I think you're (vastly) underestimating the male sex drive and you're overestimating the influence of the supposed matriarchy. But I can kinda, sorta, maybe see where you're coming from;
Nigga, it's not about the matriarchy. It's about where you discuss this shit.
If you're in some überTERF social-circle, they're all going to make it "woman good, man bad. These women trooned out cuz of patriarchy."
If anything, I do think there is some truth to that.
It takes all types to run a society. Everything can bring something different to the table. Although not all of it useful, obviously.
A trooner can feel terrified of the patriarchy, but also at the same time she can feel drawn towards men, but she may be so scared of men if she went through feminist conditioning (and/or she was abused on some level), that she thinks she can't be happy with a man as a woman, cuz "men only respect other men", so she wants to be a gayyyyyyy twans boyyyyy.
It's funny how some TERFs just play right into the mess that's 'mutilating women'. You can't force the heterosexuality out of someone.
Life...... life finds a way. *JURASSIC POONER THEME SONG*
but yeah, I think both theories about autoandrophilia and patriarchy hold water.
but yeah, a social group made mostly of women talking to other women is going to be 'gynocentric'.
TERFs are mostly women, and they talk a lot about transsexuality. They put their writing out there.
I think there's androcentric and gynocentric circles of society. Neither one is necessarily absolutely better than the other.
I personally like hearing men's ideas about pooners, because they're the ones that are the targets of these "gayyyyyy" ftm girls.
A heterosexual female is
probably not going to target her sexual derangement at another woman. In fact, I think a lot of these biological heterosexuals have a pathological hatred of other women. They may feel like men aren't going to desire them, whether because of looks or personality.... and thus when they see women they think that men would desire, they get fucking pissed off and jealous on some level.
The thing that makes me sad is that some of these girls are actually fucking attractive, they just have personality issues. That shit can be changed, or maybe they need to chase better men.
Recent feminism ironically discourages that. "All men are as shitty as the man who mistreated you. You should give up and go live in a cave with 10 stank-ass women." and yeah I've legit seen cyberfeminists say that, over and over.
"This never happens", it's fucking funny when terfs complain about trannies saying trannies never do bad stuff, but then they turn right around and say feminists could never, ever, ever do bad stuff.
I think a lot of terfs are exactly what they hate.
Not all, though. There are some who are intelligent.
People use the word 'TERF' to mean all kinds of people, and plenty of women have reclaimed it from being an insult.
I think also, these autoandrophile girls are so insecure that when they see a man choose another man over them, it makes them even angrier.
I think they try to go for what they see as 'easy pickings', and this just reinforces the idea that "MEN ARE BAD, THEY WON'T RESPECT YOU." cuz they're choosing the wrong fucking people to go after!
Troonery says, "change your body, instead of your mind; then these men will finally respect you."
Everyone has a choice in their own fate. Women are not victims of life. Women can choose to become evil. Women can choose to become personality-disordered perverted stalkers, if they want to. FEMALE RIGHTS!
(hahaha!)
Whatever.
If you want men to listen to women, then you should be prepared to listen to men in turn. Everyone has a different perspective.
No one can have the world all their own way. It's all about co-operation.