. They need extremely committed, understanding, loving families. They aren't a prop for your fucking narcissistic delusion that you can ever be a mother. You are simply a dickless perv who should stay way from kids.