Polissa Snow / CatLadyPolissa / SouthernCatLady1983 / PolissaCampbellArt / Campbells Home for Wayward Cats and Josh Campbell / Wade Parker - E begging munchie Artist, Renaissance Woman, Cat Lady 🖖 and her hot headed husband that collectively killed over 30 animals. One has a 20 year old yeast infection, another shits in bags

[glass_houses]

I've has the misfortune to be involved with various narcs over the course of my life, and I don't think I'll ever stop wondering at their capacity for self destruction and their constant belief that they are always owed more. There are people in the world who will do anything they can to help others who need it, but instead of doing the bare minimum to flatter and appease them, the narc just screams at them for more and more. When the helpers are themselves in a bad place, the narc then piles on the pressure because the helpers aren't paying attention to the narc, and the narc can't have that. Like I said, I've seen this happen so many times and I know people with personality disorders are incapable of change. But it's still difficult to wrap my head around a narc's inability to realise that if they don't make at least a token effort of watering the gravy train, the gravy will eventually dry up.

Likewise, Polissa making regular token gestures of helping around the house could have kept Josh at least somewhat happy. Now Polissa has no one to cook and clean up after her, or bring in extra coin. They are both dreadful people, but they need each other to survive on multiple levels. It'll be interesting to see where they go from here.

 

[Angry New Ager]

On this edition of “NO HELP CAME,” Polly is still angry at her family as a whole. She wants them to throw her a make up birthday PARTY as punishment for the crime of going to the beach without her on her birthday. She feels so alone after they denied her cake and dinner and cars filled with balloons!

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FORTY YEAR OLD WOMAN

Amazing.

I'm guessing that those family members who got treated to big-deal 40th birthday bashes also worked hard, met their obligations to their families and showed their love for them, and generally made others' lives at least somewhat easier and better. Because when people do that, everybody else wants to show their love and appreciation for them in return, and making a big fuss of their birthday is one way to do just that.

Polissa, on the other hand, believes that having her birthday recognized and celebrated according to her expectations is a fucking birthright, and something she is owed. So how dare the rest of the family take off for the beach, rather than making Her Big Day their top priority?

"My birtthday was June 23rd. It's now the 7th of July and no one word has been mentioned a makeup party or anything."

Of course not, you dozy cow. If there were any plans to celebrate your birthday belatedly, you would have known about them before your damned birthday: "We're sorry we planned our vacation at a time that conflicts with your birthday, but we love you and when we get back we'll do it up right." Nobody would have left you hanging, if they really wanted to do the whole, "Lordy, lordy, look who's 40!" shindig for you.

What a fucking child. That is some Veruca Salt-tier "I want it now!" shit right there. And from a 40-year-old. A 40-year-old who can't figure out for the life of her why her family didn't go all out to make her happy on her Big 4-0, isn't sorry, and has no plans to make up for her obvious disappointment (because believe me, they know she's unhappy about it).

"No one is truely in my corner anymore and I'm not OK."

She's never been in anybody else's corner but her own. She constantly takes and takes and takes, from people who are by no means wealthy and don't have a lot to give, all the while complaining about how it's not right or not enough. And she's such a retard she can't understand why, after so many years of this, no1curr anymore.

Geez Polly, did it ever occur to you to figure out why everyone you know hates your guts?

No, it never has, because she's a Narcissist, and is therefore never wrong, and everything bad that happens to her is always somebody else's fault.

 

[glioblastoma multiforme]

"No one is truely in my corner anymore and I'm not OK."

She's never been in anybody else's corner but her own. She constantly takes and takes and takes, from people who are by no means wealthy and don't have a lot to give, all the while complaining about how it's not right or not enough. And she's such a retard she can't understand why, after so many years of this, no1curr anymore.

exactly.

in the time i've been following this thread, i don't think i've seen polissa do a single thing for another person, or even express an understanding that people have their own feelings, motivations, and shit to deal with.

at this point i'm not sure she actually has a theory of mind for other people, she seems to think they are automata there purely to serve her.

 

[Simon]

Awwww and on Tor, too. Oh well. The milk will still be glorious. What will happen to the Tub Trumpet Trailer??? Also yes, gross 11 cats.

 

[Grim Snark]

God I hope Josh kicks the cats out and refuses to let them back in. Maybe that’s the only way he’d be willing to stay.

 

[HamFan]

I'll believe they're actually breaking up when I see it. This just seems like a big dramatic fight to me. Either way, it's great tea- Josh hates the cats, and even he realizes they live in squalor.

 

[toilet_rainbow]

I'll believe they're actually breaking up when I see it. This just seems like a big dramatic fight to me. Either way, it's great tea- Josh hates the cats, and even he realizes they live in squalor.

While it feels like the start of something big, but I agree that it's not the breakup. Not just yet.

I always got the impression that Josh hated the cats. He only ever showed off the dogs on his social media, the few pictures of him with the animals were with the dogs, etc. Nice to see that confirmed.

I gotta say, though, I love cats, but having 11 at home would probably make me hate them, too. Especially if they're litter averse. I dislike Joh, but I can sympathesize with him about that.

 

[glioblastoma multiforme]

given polissa can't clean cos of 'muh fibro' the squalid trailer will become worse than a crack den if joh actally leaves, but like other posters i'll believe that when i see it.

i too would hate having 11 litter averse cats unless i lived in a mansion and could pay someone to clean daily. but unless they all get on super well, which is unlikely given they are territorial animals, it would still be a nightmare.

 

[Plague Flea]

Isn’t the rule of thumb that you’re supposed to have one litter box per cat plus one extra? So are there 12 litter boxes in the trailer? Lol no.

How likely is it that there‘s more than one? Even the most sociable cat isn’t going to want to share a box with 10 others, especially if it isn’t getting scooped regularly, which you know it isn’t.

 

[Angry New Ager]

Isn’t the rule of thumb that you’re supposed to have one litter box per cat plus one extra? So are there 12 litter boxes in the trailer? Lol no.

How likely is it that there‘s more than one? Even the most sociable cat isn’t going to want to share a box with 10 others, especially if it isn’t getting scooped regularly, which you know it isn’t.

I've found that you can get away with fewer, IF you have enough space for them to be widely dispersed (not all in one room); you split the cats up to either hang with their best buddies or get alone time for part of the day, in spaces where they have box access; AND you're scrupulous about keeping the boxes scooped and the boxes themselves cleaned/sanitized (because clean litter in a reeking, filthy box is the same thing as dirty litter to a lot of cats). And we know Polissa's not doing any of that. Anybody who doesn't like her communal "catbox room" is SOL.

Keeping a large colony of indoor cats reasonably happy and unstressed, so they don't start housesoiling, is really difficult. It's a lot of work; your life ends up revolving around the cats' needs; and you have to know each of the cats, their relationships to each other, and their individual needs, because there is no one-size-fits-all for cats, any more than there is for humans.

In the case of someone like Polissa, she could have eleven litter boxes in her "catbox room," and she's still going to have cats pissing and shitting all over the place because she can't recognize how incredibly stressed they all are, living in the circumstances she's forced them into. They don't have enough space; they don't have enough food; they've been uprooted from their home to this strange new environment; and they don't have a human who can look at things from a cat's perspective and understand why they're acting out—much less figure out how to solve the problem.

I don't like or use terms like "pet parent," "cat mom," or "furkids," because being a mother to young humans strikes me as incredibly intense, exhausting, and difficult (if you're trying to do it well). It's an immense responsibility, and even the most difficult and behaviorally-challenged cats I've had always seemed easy by comparison—at least I could shut them in the bathroom for a few hours and we'd both actually benefit from it. They're just not the same.

But if you're going to have a lot of cats, and do it successfully, you have to accept (as good parents do) that your life isn't entirely your own any more—the cats have a claim on a significant chunk of your time, money, and attention, and that's what you agreed to when you took them in. If you didn't agree to that, or even consider it before you took all those cats in, then you'd better get your shit together and do it once you're up to your ass in cats, because life will be pretty fucking hellish for all of you if you don't. And if you can't do that, then you need to re-home them, or surrender them to a shelter, because to insist upon keeping a houseful of cats you cannot properly care for makes you a fucking hoarder. Simple as that.

And Polissa is absolutely a hoarder, because the cats are there strictly to serve her emotional needs and allow her to signal what a great, humane, rescuer of unwanted animals she is, while their physical, medical, and behavioral needs are badly neglected.

 

[Pudgy Bear Claws]

Isn’t the rule of thumb that you’re supposed to have one litter box per cat plus one extra? So are there 12 litter boxes in the trailer? Lol no.

How likely is it that there‘s more than one? Even the most sociable cat isn’t going to want to share a box with 10 others, especially if it isn’t getting scooped regularly, which you know it isn’t.

When she was first talking about the trailer and her plans for it, she talked about having her own bedroom, a room for her to make art in and an entire room for the litter boxes. Even back then she didn't give a single shit about Joh.

I love cats, I love my own cat, but there are limits. Pissa should never have been allowed to have the number of dogs and cats she had/has. The city should have been called to deal with it.

 

[A Beached Whale]

I know we hate Josh and we wouldn't be nice to him, but do you think he'd still be dumb/petty enough to come back here and spill tea on Pissa?

 

[often puzzled]

I'm just here to post the song we need to hear from the Tub Trumpet.

If only someone could have predicted that moving into a decrepit tin can was a bad idea. If only . . .

 

[𝕺𝖑' 𝕯𝖎𝖗𝖙𝖞 𝕱𝖆𝖙𝖘𝖔]

Isn’t the rule of thumb that you’re supposed to have one litter box per cat plus one extra? So are there 12 litter boxes in the trailer? Lol no.

How likely is it that there‘s more than one? Even the most sociable cat isn’t going to want to share a box with 10 others, especially if it isn’t getting scooped regularly, which you know it isn’t.

She said a few weeks ago that she only has seven.

 

[Muskcarpone]

On this edition of “NO HELP CAME,” Polly is still angry at her family as a whole. She wants them to throw her a make up birthday PARTY as punishment for the crime of going to the beach without her on her birthday. She feels so alone after they denied her cake and dinner and cars filled with balloons!

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FORTY YEAR OLD WOMAN

Most people plan and prepare their 40th birthday themselves and then invite their families and friends to treat them to a good time.

Unfortunately, Pissa isn't treated with the respect she deserves...

 

[Spunt]

But if you're going to have a lot of cats, and do it successfully, you have to accept (as good parents do) that your life isn't entirely your own any more—the cats have a claim on a significant chunk of your time, money, and attention, and that's what you agreed to when you took them in. If you didn't agree to that, or even consider it before you took all those cats in, then you'd better get your shit together and do it once you're up to your ass in cats, because life will be pretty fucking hellish for all of you if you don't. And if you can't do that, then you need to re-home them, or surrender them to a shelter, because to insist upon keeping a houseful of cats you cannot properly care for makes you a fucking hoarder. Simple as that.

I love cats, but the most I ever had was 4, and dealing with them was, after work, the single biggest drain on the time and energy of both me and my partner. Expensive, too. Cats need feeding, the bowls need scraping out and washing, water needs to be changed daily, they need to be played with, cuddled, fights need to be broken up, litter trays scooped and re-littered regularly, random vomit needs to be extracted from carpets and upholstery, they need to be reassured that no, the window cleaner still isn't trying to murder them even though he has shown no inclination to do so for the last 6 years, you need to take them to the vet, you need to pay for food, shots, litter, toys, medication, flea treatments, vet bills, neutering, and when they get old all those needs increase by 3 or 4 times. 4 cats were exhausting at times for 2 people, and neither of us were refusing to do housework because of imaginary medical conditions or trying to re-plumb an entire house with no skills while crippled with untreated diabetes.

 

[vomitusdeux]

God I hope we get the update we need soon

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

What a glorious turn of events for me to discover upon my return to the farms.
Run, Joh, run like the wind!
(if you can on your beetus feetus)

 

[Diet Coke 4 Life]

Random shit transferred from Telegram!

Pissa whines!!


Joh rages!!



And then Joh uses diversionary tactics! It was not effective!


And Pissa still has no response TikTok up. Dammit, you lazy sack of cat piss(a)!! Reeeeeeeeeeeeee!! TROLL NEED MOAR.

 

[Angry New Ager]

Random shit transferred from Telegram!

Pissa whines!!
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Oh, that is fucking hilarious, coming from Polissa:

"I am beyond over politics. Nothing changes no matter how geared up we get, how much we raise, or how much phone banking is done..."

As if Polissa has ever lifted so much as one pudgy finger to raise money or do phone banking for any cause (beyond stuffing her freezer with Jimmy Dean Breakfast Bowls). She's a classic example of the kind of social media political ranter who is all outrage, zero action.

And no, LARPing as a Handmaid (especially at that scantily-attended abortion rights rally where she was explicitly told not to) doesn't count as political action, because it's pointless, convinces nobody who wasn't already on her side, and is really just an attention-getting gambit for her to play a victim.

Had she been handed a list of phone numbers and been told, "We need you to call these elected officials and urge them to lend their support," or asked to show up at the nearest Planned Parenthood and make fundraising calls, no fucking way would she have done it.

The only cause Polissa believes in, and will exert any effort for, is herself.

"I just don't have the energy for anything but the cats and my art anymore.. "

She has no energy for those poor cats. If she did, they wouldn't be so distressed they were pissing all over the place, and they'd all be spayed and neutered and well-fed so they didn't miscarry litters or give birth to undersized singleton kittens.

Don't even get me started on her "art."

"Life is too short and the Ogliarchy (sic) to strong. Bring on revolution."

Ah, yes, revolution—which others will have to fight, because Polissa would find it all impossible, what with her fibro and all.

Little does she know, she's exactly the kind of useless eater who gets left to die during a revolution, or gets the bullet right after it's won.

Joh rages!!
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Josh: "I'm sooooo fucking pissed off right now!!!"

WHEN ARE YOU NOT, LAD? WHEN ARE YOU NOT, PRAY TELL?