My kids may have outgrown the cartoon Bluey, but I haven’t

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For British people of a certain generation (mine), it may be the Australian accents that soothe us into a state of pure happiness. It may be the quality of the animation, or the gentle, low-stress storylines. Or it may be that it just caught us at a particularly vulnerable time.

Whatever it is, whenever my children ask what we should watch on TV, I lobby hard to veto Nailed It!, (cake reality show), shouty cartoon Teen Titans, or tween sitcom, Bunk’d, in favour of one of my top viewing pleasures of the moment. My kids lightly protest; at eight, they have almost outgrown Bluey, the Aussie cartoon about a blue dog and her little sister. But I, apparently, have not.

The story of Bluey and its runaway success – since launching in 2018 it has gone on to broadcast in 60 territories – is reminiscent of the early days of Peppa Pig, another animated show aimed at nursery-age children that became one of the few things that parents could tolerate. Both position themselves in opposition to louder, flashier rivals. Both circumscribe the action, signalling to parents that they are in the hands of a Well-Made Show with no need for superheroes or space travel. Bluey is so acutely well observed, within such a tight domestic landscape, it might as well be Mrs Dalloway.

For the kids, it is an early exposure to the deep pleasures of seeing aspects of their interior life externally represented. In Bluey, the mum is always engaging with her children while doing a million other things. The dad, less stretched, effortlessly falls in with his children’s make-believe worlds, while trying to persuade them that his crafty nap or sidelong glance at the cricket (“how is that lbw?!”) is part of the game.

The show takes the alternative reality of small children extremely seriously. When Bluey and her friends, Snickers (a sausage dog) and Coco (a poodle), establish a rule that you can only walk in the shade, they are stuck in the middle of a field until the sun clouds over. Coco wants to cheat and make a run for it, but not even the promise of cupcakes will break Bluey. “If you cheat,” she says, “there’s no point playing the game.” There’s no hardliner like a six-year-old hardliner.

For parents, there are other, extra-mural pleasures. Bluey is made by the Australian Broadcasting Corporation in collaboration with the BBC (public funding! Of course). Its popularity has attracted famous cameos. Lin-Manuel Miranda popped up as the voice of a horse in one episode, Rose Byrne as Bluey’s aunt in another. There are things the kids see that the parents don’t, too. To my children’s scorn and amazement, it took me most of the first season to properly fix in my head that Bluey and Bingo, her younger sibling, are girls. “Is Bluey a boy or a girl?” I would ask, dimly, at the start of every episode. “How do you know she’s a girl?” The characters are square and blue and are supposed to be Australian cattle dogs, also known as blue heelers, with no anthropomorphic gender cues whatsoever. My child looked at me with pity: “We know she’s a girl because they call her ‘she’, der.”

In the end, the pleasures of the show seem to turn on a simple question of wanting to spend time with Bluey and her family because they’re so nice. They’re so funny. Everyone’s so happy. If the dramas are recognisable – that flash of fury from a child when somebody cheats at a game, or falls out of role, or gets tired, or hungry – everything is resolved by bedtime, with just enough of a nod to the long suffering of the parents to ensure they’re not presented as martyrs. But crucially – a nice escape from the real world – with no shouting. The language of the show is silly and divine, meanwhile, hingeing on all the jokes that grow within families. We’ve picked some of them up. In my own house, it amuses us to refer to dollars, as Bluey does, as “dollary-does”.

This morning, before writing this, I asked my daughter why she likes Bluey. She mentioned the characters and the stories, before evoking one of the primary pleasures of being eight and feeling wildly superior to the six-year-olds. Mainly she liked Bluey, she said loftily, “because dramatic things for babies are funny”.

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why are millennials so adverse to growing up and letting go of childish things
Because the boomers took everything that was great and enjoyable about being an adult and ran that shit into the ground like there would be no tomorrow. Practically everything important and fulfilling about adulthood that boomers could achieve with a bit of planning has become cost prohibitive to millennials. It's no reason to give up, but at the same time it starts to make sense why you see these sorts of shows as a form of escapism for some people these days.
 
Bluey has a big focus on father-child relationships that are loving and involve mutual duty, working together, and admitting when you're wrong. Kids today are positively starved for any dad figure role models in many households.

I've seen Bluey isn't nearly as popular in households where dad is home a lot, either as the primary caretaking parent or in situations like family farms/businesses. I think you have to be really aching for a dad before a cartoon dog is an appealing one.
 
that's your answer.
I can understand adults falling for this show after watching it with their kids, or aussies watching it because aussies will be aussies. What I have a hard time grasping is why childless adults would regularly watch a pre-school show like this, MLP or Peppa Pig outside of random clips and then be so proud and open about it. Looking through a quick youtube video to understand this, I found Bluey had an inoffensive Harambe joke and cute moments, which is fun and perfect to encourage adults to watch something with their kids because it will make them go (I understood that joke haha). I mean this feels like the kind of hobby someone would want to keep private.

Best thing I can say is that I hope more parents are encouraging their kids to watch Bluey instead of whatever fucked up garbage CN, Netflix, Disney and Nick are pumping out for your kids, and that parents are watching Bluey with them rather than just leaving their kids alone to be raised by a tablet/smartphone.

I can maybe also understand there being nothing good to watch these days aside from Bluey what with how pozzed everything is, but there's no shortage of great classic media especially from the first half of the 20th century to watch as an alternative and which too many people flat out ignore simply because it doesn't meet with their HD visual standards.
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It is extra disturbing because Bluey aimed at a younger audience than even my little pony friendship is magic or Sonic the Hedgehog. Grooming is a big issue in both fandoms. It doesn't help the adult bluey fandom, like to role play as parents to fictional dog children.
Saberspark. Why am I not surprised?

Hide your shame, people. We've all got our shames. But don't parade them around.
The Pizza speaks the truth.
 
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I enjoy watching the show every now and then with my kid, it’s very well written and has some very nice family moments but I would never watch it on my own, and I am concerned about the childless adults who choose to do so. I get enjoyment from seeing the relatable struggles of the parents and my kid’s development paralleling the show’s kids. Are the adults watching this without kids just projecting themselves into the child characters, or trying to simulate fitting into a family they don’t have?
 
Because the boomers took everything that was great and enjoyable about being an adult and ran that shit into the ground like there would be no tomorrow. Practically everything important and fulfilling about adulthood that boomers could achieve with a bit of planning has become cost prohibitive to millennials. It's no reason to give up, but at the same time it starts to make sense why you see these sorts of shows as a form of escapism for some people these days.
sounds like a bullshit excuse for whiney millennial losers.
 
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