Disappointing photos show what it's really like to backpack across Europe - in which a journo cunt finds out that Instagram is in fact NOT an accurate representation of reality

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Insider's reporter expected an Instagram-like backpacking adventure in Europe (L), but the reality was much less glamorous (R).
  • I recently spent two weeks backpacking through Europe for the first time.
  • I found that it wasn't the glamorous, romantic adventure that it often looks like on Instagram.
  • While backpacking, I was disappointed by overnight train rides and crowds of tourists in each city.

In 2022, I tried backpacking for the first time.​

With a passion for fashion, traveling with just a backpack never appealed to me before 2022. There were always too many things I wanted to pack.
But since I began traveling more last year as a travel reporter for Insider, I realized I needed to lighten my load to make it easier to hit the road for longer periods of time.
I made a minimalist travel style a priority in August 2022, when I spent a week backpacking for the first time through Eastern Canada. It turned out to be a lot easier — and more efficient — than I'd originally thought.
So when I planned a two-week train trip through four European countries two months later, I decided to push myself to fit everything I needed into my backpack again.

Unfortunately, I found that backpacking through Europe wasn't as romantic or glamorous as it often seems through photos on my Instagram feed.​

Over the course of two weeks, I backpacked across Germany, Austria, Italy, and Switzerland while exploring the cities of Berlin, Vienna, Venice, Rome, Milan, and Zürich. It was my first time visiting each country and backpacking in Europe.

As part of my travels, I slept in shared train cabins and budget Airbnbs, and initially, felt like I was living the life of young adults on a gap year, or post-college students on a big adventure.

But I quickly realized it wasn't as glamorous as I expected it to be based on stories I'd heard from other people, or more commonly, pictures I saw on social media.

On Instagram, I've often seen epic photos of an empty nature scene save for the backpackers with a caption about life being an adventure.

But after backpacking Europe myself, I found that the travel style was full of hardships I rarely see posts about.

First, I found that my biggest backpack couldn't squeeze in all the clothes I wanted to bring.​

I picked the largest bag I own — a 32-liter backpack — for my trip to Europe.

I wasn't sure how well this bag would work for a two-week trip, so I practiced packing as lightly as possible to ensure I could fit everything.

I started with my work gear, which included a laptop, cameras, lenses, and a notebook. Then I packed chargers, toiletries, and snacks before realizing my work gear and other essentials were taking priority over clothes.

I was hoping to bring two packing cubes full of clothing, but I could only fit one in my bag. This cut my proposed wardrobe in half. I ended up only having room for two polos, one t-shirt, one long-sleeve t-shirt, three pairs of pants, a sweater, a blazer, a dress, and two light jackets.

Although I impressed myself by packing lighter than I ever had while still having everything I needed for the longest trip I'd ever taken, I couldn't help but feel disappointed in my limited outfit choices.

Because I could only bring a few garments, I had to do laundry at nearly every accommodation.​

I've never seen a backpacking social media post about doing laundry, but I found myself washing my clothes at nearly every Airbnb I stayed in.

I stayed in each accommodation for just one or two nights, so to ensure my clothes would be dry before checking out, I had to prioritize doing laundry as soon as I checked in.

I brought my own laundry soap and used sinks and bathtubs to wash each garment before hanging them up to dry.

This was a bummer since I often arrived at each accommodation feeling exhausted from travel, and washing my clothes was the last thing I felt like doing.

Coming home to tiny Airbnbs with wet clothes everywhere stressed me out after a day of exploring.​

From a converted wine barrel outside of Zürich to an Airstream trailer in Vienna, most of my Airbnbs were tiny homes with less than 100 square feet in size. So even a little bit of clutter made them look messy to me.

I also thought having my clothes hanging to dry made the spaces feel even more chaotic.

Each time I returned to my accommodations, I was greeted with a disheveled space that made me feel stressed out. Since I work hard to keep my apartment looking spotless at home, I wasn't used to living in a cluttered space. I found it hard to relax in these rooms after tiring days of exploring.

I thought a sleeper train would be a smart way to arrive in new cities and maximize my time, but these shared cabins felt cramped and uncomfortable.​

I booked two overnight trains during my trip. I thought this would be the best way to travel through Europe so I could explore more during the day.

But the small, uncomfortable spaces I had to travel in for long periods of time made it hard to sleep.

To get from Vienna to Venice, I booked a bunk in a shared cabin on an overnight train run by Nightjet, a rail line that operates overnight routes between Austria, Italy, France, and the Netherlands, according to the company's website.

Since I booked a shared room with up to five other people, I expected to feel a little cramped, but I anticipated being able to move around the room freely.

However, I found that the 74-square-foot cabin didn't feel like enough space for myself and the other travelers, especially with everyone's luggage. Our cabin only had four people in it, and I thought it would have been even more uncomfortable had it been fully booked with six people.

There was space for bags above the beds, but not enough for everyone. I couldn't do much more than sit and lay in my bunk, and quickly became disappointed by my choice to travel in this way.

I was also surprised by the lack of privacy inside the shared bunk cabin on the train.​

Before my trip, I imagined that each bunk in the shared cabin on the sleeper train would have a curtain for privacy. However, the beds were completely exposed, so I had to go to the bathroom to change into my pajamas privately.

I also had to wake up another traveler using the top bunk in the middle of the night to use the bathroom since the room's lock was only accessible from their bunk.

After this experience, I don't think I'll ever bunk with strangers on an overnight train again, especially since some Nightjet routes have private cabins, according to the company's website.

"Offering our passengers a high level of travel comfort is an important concern for us," a representative for ÖBB Nightjet told Insider. "We are constantly working on improvements to our product and also take into account the requirements of our customers."

But I thought my experience was even worse on the other overnight train I took where I booked a regular seat and didn't sleep at all.​

On my other overnight train from Berlin to Vienna, I had an even harder time sleeping. I sat in a seating carriage room with six seats facing each other, which is Nightjet's version of standard coach seating.

During my leg of the journey, three travelers were already there when I boarded, and two others arrived within the first few hours. Right away, I thought the room was cramped and lacked enough legroom for each traveler.

The seat appeared slightly wider than a typical train coach seat, with two cushions, and reclined far enough to almost lay flat, but not fully. I reclined mine all the way, but I thought the gap between the seat back and the bottom of the seat made it tough to get comfortable.

When I tried to sleep, I found it impossible with the constant bumps on the ride and so many people around. I ended up staying up until the morning and regretted traveling overnight.

"The quality of travel depends not only on the carriages, but also on the route," OBB Nightjet wrote in a statement to Insider. "We recommend the sleeper or couchette car for night travel. There is enough space to stretch out. Seated carriages are recommended for shorter journeys."

While some influencers might like this type of travel, next time, I'll stick to daytime routes if I can't sleep flat on a bed in a private room.

I often arrived in each country feeling exhausted from lack of sleep, which made it harder to enjoy my time in each place​

Because I had so much trouble sleeping on both overnight train rides, I often arrived into a new city feeling tired and depleted instead of excited and ready to start exploring.

When I got to Vienna at 7 a.m. after a sleepless night in the seating carriage, I was so exhausted that I looked for any hotel that would take me in so early in the morning. I thought this made the overnight ride ultimately not worth the time saved since I didn't do anything when I arrived other than sleep.
And when I got off the train in Venice, while I had enough energy to explore since I got some sleep in the bunk, I still felt fatigued, and it took away from how much I was able to enjoy that first day.

As a result, my first day in both cities felt disappointing, and that my plan to save time and energy backfired. I couldn't help but think I wasted two days that could have been spent feeling more appreciative of the city surrounding me, had I gotten enough rest.

In fact, a lot of my trip was more physically draining than I anticipated because carrying my backpack each day made my body sore.​

On travel days, I had to carry my backpack for long periods of time. I wore it on the go to catch my train, and then when I arrived into a new city, I had to keep it on my back until I was able to check into my accommodation. And then I'd repeat the entire process when I checked out before catching a train to my next destination.

I've certainly never seen any Instagram posts about these bags being comfortable. Each day, after wearing my backpack while walking for extended periods, all of my muscles felt incredibly sore.

In these moments, I was surprised to find myself questioning if a backpack really is more convenient than a carry-on suitcase. Sure, a carry-on suitcase is larger and often needs to be wheeled around, but after lugging around my backpack all day, I felt like it could be easier to roll a suitcase around, and it would have been better for my body. Plus, I'd be able to pack more.

Large crowds made having a backpack even harder. I thought traveling in October — the end of shoulder season — would help me avoid this, but I was wrong.​

In most photos of backpackers I see on Instagram, it looks like they're completely alone in a dramatic scene, whether it's a scenic landscape or a major tourist attraction.

But I found that even during the shoulder season, which is when I was in Europe, this was never the case. From Rome to Zurich, I trudged through places that were overrun with tourists.

Throughout my trip, I stood on tippy toes to see popular historic sites above rows of heads obscuring my view. I found that even getting just one photo of myself at tourist hot spots, like the Colosseum in Rome, felt nearly impossible. And since I'm 5'3, I found it hard to see these sights over the heads and smartphones of the people around me.

I also wasn't used to the weight and size of my backpack, which made it challenging to get around. In crowded spaces, I kept forgetting that the backpack made me about a third larger than I typically am. In busy streets and train stations, I found myself bumping into people with my pack before realizing that I needed to reconsider how I was taking up space.
Next time I plan a trip to Europe, I'll visit in the off season for fewer crowds.

While it wasn't a picture-perfect adventure, backpacking through Europe made me realize that you can't plan out every second, and maybe that's a good thing.​

While there were a handful of hardships, I found that backing in Europe was full of good surprises, too.

For example, I initially thought seeing so many new places in a short time would make them blend together in my mind, but each city felt genuinely unique and left me with distinct memories. And without my backpack, I probably wouldn't have been able to travel to as many places in one trip.

I'll never forget how alive Berlin felt with its lush pockets of greenery, dramatic murals, and street performers, or how Vienna's garden mazes and fairytale architecture made me feel like royalty — even with a turtle shell on my back.

Ultimately, I thought the good surprises outweighed the bad, so I would definitely backpack in Europe again. But next time, I'll avoid shared accommodations, overnight rides, and the busy season.

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As I read thru this I was waiting for the joke to get to the point or for the epic dismount but it never came.

Why are people like this? Did she expect to travel thru europe in the lap of luxury like the great orient express of old?
I suppose there are actually people that think every train in europe is like the hogwarts express...

Also, visting Zürich, Berlin, Vienna and a couple of VERY popular italian tourist spots and complaining about there being crowds is like a europoor coming to NYC and complainig why there are so many people in Central Park and Times Square....
 
Checking her other articles she’s written a ton about it sucking to ride a train. It’s like every other article is about why you would hate it, seems to be her old reliable when needing to pump out content.

Maybe it appeals to people coping over not being able to afford a vacation ever.
She takes the train a lot because she's afraid of flying.
 
First of all, this woman has a different definition of "backpacking" than anyone I know.

Second of all, what on earth was she expecting? This trip sounds like the worst. Arrive in a city, try to see everything in a short time period, fail, get on a 5+ hour train journey to the next city to repeat the process.

Two weeks sounds like enough time to do, like, Italy.
Her entire trip was sitting in trains lol.

I backpacked across Germany, Austria, Italy, and Switzerland
She could have stayed the entire two weeks in any of those countries and still not seen/done everything there is for a tourist to do. Why the fuck would you move around so much on such a short vacation. It would have been better had she spent a week in Austria then a week in Italy, or just do like you said and spend the entire time in Italy.
She takes the train a lot because she's afraid of flying.
What a coward! Maybe traveling just isn't for you if you're scared of flying.

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I just read her cruise article and this sickly bitch is also prone to motion sickness. She's like the type of person who is least capable of travel, yet that's what she writes about. She's dumb, she gets motion sickness, she's scared of flying, she's weak and gets tired and hurt wearing a backpack. She needs to just stay home and watch the travel channel.
 
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yeah people who didn't go to college totally get gigs like this
Honestly, I strongly suspect that her daddy or mummy knows someone who knows someone. This kind of writing 'gig' is generally taken by rich brats who want to pretend that they're working. Just about all the 'journalists' these days are rich.
 
her parents wouldn't have to "know people" to be a stupid travel reporter
She's getting paid for doing a lousy job on the same things that a shitton of others are doing much, much better and for free. Have you read her other articles? She is genuinely dim and writes badly. The internet is full of smart people who write well, and get paid nothing for it. There is absolutely some form of nepotism behind her being hired.
 
Packing and women, Even at the start of the article I knew this was coming.
Exactly, backpacking is supposed to mean travelling pretty light. 2-3 pants, 2-3 shirts, 1-3 socks and 3-5 underwear and you're DONE. One good pair of boots/shoes as some sandals. That's IT. You wash your clothes when you can but beyond that you deal with it and enjoy travelling cheap and light.

This writer wanted a damn luxury experience on peanuts. What a friggin idiot.
 
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I don't know if it's the same now, but people under 25 used to get massive rail discounts across Europe if they bought a specific ticket - which allowed them to go wherever and whenever, within a certain timeframe.
You're thinking of Interrail. It still exists, and you can also now buy it if you're over 25 (though the price is different), but each country has nerfed it in their own way, so you need highly specific train autism to actually save any money whatsoever with it (as well as a high degree of social confidence, very uncommon in autists, for the countries that require booking tickets in person).

You can also claim compensation in the EU for train trips that are more than an hour late. The Germans seem to have used their autism to make it so that every long distance train journey in Germany is exactly 59 minutes late.

Whoever suggested driving a car is right, cars are a big source of national pride in Germany and Italy, for instance.
 
Wealthy girls apparently like to take summer vacations in Europe and will post backpacking photos while spending the night in nice hotels.
Correct, they thot it up on camera with their little travel backpack then sleep in a hotel 😂 (usually with the guy financing the trip)
She complained so much about not having enough clothes. She had three times as many as I did on my Europe trip. Two jackets, and a blazer, and a jumper, Jesus.
Typical woman moment. I JUST HAVE TJ HAVE AN OUTFIT for every occasion....
I'm by no means an experienced traveler. I've only been to Europe once, on a 4-week vacation after college graduation. Even I know that she did basically everything wrong. A 32-liter backpack is not "minimalist". I did my Europe trip with a flight bag. She went for trendy Instagram-friendly AirBnBs instead of staying at hotels and then complains that they weren't comfortable enough. Washing clothes in sinks? Has this bitch even heard of laundromats? No fucking kidding she didn't get good sleep in shared sleeper cabins. Any decent travel guide will tell you it's no substitute for a night in a hotel. Of course there were tourists everywhere, those are some of the biggest and most popular cities in Europe, and she went at a time went two years of pent-up vacation demand was finally able to get released.
Yep, a buddy and I are in the planning stages for a trip to Europe next YEAR. We're thinking Italy for a solid 2 weeks. Maybe with a quick hop to Tunisia for some sweet sweet Roman ruins.
As a tall and broad-shouldered dude, I'd be the most miserable person alive from the transatlantic flight alone. I'll just take people's word that the Eiffel Tower is very impressive.
Exit row, aisle seat. You're welcome 🫡. That or shell out for business/first class. Other than those 3 options flights longer than 2-3 hours are fucking HELL these days.
She thought she'd get laid.
Too bad not even Eurotrash guys wanted to hit that 😂
If you're going to travel and you're carrying everything with you for extended periods of time, pick one camera and one lens because the combined weight of multiple cameras and lenses adds up quickly. If I had the money to travel, I'd buy a Canon mirrorless like a EOS M200 with the default 15-45mm lens and just use it for everything because a photo looking marginally better with a more specialized lens isn't worth the extra dead weight I'd be carrying around.
This, I have a Fuji X-S10 and two lenses, a 16-80mm and a 70-300mm. The 70-300mm would ONLY come along if I was going on an animal tour or there was a fucking insane airshow happening. The 16-80mm.is good enough for 95% of pictures I take with the camera and the camera and lens fit in a little camera bag.
I think I genuinely brought less clothing and gear the last time I hiked through the Ozarks.

Anything even remotely tourist-y anywhere in Europe I've ever been has been ruined by the gaggle of dumbass midwestern wives going "OOOOH YAH, THAT'S REAL NICE RIGHT THERE." loud enough to wake the dead. London, Paris, Rome and Amsterdam were all like this. Prague was mostly tourists from elsewhere in Europe, but it was still a bunch of fat krauts and danes walking around hammered at 1 PM.
That's why you go in the off season.
It's the sensor size, you can get more detail with a full-frame (36mm x 24mm, the same size as a frame of 35mm film) sensor (or the somewhat smaller 22.3mm x 14.9 mm APS-C sensor like the Canon EOS M200 has) compared to the dinky sensor in a phone. Also, the pixel pitch is larger than a phone meaning you can get better performance in low light.

But you can still take pretty good shots with a phone these days. I think the image processing software in the phone somewhat compensates for the smaller sensor size.
Correct although most phones fall apart when you try and zoom in. That said most modern mirror less cameras from all makers are pretty compact these days compared to the older DSLRs and even the "kit" lenses are excellent.
"Backpacking through Europe" is the most basic bitch aspiration in the universe. If you want to experience European cultures, take a two week long trip to each country you're interested in. If you want to keep your faux Bohemian vibe going you can backpack through that country, but you have to stick around long enough to cultivate the most basic understanding of the area. Anything less and you're not going to experience culture, you're going to experience a couple tourist traps and buy a foam baguette that says "j'aime la France" on it before moving on to the next country and doing it again. But we all know they don't care about the locals. They just want to brag about how world-traveled they are and post a bunch of the exact kind of staged pictures this author is whining about.
100% correct. A true EU backpacking trip is 1+ month long.
Tbh there are plenty of interesting things to see and do outside of tourist trap capitals. You can stay in some village and have enough things around it to not be bored for entire week.
Problem is :
A) You will need to do some reaserch and planning , before the trip which imo is not big deal in the era of internet.
B) These places are less foreign tourist friendly so you will need to know atleast, basics of local language.
But upside is you will have unique experience. And you will have breathing space.
Yep, too bad research is too hard for your average IG thot.
haha

So true, years ago I had two different friend who bought a DSLR for trips and I told them you better off with a dedicated pocket digital camera because it will do better than your phone and can go in you shirt pocket etc.

Having a clunky exspensive camera in its own bag really distracts from what should be a fun vacation.
Mirrorless cameras now are pretty compact and tbh the little pocket digital ones are mostly dead now due to smart phones. I have a little bag smaller than a half loaf of bread for my camera and lens.
 
I'm not sure she's educated, but the subject of my first sentence was "most non-Europeans." That comprises a few billion people who are not educated Americans.

yeah people who didn't go to college totally get gigs like this

Honestly, I strongly suspect that her daddy or mummy knows someone who knows someone. This kind of writing 'gig' is generally taken by rich brats who want to pretend that they're working. Just about all the 'journalists' these days are rich.

if you read the about section her you get:
Joey graduated from St. Edward's University in May 2019 with a BA in Photocommunications.
she has a degree, though it is debatable whether she is educated. i lean towards no.
 
I would bang this weird looking travel slut, she could stay in my private hostel room for ballers. Seriously, stay in hostels but ALWAYS get the single room. You're welcome. It's not cheap but if you're poor you shouldn't be traveling anyway.

This article could have been pretty funny (unfortunately a woman wrote it), is this like a style of travel writing? The I suck and everything I did was boring and shitty school of reporting?
 
This, I have a Fuji X-S10 and two lenses, a 16-80mm and a 70-300mm. The 70-300mm would ONLY come along if I was going on an animal tour or there was a fucking insane airshow happening. The 16-80mm.is good enough for 95% of pictures I take with the camera and the camera and lens fit in a little camera bag.

I'd probably bring my long zoom as well if I was going on safari or to an airshow but I think I wouldn't be backpacking, I'd be on a normal adult vacation and I'd leave my clothes and the other contents of my luggage in a hotel or lodge so I'd only be carrying the weight of the camera equipment with me at the event itself (and maybe also a couple of cans of 7-Up or something).
 
The European backpackers I came across were slumming it all the time. They'll sleep anywhere, have like 3 sets of clothes max. They'll take any job as long as it pays. Much of the seasonal fruit picking is taken by them. They'll work in 40 degree heat with shit accom.

One time I was doing a life drawing group, and the young woman getting nude was a European backpacker. She probably only made like $50 herself from the session. She was in good shape though.
 
Niggas wanna see beauty but think America has none of it. Shit, any of these niggas see the grand canyon? I remember seeing that shit and going, "AHHHH Shit, that's a big fucking beautiful hole!" which is I guess the same statement and face that white women get when they see Lizzo on TV.
That doesn't give them the cachet that being a "world traveler" does. Any Midwestern slob with a rental car or RV can truck on over to the Grand Canyon or the Rockies or Yellowstone.
 
She's getting paid for doing a lousy job on the same things that a shitton of others are doing much, much better and for free. Have you read her other articles? She is genuinely dim and writes badly. The internet is full of smart people who write well, and get paid nothing for it. There is absolutely some form of nepotism behind her being hired.
the reasons the people on this site come up with to excuse their personal failings
 
France doesn't note crime rates by race either, as their constitution forbids it. However, they noted nearly all of the public transit assaults, groping and spitting were done by Muslim men. Now, France has been known for its sleazy men who always try to literally fuck you, but it's gotten worse with diversity. Really bad. And yeah, it's not just in France. I have a Swedish friend who attested a friend of his - not white, btw, she was Somali, IIRC - looked a Muslim man in the eyes and he assumed she was interested in him.

Eye contact = sex, according to these inbreds.
Some cultures consider eye contact a threat. Heard Aboriginal Australians do.
 
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