why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

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I am recently single but I been nooticing these past few years that all relationships me or my buddies have are getting shorter and shorter, from years to months and sometimes just weeks

Broads bitch about wanting commitment but from my experience at least nowadays they are not willing to put any effort on it at all, like wanting to own a house but not wanting to pay for it or build it

If some broad says she wants a free house everybody laughs at her dumb entitled ass but everybody is on her side when she wants to get married and not do anything to get there, even feel bad that no dude wants a fat 30something with no career or money, shocker I know

And I said nowadays because previous gens of women knew most men were fixer uppers, they didnt post a fucking list of insane requirements to date them, even in old media the women who only cares about money and wants free shit gets portrayed as evil and loathsome, but now we put that shit on a pedestal and give her internet points

Dont care, hookers are legal-ish in my country and hookup culture its still a thing, current hoeflation is gonna lead to a pussy crash and hoedeflation
 
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Because on the whole British women, besides being fat and ugly, are short-sighted, entitled fuckwits with very little going for them. If they're not scraped-back-bottle-blondes with lips like a baboons' arse, they're Hindenburg-sized cum dumpsters with 5 kids who think they're a 7/10. A slavic or latino 5/10 smokes almost all British women.

similar to @Johan Schmidt I move around a lot and spend time in Europe. The women there are a world apart from British women, not just in looks, but in attitude, aspirations and ambitiousness.

so just like @PerfectlyInnocent I'm going to enjoy life and not worry about it.
 
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Coming back to this thread, I think I have discovered or at least have a reasonable explanation for why I am "forever alone" (as of now): I just can't seem to find interesting women like I used to when I was in elementary, middle and high school. I always had at least 1 female friend that I was really close to in those periods of my life and when undergrad came along,I just ignored women entirely and just hung out with a bunch of fellow nerds. Women have become way more judgmental about nerdy hobbies (I mean normal ones, like playing fighting games, listening to heavy metal or prog rock, programming, watching anime that at worst sexualizes adult females and not anything indicative of a psychosexual problem) just due to the rise of social media. I was able to hang out with a few chicks in middle and high school despite being a very obvious nerd, but between that, trying to get a PhD and start my career in academia, learning to play the bass and just generally taking care of myself and my parents, I really don't have time to chase women. Frankly, I don't see a point in it since most women I am around are not good conversationalists and tend not to have really deep interests in anything. It also tells me that the men that chase them have shit taste and not people I really could get along with on a deep level.

At this point, I probably should just pray for a woman to come into my life that I can actually love, cherish and start a life with. The situation is rather grating, but at 27, it's not the end of the world yet. I really just want to settle down and start a family sooner rather than later. They're the only people that can really love you for who you are and I'm getting rather sick of most people ever since COVID happened, even if I like humanity as a whole.
 
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I'm not attracted to obesity, or fat women, single mothers, BPD insanity and the like.

This GREATLY limits the pool to choose from and tbh the good ones really all almost totally spoken for at my age.

The ones that aren't usually hate men, are lesbians, or are happy being celibate with their cats or are careerist strivers married to work.

Oh so many single ladies these days literally want a romance novel romance IRL..... Like literally lifelong love at first sight or at least first meeting.
 
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Cool Dog Returns said:
previous gens of women knew most men were fixer uppers, they didnt post a fucking list of insane requirements to date them, even in old media the women who only cares about money and wants free shit gets portrayed as evil and loathsome, but now we put that shit on a pedestal and give her internet points
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this will always drive me mad especially when the woman in question views herself as flawless and because of this she demands someone as flawless as her. this ends up putting way more pressure on the man to live up to her standards which in turn usually results in whatever issues the man has being neglected which depending on how he handles it can turn out pretty bad.

its also really bad for the women who in these situations because if the man dies they are all alone with zero skills of their own and depending on how well they take care of themselves might not have the looks or ability to get someone new.
 
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Broseph said:
I'm a very introverted guy who likes doing things on my own which is why it's really difficult for me to meet single women who share the same interests as most of my hobbies are solitary. I tried meeting girls thru an anime club (yes I was very 🧩 I know) on Meetup.com several years ago but all the girls in the group were either obese landwhales or they just acted like massive spergs, as to be expected.

I haven't tried any dating apps in over a decade now but the last time I did it was a horrible experience as all of the women in my area were either very unattractive, single moms, morbidly obese and/or 49'ers who were just there for free attention from beta orbiters.

Honestly it seems like most women these days are more interested in being some guy's sidechick instead of having a relationship. I really don't understand why "modern" women seem to love getting passed around by so many guys these days...

Hell it's pretty fucking hard just to meet new people when you're in your 30's and out of college, let alone meeting women.
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Ugh I still remember the 7/10 QT in my HS anime club. I wasn't a member but she was unusual because she was nice looking.

Hopefully the sperg girls weren't huge....
 
Falcos_Commisar said:
Ugh I still remember the 7/10 QT in my HS anime club. I wasn't a member but she was unusual because she was nice looking.

Hopefully the sperg girls weren't huge....
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From what I remember most of the girls in the group were already dating someone else and none of them were particularly that attractive in the first place.

The only single girl in the group that I remember was this 400 pound chick named Josselyn *sigh*
 
Then? Because I was stupid. Now? Because I have too much going on.
I'm past my quals so now comes the "big exam": the thesis and dissertation. That. The reading. The research. The publications. What sort of mathematician I'll be. These are all big concerns now. They posses me.
My main concern of taking a woman is that I'll always be somewhere else. Thinking about the problems. Chasing patterns. Running. Running too much.
Right now, I don't think it's a good idea. But when did love ever care about itself not being a good idea? If something good comes along, I should know better at this point than to let it go.
I'll see. But for now those questions of passion and pursuit are firmly in the court of mathematics than that of women. But again, when did that stop anybody?
 
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I’m married. I’ve talked about this before but years of banging thots made me jaded to the whole thing. So I created an autistic list of what I wanted in a wife and stuck to it. It wasn’t anything overly strict nor was it a coomer fantasy. It was things like treats waitstaff well, wants children, etc. I found her, a beautiful girl who was a sister in law with a good friend of mine. She was a widow (her husband was KIA in the military) and that was her only man in her life. Came from a strict Dutch Reformed family. Convincing her parents to agree to let me propose, a nigga who isn’t really religious, not Dutch and not a ruralite was not easy but my good friend vouched for me and I had a good job that would allow her to focus on raising children. In terms of her and I, I told her that we weren’t going to be one of those couples that only has sex once a month and we had a bunch of rules about making sure we never got complacent.

A lot of this sounds like cope but she’s pregnant with baby number three and we might have one more. I can’t say marriage is for everyone but I stuck to my guns about what I wanted. She was not on a dating app, never been to a club, and was fairly introverted. These girls are out there but they’re rare. I also had years of experience to know what exactly it is that I want. I’m not going to judge guys staying single. If it wasn’t for the triple bankshot of finding my current wife, I’d probably be forever single. My perspective may change in a few years but for now I’m pretty happy with my marriage.
 
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I have been told that I am offputting and for some reason women tell mea lot that they feel uncomfortable around me.

I am a very forward and open person and some people seem to dislike this. my last date was quite disastrous.

I apparently misread her intentions when she said I could give her a ride home.

I figured it meant she wanted to have sex so naturally I unzipped myself and pulled it out to get ready while I was driving.

When she seen she began screaming at me to pull over. I got so distracted swerved into oncoming traffic and almost got in a crash I managed tostop and she got out and screamed at me more.

I tried to get her back in but she screamed moreand said she'd call the cops so I left. that was my first tinder match in over a year and a half.
 
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I think a lot of people on this thread need to lower their standards. I've come to terms with the fact that I can have attractive and nuts or unattractive and stable but not both. Let's face it, if you're posting on kiwifarms about your relationships you aren't exactly a prize catch.
 
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Falcos_Commisar said:
Oh so many single ladies these days literally want a romance novel romance IRL
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Chicks in romance novels:
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IRL chicks who read that shit and want a romance novel romance:
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And they say we dudes have impossible standards, I know soyfags so fucking desperate they would propose to a literal bag of garbage if she said 'hi' to them
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I've been in two relationships where women wanted to marry me and I said no.
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So why you said no? just asking
 
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