So i think this is going to be a autismo post but here we go.
I've changed my mind about the Ian and Anisa situation. I'm starting to think that it's not Anisa that's the main problem; it's Ian. I came to this conclusion from several other posters, but mainly from
. This whole vasectomy segment is weird. Why wouldn't he get it if he thinks so strongly about it? Surely he, an empathic man that loves his wife wouldn't put the responsibility of unwanted pregnancy's on his loving wife. Well, he doesn't need it. He has some sort of sexual dysfunction. It would explain so much about this whole situation. Before he was with Anisa, he either didn't know or he could simply ignore it, but now he is reminded daily that he can't fuck his wife, and it has broken his spirit.
It also explains how and why Anisa changed. She is married to a man who can't perform, and she feels unwanted. So what does she do? She gets breast implants and tattoos and starts an OnlyFans account. Ian, because he feels ashamed and guilty, doesn't put a stop to it. More than that, he constantly goes online and apologizes to her, taking the blame for everything while talking about how wonderful she is(because she wont leave him for being impotent).
There's also the angle of depression and medication. He is on something. Maybe the SSRI he's taking worsened his sexual dysfunction, or perhaps he's depressed and on an SSRI because of his impotence.
This is not to defend Anisa; she cheated on her previous boyfriend, which is inexcusable unless you are from a shithole country where a woman is not allowed to leave.
So yeah, this is my theory. Rate me autistic.