Trans man goes viral after getting emotional about the ‘loneliness’ of life after gender transition - Health conscious feminists can now drink male tears lite.

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Trans man goes viral after getting emotional about the ‘loneliness’ of life after gender transition

'I also now understand why the suicide rate is so much higher in men, because this s--- is lonely!' Barnes claimed on Instagram

By Gabriel Hays

A biological female turned trans man went viral this week after posting an emotional video about the loneliness of being a man.

"Nobody told me how lonely being a man is," the influencer claimed in the two-minute video discussing having more friends when identifying as a woman.

The subject also discussed why the male suicide rate is higher than in women.

The video was first published to Instagram by James Barnes, a motivational speaker, stress management coach, and social media influencer who claimed to have transitioned from being a woman to a man eight years ago.

Barnes, who goes by "thetranscoach" on the platform, opened up about the struggles of living as a man in the clip that was shared Thursday.

Specifically, the user lamented that life as a man is much lonelier than life as a woman.

The clip opened with Barnes, sporting a beard and wearing a white baseball cap, declaring, "Nobody told me how lonely being a man is." The user then noted how, as a woman, it was much easier connecting to other people in general.

Shedding tears, Barnes said, "I have had closer relationships with random women I met in the bathroom before I transitioned at clubs because of how open women are, than I’ve had in my eight years of transitioning because women are just so much more vulnerable and deep than men."

The speaker noted that trans men have the unique experience of this dramatic shift after they’ve transitioned, stating, "But to have known, and I think a lot of trans men feel this, is we knew what that depth felt like before we transitioned. We knew what it felt like to like have people want to hug us and to have people want to talk to us and have a community."

Voice breaking, the influencer continued, "And then you transition and you’re just a guy walking down the street that people cross the street so that they’re not near you."

Barnes also voiced his realization that as a man "friendships are so much harder to build. And people are colder."

Additionally, the speaker admitted they could now see more clearly why the suicide rate for men is "higher," though Barnes noted that it doesn’t negate the complaints the rest of society has about straight white males.

"And what’s hard is, none of this invalidates how real and raw women and people who are in marginalized groups feels about cis white men, all of that’s valid. But I also now understand why the suicide rate is so much higher in men, because this s--- is lonely!"

Barnes then urged viewers to reach out to men in their communities and "help them maybe be seen for a moment."

Prominent conservative Twitter account "Libs of TikTok" shared the clip to her Twitter page on Friday, where it acquired more than 15 million views in less than 24 hours.

Libs of TikTok captioned the post, writing, "This is really sad. Trans man realizes how hard it is to be a man when you’re really a woman. Males and females are different and no matter what you do to your body, you can’t be the opposite sex."

 

[The Ugly One]

Girls in beauty parlor get mad if you say nigger.

Women are faggots.

 

[Manul Otocolobus]

My grandfather, as a member of the self-titled "Greatest Generation", told me the times when it is okay to shed a tear as a man. When your parents die. If any of your siblings die before you. If your spouse dies before you. If your children die before you. When your dog dies. That's it.

 

[AnOminous]

Girls in beauty parlor get mad if you say nigger. This shit exists on this site. No, I won't stop saying it.

Brb off to go say nigger in BP. j/k

 

[Omen_Sulk]

Girls in beauty parlor get mad if you say nigger. This shit exists on this site. No, I won't stop saying it.

Null already said Beauty Parlor is Womens only. But conversely, if the Beauty Parlor crowd decides to wander into A&H and start shitting up the place. The mods will protect them.

So I've come to the conclusion that the rest of the site are a bunch of simps.

 

[AnOminous]

So I've come to the conclusion that the rest of the site are a bunch of simps.

Respect whammens you fucking chud.

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

Men spend most of their time alone. A lot of them like it that way. We can deal with it and women can't.

So there is no lonely men epidemic? I've never trusted the media anyway. Just lies upon lies upon lies...

 

[Cool Dog Returns]

One of THE rites of passage for men, one of THE moments when you leave boyhood behind is realizing that nobody gives a shit about you, that in many cases you're just a few really bad decisions away from dying on the streets, plain obvious when you see the sheer number of male hobos vs the few female hobos out there

As a man you have to live knowing that theres no help coming, that if shit gets real most people expect you to just die, or worse yet die for others

Example: if I floored this 4/10 fat bitch at a bar when she still had an axe wound at least a few men would try to stop me, some white knight even punch me (hope he likes getting knifed) but if I floored >him as a pooner nobody would give a shit, bitches would laugh at the manlet, other dudes would record it or high-five me

"Nobody told me how lonely being a man is."

Yeah they did but I bet you called them incels and laughed at them, who's laughing now pooner?

because women are just so much more vulnerable and deep than men."

Bitches are shallow as shit, case in point the pooner idea of masculinity is "grilling with the boys" and shit that looks like something out of a beer commercial

Even when I talk with smart women, women with a degree, all I hear is basic shit like gossip, whatever shit there's on tv or something about their boring ass lives. Never interesting shit, never something about history, world events, tech, science, philosophy, you know actually deep stuff

And then you transition and you’re just a guy walking down the street that people cross the street so that they’re not near you."

The tuna smell of pooners doesnt help but being a bald manlet with that facial hair they probably think you're a perv or even a pedo

the speaker admitted they could now see more clearly why the suicide rate for men is "higher," though Barnes noted that it doesn’t negate the complaints the rest of society has about straight white males.

Fucking 41% yourself already pooner, I mean it

"And what’s hard is, none of this invalidates how real and raw women and people who are in marginalized groups feels about cis white men

Bitch cant stop, she has to keep being a cunt and playing the part as if being an ally means anything now thats shes one of the "evil ones"

Once again, rope yourself, fucking DO IT

This isnt a joke, there's no "haha kys" meme, if you're reading this fucking end yourself in the most graphic way not silently like that dyke that larped as a guy, literally walk into a feminist rally and suck off a shotgun in front of thousands of women, the only contribution you made in your short worthless life being making it unavoidable to see just how much the modern world sucks for men that even pooners want to die

Libs of TikTok captioned the post, writing, "This is really sad

Ah yes the moneygrubbing ragebait account run by a white woman, see this is why there are no based women because even tho this pooner wouldnt give a shit if this bitch got raped by a pack of niggers she still puts womanhood over ideology and get the feelz over ms.zippertits here instead of laughing and telling her what we're all thinking:

You get what you fucking deserve

They don't get tranny benefits because nobody can clock them

I totally can clock these pooner cunts specially when they hit the wall at 30 and start to wrinkle so they can no longer pass as a teen boy anymore

Some women might not but thats because all babyface manlets are invisible for then, they dont clock them because they dont even care to try, get what I'm saying?

I've made friends with other dudes that I met at the gas station that lasted for years.

>gas stations

.......................what kind of friendship are we talking about here?

That book alone should tell people how hard it can be to be a man.

Should be mandatory lecture for all women in HS and college

Then again iirc that bulldyke wasnt well received in feminists circles after that which is what probably contributing to her finally roping

If she did that now she would get cancelled, like that feminist who did the redpill doc

She is effectively not human. An unthinking golem.

Nah she thinking alright, shes not dumb she knows that if she does not do the "white man bad" disclaimer her pooner ass is done for, her own "friends" are gonna be telling her to 41% herself but unironically

They're every inch as misandrist as your average TERF, and I've seen a lot of terfs admit they almost became FtMs.

Go on

At least when TiMs get the chop, lose their libido, and go "holy fuck, what have I done?" they're snapping back to reason out of madness

I seen far more pooners than trooners regretting it, mostly because trooners are men at the very bottom of the scale who after trooning ascend in society and become a protected class just like women are

But pooners they realize they just changed story mode with cheats for fucking hardcore roguelike mode. This pooner here was a bit of a hambeast but I seen solid 7/10s pooning out and going from gf material to balding lanklet. Is like being an olympic athlete and deciding to cut your legs at the hips

Youtube is shoddy on TOR so I'll drop you the link. https://youtu.be/Ip7kP_dd6LU

Ah the dead bulldyke, I thought the video was going to be this pooner here getting told to get the fuck out

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

Some farmers here are way too dramatic & emotional about this.

I suggest you grow a pair & man up.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

The other thing about men that women don't understand is that insults are a way of bonding, a lot of things men say to each other would have a woman running off crying.

I reluctantly agree (reluctantly, bc 9/10 critical takes about women on this site in the world are retarded, or shitposts, or both, so my starting-point tends to be skeptical for these kinds of generalizations).

But - you're right. Women - largely - don't tease each other in a way that is genuinely good-natured, and direct confrontation is equally fraught.

Spoiler: Skip if you dislike anecdotes

I have a woman acquaintance/friend (via work). We have a number of at least superficial life similarities (unlike most women in my community), among those being fairly intense work-wise, and, I thought, pretty neutral and professional. She would occasionally give me what I thought was good-natured minor ribbing ("everytime I log on in the morning it shows you were on until 2 am,""you are always in calls/how come I am never invited," or whatever - OK, a little weird you're watching my hours, but whatever, ha, ha, ha), or disagree directly on some point or other. Cool, I thought; refreshing, I thought. Strong personalities and team rapport, I thought.

Welp. Just let me joke once about how "passionate" (crying) she gets about work stuff, or say directly once that I didn't like how she'd handled some interpersonal something with another co-worker that ended up taking up hours of my time. Christ. Actual tears, "I know you don't like me" for an hour. I'm like, lady, I am here to do a job; I don't like or dislike you yet. It's nothing personal that I don't, actually, want to get stuck on hours-long calls anymore in which you inevitably (literally) cry about your personal life or the business, because though I know life fucking sucks sometimes, this is work, and also I do not have the bandwidth to absorb your negative emotional energy...and I can literally feel the leech-like sucking.

I do not care to risk someone's tears just addressing a professional issue or returning some light teasing.

I digress. Point was, there is very little teasing in girl-world because power and success (of all kinds) is too often made personal and zero-sum - and not just in a work setting. Conditioning sucks.

It's a shame, because I'd like more women friends. But man, the complication.

Men are typically much easier to josh around with, but

Spoiler: PSA

...sex pest - to which I say, if you've shot your shot (or if there's a history that has transitioned) and there's clearly no interest, please either drop the subject or fuck off, rather than pretending to be genuine friends while inevitably steering to low-effort come-ons.)

Context, folks.

The suicide rate for men is higher due to competency and not being as histrionic on average.

Women are just fucking bad at it.

Weird flex, but OK.

Marriage is equivalent to handing a gun to a woman and telling her not to shoot you with it anytime from when you tied the knot to your expiry date.

Far more women than men are mentally shredded by marriage/relationships. [no cite but true, and you hate women for it] (and if you want stats on financial situation post-divorce /breakup with kids involved [perhaps the most objectively bad-for-women situation that exists, financially], I have them, but it's a different topic).

Real men only cry when the dog dies in the movie. It's a single, solitary tear, and you're a faggot if anyone catches you.

When men cry, they cry for themselves, usually because of conditions they create/control and don't have the balls to change. And to get women to comfort sex them. #notallmen, I assume, but faith is wavering. Prove me wrong (rhetorical).

Null already said Beauty Parlor is Womens only. But conversely, if the Beauty Parlor crowd decides to wander into A&H and start shitting up the place. The mods will protect them.

So I've come to the conclusion that the rest of the site are a bunch of simps.

Men post in BP. And, fwiw, Stinkditch is technically in BP, and comments there absolutely >50% men.

Even when I talk with smart women, women with a degree, all I hear is basic shit like gossip, whatever shit there's on tv or something about their boring ass lives. Never interesting shit, never something about history, world events, tech, science, philosophy, you know actually deep stuff

I don't believe you know any actual "smart women."* And "a degree" is not the sole marker of a smart person. Plenty of people with "degrees" are idiots. Not because education isn't inherently worthwhile, but because idiots take stupid courses just to get a dEgReE.

* and do not discount the fact that women with ideas often intimidate men

4/10 fat bitch

axe wound

tuna smell

Bitch cant stop

being a cunt

hit the wall at 30

Cool story, bro.

 

[Cool Dog Returns]

and do not discount the fact that women with ideas often intimidate men

She fucking said it! "intimidate"! nobody is intimidated by your dumb ass reciting back shit you read elsewhere just like nobody is scared of faggots, they are disgusted by them, and the only intimidation dumb cunts can do is when they get simps to fight for them over the faintest posibility of sex which of course they wont get even if they get killed defending m'lady

And quoting half my fucking post? stay toastie roastie

 

[Omen_Sulk]

Men post in BP. And, fwiw, Stinkditch is technically in BP, and comments there absolutely >50% men.

Yes Men post in BP. But's it's not safe to post there. Unless you want a crack team of simps coming after you. I'd avoid it entirely if it wasn't for the tranny threads.

When men cry, they cry for themselves, usually because of conditions they create/control and don't have the balls to change. And to get women to comfort sex them.

BP is breaking containment again.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

She fucking said it! "intimidate"! nobody is intimidated by your dumb ass reciting back shit you read elsewhere just like nobody is scared of faggots, they are disgusted by them, and the only intimidation dumb cunts can do is when they get simps to fight for them over the faintest posibility of sex which of course they wont get even if they get killed defending m'lady

And quoting half my fucking post? stay toastie roastie

Bite me, bitch.

But seriously, your lack of worldly experience is amusing. Thanks for playing, chump.

[Now, since we've both insulted each other, we going out for a beer? ]

 

[AnOminous]

But - you're right. Women - largely - don't tease each other in a way that is genuinely good-natured, and direct confrontation is equally fraught.

Lmao women talk to each other in such a vicious way that even their apparent compliments to each other usually contain a disguised insult.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Lmao women talk to each other in such a vicious way that even their apparent compliments to each other usually contain a disguised insult.

"I love that for you!".

Yes, you're not kidding.

 

[anustart76]

Women are faggots.

Women are the niggers of gender.

Beauty Parlor is Womens only

I identify as a woman when I post over there

Society has literally always treated men as disposable

Society demands everything of men while putting them down as worthless. If men were to collectively realize what bullshit this is, and how important they really are, and to stop doing what's demanded of them without the proper compensation/appreciation, the world would grind to a halt tomorrow.

 

[God of Nothing]

Lmao women talk to each other in such a vicious way that even their apparent compliments to each other usually contain a disguised insult.

Don't forget their support of horrible behaviors and lifestyles to eliminate competition for males.
How women interact with each other is so fucking horrible, but they go along with it because loneliness scares them that much.

 

[Omen_Sulk]

How women interact with each other is so fucking horrible, but they go along with it because loneliness scares them that much.

They'll just switch.

 

[AnOminous]

How women interact with each other is so fucking horrible, but they go along with it because loneliness scares them that much.

And males totally love loneliness, they never turn into murderous incels or anything.

 

[God of Nothing]

They'll just switch.

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And males totally love loneliness, they never turn into murderous incels or anything.

If this really were the case, we'd see waaaaay more rape and murder. Nearly half of Gen Z is sexless for fuck's sake. It'd be to the extent liberals say it is. Only the most emotional and mentally ill men go down this route.

 

[Omen_Sulk]

ah yes
white women fuck dogs and japanese women think apes are sexy

Not all Dogs. Give them some credit.