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“Why is No One in the DMs”: Dylan Mulvaney Discussed Dating as a Trans Woman​

They don’t call it “second puberty” for nothing. For those of us who transition as adults, not only do we go through the same physiological changes teenagers do, hormones can alter the way that you experience emotions — and anyone who’s been through the first year of transition can tell you that those emotions often feel distinctly teenage in their intensity.

Dylan Mulvaney is leaning into the concept of the trans do-over as she searches for the person to have her first kiss with after coming out as a trans woman. The TikTok star, who uses she and they pronouns, opened up about the frustrations and pressure of finding that perfect person in a new interview with People.

“I'm getting a little impatient because, especially when you're feeling yourself and even looking at that Grammys picture, I'm like, that's somebody who should not be single,” Mulvaney told the publication. “But then you're like, wait, why is no one in the DMs?”

They added that they hope to find a relationship, and that they feel as though they get “a do-over as far as some of those negative experiences that I have had romantically.”

“And I want to do it right this time,” Mulvaney said.

The star is about to hit her one-year anniversary of coming out as a trans woman, as she’s been documenting on her popular TikTok series, “Days of Girlhood.” She’ll be celebrating that moment with a livestreamed variety show, naturally called “Day 365,” which will be filmed at the iconic Rainbow Room in Manhattan. The event promises “singing, special guests, and a walk down memory lane.” Tickets are only $5 and proceeds benefit the Trevor Project.

Mulvaney told People that they couldn’t “wait for the day that I get to show people that a trans person can be in a healthy, happy relationship.”

“I really want somebody to make me laugh because so much of starting to succeed and have these great things come has been a little serious at times, having to put this businesswoman hat on,” they said. “But I think once I do meet that person that can add some levity, add some lightness back to my life and I know that I can make them laugh in the same way, that is going to be chef's kiss.”

Because of Mulvaney’s visibility, she’s repeatedly been a target of right-wing harassment. After she interviewed President Joe Biden, she was blasted on Twitter by Marjorie Taylor-Greene, Marsha Blackburn, and more. Transphobes have also called for boycotts of brands like Ulta Cosmetics, for featuring videos with Mulvaney. And yet, that hasn’t stopped the star from thriving and dealing with trolls in style. What could be more iconic and fitting for the Old Hollywood-esque TikToker than a celebration of her womanhood at the Rainbow Room? We’ll wait.
 
I think that electrolysis or whatever he did to his face gave him some wrinkles and made him appear older. It’s pretty uncanny.
Living a lie that you must always brow-beat others to accept (since it falls apart under the most basic of scrutiny) must also induce a LOT of stress....... especially now that despite 10 years of trying by various "allies" - the public backlash is becoming unmanageable.
 
The sad thing about these people is dating for them is significantly harder than normal.

This is not sad.

What they often run into is men who only get interested in them due to a fetish.

>look for a guy to live out your fetish
>only guys who want to buttfuck you want you to live out their fetish
>poor you


This sort of thing is often one of the reasons cited for suicide is that they deal with crippling loneliness overtime because they often repulse people physically and it's only going to get worse for them as they get older and visibly start resembling older men in drag. They end up needing to invest heavily in more and more plastic surgery to keep looking like a young-ish woman. People who transitioned in middle age often have it better as they usually had children so they have a support network somewhere.

He could just try not being an attention-seeking freak instead.
 
I love this comment because Dylan is only 25. He succesfully transitioned out of youth. :story:
He looks like 30 because he doesn't know how to be a woman. Most gay men who crossdress tend to copy the big Broadway divas who happen to be in their 40s and who often have a very specific look. That's how "women" look for them. No real 20-something woman would dress like Bette Midler because we know she's an older woman who dresses like an older woman.

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It's not just the dress that is different. The hair and make up are appropriate for each their own age. He's proud of his Grammy look because he looks like he's about to perform in Evita, who's the role for an older woman. This is how he, at 25, thinks women should look:
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This is the make up 25-ish yo women wear:
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Dylan here only knows two styles: "little girl tee hee" or "Patty Lupone". No normal man would feel attracted to either of those. Gay men might like their Broadway divas, but they won't fuck them.
 
Before anyone feels bad for old Dylan, remember that as a theatre guy, he knows plenty of fellow fags.

The problem is that’s not good enough. He fetishizes getting fucked by a straight guy, which is impossible because by definition anyone who would fuck him would become gay
 
He looks like 30 because he doesn't know how to be a woman. Most gay men who crossdress tend to copy the big Broadway divas who happen to be in their 40s and who often have a very specific look. That's how "women" look for them. No real 20-something woman would dress like Bette Midler because we know she's an older woman who dresses like an older woman.

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It's not just the dress that is different. The hair and make up are appropriate for each their own age. He's proud of his Grammy look because he looks like he's about to perform in Evita, who's the role for an older woman. This is how he, at 25, thinks women should look:
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This is the make up 25-ish yo women wear:
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Dylan here only knows two styles: "little girl tee hee" or "Patty Lupone". No normal man would feel attracted to either of those. Gay men might like their Broadway divas, but they won't fuck them.
No, his face has literally aged poorly. Even when he was a gay twink on stage in his his underwear, he looked significantly older than his chronological age. He just doesnt have that young estrogenic glow that even bull dykes have.
 
Lesbians get accused of hating men. Gay men accused of hating women. I think they reality is that both camps just have the luxury of not putting up with the bullshit & histrionics of the opposite sex.
Yeah, that's true. Women accuse gay men of hating women because women accuse all men of hating women. They hate that they cannot leverage sex against gay men or shame us via the normal channels. Women hate men who speak the truth about women, and especially hate men who speak the truth about women and are impervious to women's standard weapons.
 
actually, there IS a demographic that ive seen show a whole lot of interest in this retard, and i personally think its hilarious.
girls who are barely in their teens that think they are dudes....all over twitter, tiktok, these girls proclaim their undying love for dylan, and i have to wonder what he thinks of that....all that surgery and stupidity and attention whoring, just to attract a huge following of confused young girls :story:
 
What they often run into is men who only get interested in them due to a fetish.
What exactly are they expecting to get? Some airhead who is hoping xhe is a beautiful woman only to find a cock and balls after ignoring all the other warning signs that he is dating a dude? Fetishists are all there is. That or the very desperate and that Venn diagram is basically a perfect circle.
 
Yeah, that's true. Women accuse gay men of hating women because women accuse all men of hating women. They hate that they cannot leverage sex against gay men or shame us via the normal channels. Women hate men who speak the truth about women, and especially hate men who speak the truth about women and are impervious to women's standard weapons.

I wondered about if the Men in the Gay scene that do Crossdressing/Drag/Trans do actually hate Women? Since their entire persona turns that into the "Wives of Beverly Hills" x10. I mean it's fine to poke fun at Women. But when their entire identity gets wrapped up into being the stereotype of the worst Woman imaginable. I start to wonder
 
You are just a crossdresser if you are a man and do nothing else to be a woman. You are not a woman. You are not trans. Full stop.
If you cut off your dick and get breast implants, you're still a man.

Yeah, that's true. Women accuse gay men of hating women because women accuse all men of hating women. They hate that they cannot leverage sex against gay men or shame us via the normal channels. Women hate men who speak the truth about women, and especially hate men who speak the truth about women and are impervious to women's standard weapons.

It's less that they think all men hate women, and more that every single relationship they have with a normal man is to some degree affected by the man's desire to make her happy, which is rooted in his sexual attraction to women. They don't understand on any rational level how deeply that affects everything. Gays don't care if women are happy or not, which to them feels like "hate," as they have no other reference point.
 
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