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Gather round for a cautionary tale of narcissism, degeneracy, child abuse, and a small-time spectacle showcasing why you should never stick you dick in a pooner, especially if you too are a narcissistic lunatic with untreated bipolar.
Detrix and Christina are two ploygamous tranny (the spicy heterosexual kind) degenerates from Minnesota who have become the subject of recent furry twitter drama after another polygamous furry parent with a slightly stronger moral compass put them on blast for child abuse following Detrix's pathetic attempt at framing himself as an uwu poor victim in a furry parent chat group (yes, this is apparently a thing) as an excuse for why he was neglecting his son and allowing the child to be abused by members of their polycule household.
Detrix is the biggest subject of criticism at this time due to his being the most vocal, coupled with the fact that every time he opens his mouth he just incriminates himself and his pube-chinned wife ever further.
The post that started it all: https://twitter.com/Sciggles/status/1697607594506875385
Detrix's document in question: https://t.co/7uYpa26Hp2
Additional thread by a zippertits pooner mom providing more context and shocking me silly by being the proverbial stopped clock: https://twitter.com/CuttleB0ne/status/1697629271169146926
A summary of the drama is Detrix married a crazy pooner with baby fever, despite his open admission to her that he did not want children on the grounds that he knew he would be a terrible father. However, because he is a weak as fuck excuse of a man with a spine more gelatinous than the woman he fucked, he allowed his deluded and mentally retarded wife to verbally cajole him into sticking his dick in crazy and nutting in it, resulting in pregnancy, because a woman is still a woman regardless of whether or not she identifies as a nonbinary transboi chipmunk unironically named Chitler. Predictably, two delusional poly furries are not parent material, and the two of them allowed the child's health problems (the worst being a skin condition that he was forced to suffer with until it became visible patches of bloody sores) to remain ignored for over 6 months, while the house was allowed to fall into a state of complete squalor, despite four physically capable adults residing there.
Why did this happen, you may wonder? Because they are all streamers and gamers and apparently spending hours on tiktok and twitch was more important than caring for their infant son. They frequently lament their inability to buy simple childcare necessitates such as formula and diapers, while simultaneously showing off all the expensive furry porn and other luxury items they somehow have enough money for.
Additionally, one of the adults threatened to kill the child, and this was brushed off as “it's just a joke, brah” by the entire household because of course it was. Police even got involved regarding this individual, and when faced with the choice of kicking this man out for the safety of their son, Detrix & Christina chose to continue to allow him to live under their roof, because making him “homeless” was worse than protecting their infant. Currently, Detrix is trying to ebeg formore porn and vidjya funds to divorce his wife and abscond to Colorado with another partner. He claims he is seeking a place of safety for his son, but the furry grapevine says he intends to give the child away in the most literal sense rather than placing him up for foster or adoption through proper channels, which, at this point, seems entirely plausible. Hopefully CPS can get involved before that happens, but I sadly have little faith in them.
Because archiving shit on twitter is broken as fuck now, I had to resort to archiving every screenshot of Detrix's discussion from the parent chat individually, but here are links to the archived images in order:
Bottom line to it all is I really hope someone competent can get that poor kid out and into a real family free of perversion, neglect, and degeneracy. Until then, enjoy laughing at these two pathetic fucks.
I present to you:
Christina “Chris/Victory” & Detrix "Nido" Lovejoy
(AKA VictoryDanceOFC & TheNidoQueer)
Christina “Chris/Victory” & Detrix "Nido" Lovejoy
(AKA VictoryDanceOFC & TheNidoQueer)
Detrix and Christina are two ploygamous tranny (the spicy heterosexual kind) degenerates from Minnesota who have become the subject of recent furry twitter drama after another polygamous furry parent with a slightly stronger moral compass put them on blast for child abuse following Detrix's pathetic attempt at framing himself as an uwu poor victim in a furry parent chat group (yes, this is apparently a thing) as an excuse for why he was neglecting his son and allowing the child to be abused by members of their polycule household.
Detrix is the biggest subject of criticism at this time due to his being the most vocal, coupled with the fact that every time he opens his mouth he just incriminates himself and his pube-chinned wife ever further.
The post that started it all: https://twitter.com/Sciggles/status/1697607594506875385
CW TW: CHILD ABUSE Specifically the child being abused is Nido and Victory's son. I am going to be crystal clear. The people claiming victim blaming or whatever else. Read the document that Nido HIMSELF wrote. Open the photos. The victim is the baby that is less than a year old. That cannot help themselves. That is being neglected and not tended to by the 4 adults in that house. If a baby were not involved I would not be going so hard at this. You may be like "eww drama" or think its "ego boosting" it's not about my ego. It's about protecting an innocent baby. That Nido claims he cannot care for and WILL NOT care for. That he is asking for donations and being unclear that he is using it to take the baby to an undisclosed location and GIVING THE BABY AWAY. No talk about who or legal or anything else. That proper legal options have been offered to the family for the baby's protection and has been shrugged off so all 4 adults and protect each other instead of the baby being neglected. THAT is the issue. That Nido posts stupid tiktoks and Vrcrap going on about being "everyone's favorite daddy" but is actively neglecting his son while doing so by not buying food/formula, not changing diapers, not sanatizing the areas the baby walks and touches things in, and not taking the baby to the doctors for 6+ months. All by HIS OWN ADMISSION. He just puts all the blame on Chris/Victory instead. Like I'm not pulling it out of my ass. He POSTED THESE THINGS trying to pin it all on his partner but FOUR adults are in that house and not one of them did the right thing and the baby suffers for it. I am not going to sit quietly and I'm sorry if you think I am doing this for my own ego. I'm not. That baby deserves better and I won't sit silently and let this happen. They actively have someone in the house by NIDO'S OWN WRITING has said they would kill the baby. Wake up you guys. Thats not a "haha just kidding" that is serious and not something you just post without consequences.
Detrix's document in question: https://t.co/7uYpa26Hp2
Why I'm getting separated, and why I need help.
Before we get into too much of this, I want to get a few important things out of the way first.
Manipulation.
Back in 2018, shortly after Chris and I got together, we had a sit down to talk about more serious things regarding our relationship, things we want to accomplish, life goals, etc. She mentioned she wanted to have kids someday, and I very much did not. She got really, really sad, and when she left after coming out to visit, she said it was the only thing about me she had found that she didn’t like. I mentioned that there was a chance that could change one day, but I had to get myself sorted out and stable before I had a kid. Little did I know, this was the worst thing I could have said. When it comes to Chris, if you don’t give her a definite “no,” she will relentlessly pursue what she wants until you change your mind. For example; there was a time where she wanted a pet spider, and I’m extremely arachnophobic. I agreed to having one as a joke mostly because when she mentioned a specific kind of spider she wanted, I didn’t realize that it /was/ a spider she was talking about. But because I said yes, she wouldn’t let the topic go. She’d keep bringing it up over and over and it took me begging her, crying, to stop mentioning having the spider. She would constantly try to barter with me on it, saying she’d keep it where I’d never see it. But that would only make things worse, because if I ever felt like something was crawling on me I’d assume it was the spider and freak out. After that she never brought it up again, but this went on for like a year. She did the very same thing about having a baby, because I said “there’s a chance I will change my mind.” The entire almost 6 years of our relationship, she’d constantly bring up a baby, wanting one, stopping testosterone so she could have the baby, talking about how “I’d be a great father,” etc. It never stopped. Now for context, I have Bipolar Disorder, and as such I have manic episodes where I’ll do things without thinking about long term consequences. For example, I bought a car while on a temp job that was paying really well, and as such I got approved for a monthly payment that, after I lost that job, I couldn’t keep up with anymore. Something similar happened with the baby situation, where I said “sure, let’s have one” after we got married, while in a manic state. I had a really cushy job at the time (that was again, temp.) and we were moving into a house with her other partner at the time, Kosmo, moving in with us soon, who was more than willing to help take care of the baby. So, Chris gets pregnant shortly after I was let go of said job, just after we moved into a new house, and my mental health was on the downswing. This news pushed me into the biggest depressive episode I’ve ever been in. I felt hopeless, like a failure, and that I was doing the same thing my parents had done, which is bring a child into the world before they were ready to take care of them. I had no job, my mental health was at an all time low, and all I wanted was to just not exist anymore. I couldn’t stream as much anymore, because there were several times I broke down crying on stream due to the stress. Chris was…aware I was in a manic state. She knew I wasn’t in the state of mind to be making decisions like that. But she wanted a baby so bad so she just sprung on the chance before I came to my senses. Even now with us splitting up, she's been saying things like "I've been seeing this coming for a year" but just let things continue to happen.
What's worse is that she's involved two other people in this mess for equally manipulative reasons. For context going forward Chris and I were poly with multiple partners.
First there's Dan, he just turned 20, Chris will be 27 in September. They started dating a couple months after Dan turned 18. Think about that what you will, I find it very strange personally, but their relationship seemed harmless enough at the time so I didn't think much of it. Dan lived in the middle of Tennessee, with his family being full of your typical bigots. So when he said he was leaving to move to Minnesota with his girlfriend, they called him a pedophile and disowned him. So now that Dan has moved out here, he's been largely shouldered with taking care of the baby, and reminder; he's 20, with limited life experience and 0 prior experience in baby care. Chris will often pass him off to Dan when she's having an off day leaving Dan watching the baby a solid 70% of the time. Again, Dan is 20. He's being stripped of the ability to live his life to the fullest because his girlfriend can't handle the responsibility of a child she wanted so badly.
I'm sure you're wondering why I don't watch the baby more often, and the problem is, doing so gives me panic attacks and I don't know what I'm doing. I would still buy things like diapers, clothes and formula for him, but I can't stomach simple things like changing diapers no matter how much exposure therapy I subject myself to. I'm fully 100% aware that I am not capable of taking care of the baby in any capacity and would rather he be in the care of someone that I can trust to ensure his basic needs are met. I love him, but I am not ready for this, and I am not going to make him suffer because I won't admit to myself that I'm not currently ready to raise a child. This was all stuff I knew was going to happen, and told Chris all of it, and she just would reply "I think you need to have more faith in yourself, I think you'll be a great father. Plus, I'll do all the taking care of him, I'm ready for this."
This was just more bartering and manipulation to try to convince me to have a baby with her, and as you'll see later, she wasn't as ready as she thought she was.
But now we move onto Kosmo, who was Chris's childhood best friend and at the time another partner. Kosmo was given this metaphorical picture of a family by Chris, and a lot of it was based off of one big lie and again, more manipulation. Kosmo moved out here under the pretense that we would all be one big happy happy family, but it turns out, Chris was leading him along and never had romantic feelings for him. Chris's hope was that those feelings would eventually turn romantic, but they never truly did. Chris had him put down over $4k down to secure our house with the intention of paying him back with our tax return, which after the IRS reviewed it, was less than half of what we were supposed to get. So she swindled Kosmo out of his money, moved him out away from his family and friends, all under this lie that she was in love with him.
This is kind of similar to what she's done to me. Had me push away family and friends she didn't like, sucked me dry of my money, all so she can continue to chase this delusional idea of a "happy family."
Negligence/Incompetence
Anyone that has ever lived around Chris for an extended period of time will tell you she's messy, and a klutz, constantly breaking things and making a general mess. This isn't anything terrible in a vacuum, but when it comes to having a kid, these things can be a legitimate danger to the baby. Kosmo and I will often spend a while cleaning up the kitchen/living room, and more often than not, a day or two later it will look like this, and stay that way for weeks until we say something about it or clean it up ourselves. This has always been an issue with Chris, but lately it's gotten so bad that things like rotten fruit will sit on the table for days until it turns moldy, and with a kid in the mix, that's just plain unacceptable. Then there's the issue with Chris not tending to the baby's needs or actively putting him in danger. Riley went without getting his shots for 6 months (or a doctor's visit period.) because Chris failed to renew her tags and got her van towed not too long after Riley was born. Riley also had a skin condition that got this bad, before we urged Chris to finally take him to the doctor to figure out what was going on, even paying for the Uber ride there. Then there was a night where she screamed "WHY!?" in the room with the baby because she couldn't get him to go to sleep. Kos and I intervened and took over because Chris was no longer in a mental state where she could watch the baby. This same night, Chris spiraled into a suicidal state where she had to go to the hospital. She was lashing out at Kosmo while Kosmo was trying to get Chris to calm down and get her to the hospital, saying things like "you're awful at this" and "it makes me hate you" right in Kos's face.
After that, because of more negligence, the power to our place got shut off because Chris neglected to pay her portion of the electric bill, for months. It came down to Kosmo and I to figure out what to do to get it back on, and after that, neither of us got any thanks after Kosmo basically used his entire paycheck to get the electricity back on. Chris is in debt to Kosmo thousands of dollars and is making no effort to pay it back as of writing this because of consistently poor financial decisions. I owe the IRS $4k because Chris filed our taxes incorrectly. When the van got towed away in the winter, our marriage certificate, Riley's social security card, and god knows what else was in it. We told Chris the police were looking at the van and it was probably about to get towed away, and she should probably get everything out of it before it goes. She didn't because she didn't think there was anything of value in there and just let it all go. My license is expired now because I don't have the paperwork necessary to get it renewed and now we've been without any kind of vehicle for well over half a year now.
I could go on and on with how Chris has screwed me, Kosmo, and several others over with how incapable of being an adult she is, but I feel like the point is well made at this point. Now bring the baby into the picture, and there's been multiple times already he's run out of formula, clean clothes, and the prolonged times he's gone without seeing a doctor of any kind while under her care, and to me it's quite obvious why she's not ready to be a parent in the slightest. Which is why I need help raising funds to make sure my son is in a stable environment where he'll be safe and healthy, which he isn't getting right now.
TW; Abuse
Chris is an abusive partner. I hate stating that so bluntly because at the end of the day, I still love her and I probably always will, but her way of making sure she always gets what she wants, by any and all means necessary, lead to one of the most fucked up things anyone has ever done to me.
One day, I stay home from work. I hated whatever job it was at the time with a large degree and no called no showed. This particular place fired me on the spot obviously and it lead to me feeling like there was no hope for me. I hated life, hated it as a concept, and more than anything hated trying to make it in a world that had so thoroughly screwed me over from birth. I was done, ready to give up and end it all. Chris was talking to me and eventually, in her words, "gave me permission to kill myself." She was ready to let me commit suicide, because of how much pain it put her through to see me like that. Luckily, because of how fucked up my brain is, her effectively giving up on me was…somehow the push I needed to try to get my shit together? It was a turning point in my life, but it wasn't until recently how I realized…just how fucked up this all was. How so many aspects of our relationship was her trying to control me, make me who she wanted me to be, and now I'm more lost on my self identity now than I've ever been. My life has been so thoroughly tied to Chris's for six years, I've bounced back and forth between whether or not I wanted to go through with this. I've tried making amends with Chris, saying I want to try to work this out, only for her to immediately go back to not even trying like things aren't falling apart.
There's also the fact that Riley is in danger too. He's not safe with Chris or Dan. Dan has done many things to put Riley at risk without thinking about it, and even saying things like "I'll kill you" as a joke to the baby as if there's no consequence to saying something like that to a child. He needs someone that can take care of him, make sure his needs are met, and not put him in any danger.
I need out. I want out. I want to be somewhere stable again so I can fix myself and get myself to a point where I can take care of my own son. But I can't do that here. Literally this past week Chris quit her job without any sort of backup plan, and didn't properly communicate that to the rest of the house. Kos and I are drowning in debt because of their lack of responsibility towards being an adult/being a parent.
If you read this far, I appreciate your time more than you know. Please understand my goal here isn't to 'cancel' Chris but to help people understand what I've been through for six years. I haven't gone over literally everything in this document, I can only revisit trauma so much. But hopefully I've painted a vivid enough picture for you to see why I need help.
Thanks for reading. If you consider donating anything to the GoFundMe, no matter how small an amount, please know that I'm beyond grateful.
Thanks again,
Dex "TheNidoqueer" Lovejoy.
Going to answer a few questions for people concerned about the baby's well being and to try to clear up some things not clear in the document.
Q. Why did it take four adults 6 months to get the baby to the doctor?
Honestly, I don't have a great answer for this. This is a genuine mistake on my part and I should have stepped up to do more to get him to the doctor for his first appointment. I didn't realize just how important that was and that was definitely some negligence on my part. If it's any consolation, when we did get him to the doctor, the doctor assured us he was growing up "healthy and fine."
I also want to clarify the issue with the skin condition - it had been a mild problem up to that point before those pictures were taken. Nothing too serious but definitely something I was concerned about. When he did get to the point where it was that bad, he was rushed to the doctor as soon as possible - he did not sit there with those skin issues for six months, it was something we were actively trying to take but once it got that bad he was immediately taken care of. If it's any consolation his skin has not gotten that bad since.
Q. Why did you shirk your responsibilities as a father and not get him the things he needs?
This is just, factually untrue. I've re-read my document multiple times and fail to see where this part of information was gotten. Riley was never out of necessities due to my negligence - I have bought him formula, diapers, clothes, toys, etc, all while I took a step back from actively watching him while I was dealing with all my depression issues, but even then I would still watch him on occasion and even have powered through my weak stomach to change his diaper when others weren't available to help. Where people are getting the idea that I never once provided him with necessities when others weren't able to is beyond me, but I understand it's out of concern for my kid.
Q. Why are you the one taking Riley when you didn't want kids in the first place?
I'm taking Riley because he'll be in the care of Kosmo and myself. Kosmo has a ton of experience with babies and small children and has demonstrated as such his tireless efforts to keep things clean, safe and secure for Riley despite the situation actively working against him. I wholeheartedly believe that Riley will be safe and his needs will be met under Kosmo's care, and I want to support him as much as possible since he is my son and his well being is my first priority.
Hope that clears up some people's concerns to some degree. Thanks again for reading. I'll continue updating this if more questions arise.
Before we get into too much of this, I want to get a few important things out of the way first.
- While Chris and I are getting divorced and this is a less than pleasant thing to post and share, I need people to understand that my goal here isn't to "cancel" my Ex Wife. I don't want to close opportunities for her or make people choose one side or the other. I'm merely explaining what's been going on for the past nearly 6 years and why I've come to the conclusion that I did, and why I need help going forward.
- Unless you're a close, personal friend of mine, I don't want to hear your opinion on the situation or what I should do going forward. I have been called some pretty awful things by people unaware of the situation as a whole, only getting sparse details from one side of what's going on and I don't really need people telling me I'm an awful person when I'm very much a victim here, along with my son.
- Should I find people are harassing me or my ex over this, I will make sure you're firmly removed from my community and highly suggest other friends do the same if you find it appropriate to make an already difficult situation harder than it needs to be.
Manipulation.
Back in 2018, shortly after Chris and I got together, we had a sit down to talk about more serious things regarding our relationship, things we want to accomplish, life goals, etc. She mentioned she wanted to have kids someday, and I very much did not. She got really, really sad, and when she left after coming out to visit, she said it was the only thing about me she had found that she didn’t like. I mentioned that there was a chance that could change one day, but I had to get myself sorted out and stable before I had a kid. Little did I know, this was the worst thing I could have said. When it comes to Chris, if you don’t give her a definite “no,” she will relentlessly pursue what she wants until you change your mind. For example; there was a time where she wanted a pet spider, and I’m extremely arachnophobic. I agreed to having one as a joke mostly because when she mentioned a specific kind of spider she wanted, I didn’t realize that it /was/ a spider she was talking about. But because I said yes, she wouldn’t let the topic go. She’d keep bringing it up over and over and it took me begging her, crying, to stop mentioning having the spider. She would constantly try to barter with me on it, saying she’d keep it where I’d never see it. But that would only make things worse, because if I ever felt like something was crawling on me I’d assume it was the spider and freak out. After that she never brought it up again, but this went on for like a year. She did the very same thing about having a baby, because I said “there’s a chance I will change my mind.” The entire almost 6 years of our relationship, she’d constantly bring up a baby, wanting one, stopping testosterone so she could have the baby, talking about how “I’d be a great father,” etc. It never stopped. Now for context, I have Bipolar Disorder, and as such I have manic episodes where I’ll do things without thinking about long term consequences. For example, I bought a car while on a temp job that was paying really well, and as such I got approved for a monthly payment that, after I lost that job, I couldn’t keep up with anymore. Something similar happened with the baby situation, where I said “sure, let’s have one” after we got married, while in a manic state. I had a really cushy job at the time (that was again, temp.) and we were moving into a house with her other partner at the time, Kosmo, moving in with us soon, who was more than willing to help take care of the baby. So, Chris gets pregnant shortly after I was let go of said job, just after we moved into a new house, and my mental health was on the downswing. This news pushed me into the biggest depressive episode I’ve ever been in. I felt hopeless, like a failure, and that I was doing the same thing my parents had done, which is bring a child into the world before they were ready to take care of them. I had no job, my mental health was at an all time low, and all I wanted was to just not exist anymore. I couldn’t stream as much anymore, because there were several times I broke down crying on stream due to the stress. Chris was…aware I was in a manic state. She knew I wasn’t in the state of mind to be making decisions like that. But she wanted a baby so bad so she just sprung on the chance before I came to my senses. Even now with us splitting up, she's been saying things like "I've been seeing this coming for a year" but just let things continue to happen.
What's worse is that she's involved two other people in this mess for equally manipulative reasons. For context going forward Chris and I were poly with multiple partners.
First there's Dan, he just turned 20, Chris will be 27 in September. They started dating a couple months after Dan turned 18. Think about that what you will, I find it very strange personally, but their relationship seemed harmless enough at the time so I didn't think much of it. Dan lived in the middle of Tennessee, with his family being full of your typical bigots. So when he said he was leaving to move to Minnesota with his girlfriend, they called him a pedophile and disowned him. So now that Dan has moved out here, he's been largely shouldered with taking care of the baby, and reminder; he's 20, with limited life experience and 0 prior experience in baby care. Chris will often pass him off to Dan when she's having an off day leaving Dan watching the baby a solid 70% of the time. Again, Dan is 20. He's being stripped of the ability to live his life to the fullest because his girlfriend can't handle the responsibility of a child she wanted so badly.
I'm sure you're wondering why I don't watch the baby more often, and the problem is, doing so gives me panic attacks and I don't know what I'm doing. I would still buy things like diapers, clothes and formula for him, but I can't stomach simple things like changing diapers no matter how much exposure therapy I subject myself to. I'm fully 100% aware that I am not capable of taking care of the baby in any capacity and would rather he be in the care of someone that I can trust to ensure his basic needs are met. I love him, but I am not ready for this, and I am not going to make him suffer because I won't admit to myself that I'm not currently ready to raise a child. This was all stuff I knew was going to happen, and told Chris all of it, and she just would reply "I think you need to have more faith in yourself, I think you'll be a great father. Plus, I'll do all the taking care of him, I'm ready for this."
This was just more bartering and manipulation to try to convince me to have a baby with her, and as you'll see later, she wasn't as ready as she thought she was.
But now we move onto Kosmo, who was Chris's childhood best friend and at the time another partner. Kosmo was given this metaphorical picture of a family by Chris, and a lot of it was based off of one big lie and again, more manipulation. Kosmo moved out here under the pretense that we would all be one big happy happy family, but it turns out, Chris was leading him along and never had romantic feelings for him. Chris's hope was that those feelings would eventually turn romantic, but they never truly did. Chris had him put down over $4k down to secure our house with the intention of paying him back with our tax return, which after the IRS reviewed it, was less than half of what we were supposed to get. So she swindled Kosmo out of his money, moved him out away from his family and friends, all under this lie that she was in love with him.
This is kind of similar to what she's done to me. Had me push away family and friends she didn't like, sucked me dry of my money, all so she can continue to chase this delusional idea of a "happy family."
Negligence/Incompetence
Anyone that has ever lived around Chris for an extended period of time will tell you she's messy, and a klutz, constantly breaking things and making a general mess. This isn't anything terrible in a vacuum, but when it comes to having a kid, these things can be a legitimate danger to the baby. Kosmo and I will often spend a while cleaning up the kitchen/living room, and more often than not, a day or two later it will look like this, and stay that way for weeks until we say something about it or clean it up ourselves. This has always been an issue with Chris, but lately it's gotten so bad that things like rotten fruit will sit on the table for days until it turns moldy, and with a kid in the mix, that's just plain unacceptable. Then there's the issue with Chris not tending to the baby's needs or actively putting him in danger. Riley went without getting his shots for 6 months (or a doctor's visit period.) because Chris failed to renew her tags and got her van towed not too long after Riley was born. Riley also had a skin condition that got this bad, before we urged Chris to finally take him to the doctor to figure out what was going on, even paying for the Uber ride there. Then there was a night where she screamed "WHY!?" in the room with the baby because she couldn't get him to go to sleep. Kos and I intervened and took over because Chris was no longer in a mental state where she could watch the baby. This same night, Chris spiraled into a suicidal state where she had to go to the hospital. She was lashing out at Kosmo while Kosmo was trying to get Chris to calm down and get her to the hospital, saying things like "you're awful at this" and "it makes me hate you" right in Kos's face.
After that, because of more negligence, the power to our place got shut off because Chris neglected to pay her portion of the electric bill, for months. It came down to Kosmo and I to figure out what to do to get it back on, and after that, neither of us got any thanks after Kosmo basically used his entire paycheck to get the electricity back on. Chris is in debt to Kosmo thousands of dollars and is making no effort to pay it back as of writing this because of consistently poor financial decisions. I owe the IRS $4k because Chris filed our taxes incorrectly. When the van got towed away in the winter, our marriage certificate, Riley's social security card, and god knows what else was in it. We told Chris the police were looking at the van and it was probably about to get towed away, and she should probably get everything out of it before it goes. She didn't because she didn't think there was anything of value in there and just let it all go. My license is expired now because I don't have the paperwork necessary to get it renewed and now we've been without any kind of vehicle for well over half a year now.
I could go on and on with how Chris has screwed me, Kosmo, and several others over with how incapable of being an adult she is, but I feel like the point is well made at this point. Now bring the baby into the picture, and there's been multiple times already he's run out of formula, clean clothes, and the prolonged times he's gone without seeing a doctor of any kind while under her care, and to me it's quite obvious why she's not ready to be a parent in the slightest. Which is why I need help raising funds to make sure my son is in a stable environment where he'll be safe and healthy, which he isn't getting right now.
TW; Abuse
Chris is an abusive partner. I hate stating that so bluntly because at the end of the day, I still love her and I probably always will, but her way of making sure she always gets what she wants, by any and all means necessary, lead to one of the most fucked up things anyone has ever done to me.
One day, I stay home from work. I hated whatever job it was at the time with a large degree and no called no showed. This particular place fired me on the spot obviously and it lead to me feeling like there was no hope for me. I hated life, hated it as a concept, and more than anything hated trying to make it in a world that had so thoroughly screwed me over from birth. I was done, ready to give up and end it all. Chris was talking to me and eventually, in her words, "gave me permission to kill myself." She was ready to let me commit suicide, because of how much pain it put her through to see me like that. Luckily, because of how fucked up my brain is, her effectively giving up on me was…somehow the push I needed to try to get my shit together? It was a turning point in my life, but it wasn't until recently how I realized…just how fucked up this all was. How so many aspects of our relationship was her trying to control me, make me who she wanted me to be, and now I'm more lost on my self identity now than I've ever been. My life has been so thoroughly tied to Chris's for six years, I've bounced back and forth between whether or not I wanted to go through with this. I've tried making amends with Chris, saying I want to try to work this out, only for her to immediately go back to not even trying like things aren't falling apart.
There's also the fact that Riley is in danger too. He's not safe with Chris or Dan. Dan has done many things to put Riley at risk without thinking about it, and even saying things like "I'll kill you" as a joke to the baby as if there's no consequence to saying something like that to a child. He needs someone that can take care of him, make sure his needs are met, and not put him in any danger.
I need out. I want out. I want to be somewhere stable again so I can fix myself and get myself to a point where I can take care of my own son. But I can't do that here. Literally this past week Chris quit her job without any sort of backup plan, and didn't properly communicate that to the rest of the house. Kos and I are drowning in debt because of their lack of responsibility towards being an adult/being a parent.
If you read this far, I appreciate your time more than you know. Please understand my goal here isn't to 'cancel' Chris but to help people understand what I've been through for six years. I haven't gone over literally everything in this document, I can only revisit trauma so much. But hopefully I've painted a vivid enough picture for you to see why I need help.
Thanks for reading. If you consider donating anything to the GoFundMe, no matter how small an amount, please know that I'm beyond grateful.
Thanks again,
Dex "TheNidoqueer" Lovejoy.
Going to answer a few questions for people concerned about the baby's well being and to try to clear up some things not clear in the document.
Q. Why did it take four adults 6 months to get the baby to the doctor?
Honestly, I don't have a great answer for this. This is a genuine mistake on my part and I should have stepped up to do more to get him to the doctor for his first appointment. I didn't realize just how important that was and that was definitely some negligence on my part. If it's any consolation, when we did get him to the doctor, the doctor assured us he was growing up "healthy and fine."
I also want to clarify the issue with the skin condition - it had been a mild problem up to that point before those pictures were taken. Nothing too serious but definitely something I was concerned about. When he did get to the point where it was that bad, he was rushed to the doctor as soon as possible - he did not sit there with those skin issues for six months, it was something we were actively trying to take but once it got that bad he was immediately taken care of. If it's any consolation his skin has not gotten that bad since.
Q. Why did you shirk your responsibilities as a father and not get him the things he needs?
This is just, factually untrue. I've re-read my document multiple times and fail to see where this part of information was gotten. Riley was never out of necessities due to my negligence - I have bought him formula, diapers, clothes, toys, etc, all while I took a step back from actively watching him while I was dealing with all my depression issues, but even then I would still watch him on occasion and even have powered through my weak stomach to change his diaper when others weren't available to help. Where people are getting the idea that I never once provided him with necessities when others weren't able to is beyond me, but I understand it's out of concern for my kid.
Q. Why are you the one taking Riley when you didn't want kids in the first place?
I'm taking Riley because he'll be in the care of Kosmo and myself. Kosmo has a ton of experience with babies and small children and has demonstrated as such his tireless efforts to keep things clean, safe and secure for Riley despite the situation actively working against him. I wholeheartedly believe that Riley will be safe and his needs will be met under Kosmo's care, and I want to support him as much as possible since he is my son and his well being is my first priority.
Hope that clears up some people's concerns to some degree. Thanks again for reading. I'll continue updating this if more questions arise.
Additional thread by a zippertits pooner mom providing more context and shocking me silly by being the proverbial stopped clock: https://twitter.com/CuttleB0ne/status/1697629271169146926
A summary of the drama is Detrix married a crazy pooner with baby fever, despite his open admission to her that he did not want children on the grounds that he knew he would be a terrible father. However, because he is a weak as fuck excuse of a man with a spine more gelatinous than the woman he fucked, he allowed his deluded and mentally retarded wife to verbally cajole him into sticking his dick in crazy and nutting in it, resulting in pregnancy, because a woman is still a woman regardless of whether or not she identifies as a nonbinary transboi chipmunk unironically named Chitler. Predictably, two delusional poly furries are not parent material, and the two of them allowed the child's health problems (the worst being a skin condition that he was forced to suffer with until it became visible patches of bloody sores) to remain ignored for over 6 months, while the house was allowed to fall into a state of complete squalor, despite four physically capable adults residing there.
Why did this happen, you may wonder? Because they are all streamers and gamers and apparently spending hours on tiktok and twitch was more important than caring for their infant son. They frequently lament their inability to buy simple childcare necessitates such as formula and diapers, while simultaneously showing off all the expensive furry porn and other luxury items they somehow have enough money for.
Additionally, one of the adults threatened to kill the child, and this was brushed off as “it's just a joke, brah” by the entire household because of course it was. Police even got involved regarding this individual, and when faced with the choice of kicking this man out for the safety of their son, Detrix & Christina chose to continue to allow him to live under their roof, because making him “homeless” was worse than protecting their infant. Currently, Detrix is trying to ebeg for
Because archiving shit on twitter is broken as fuck now, I had to resort to archiving every screenshot of Detrix's discussion from the parent chat individually, but here are links to the archived images in order:
https://www.facebook.com/christina.lovejoy.54 (https://archive.ph/pcfVu)
https://www.facebook.com/chris.lovejoy.790693 (https://archive.ph/z5Qnv)
https://twitter.com/VictoryDanceOfc
https://www.furaffinity.net/user/victorydanceofc/
https://www.deviantart.com/victorydanceofficial
victorydance.bsky.social
https://www.facebook.com/chris.lovejoy.790693 (https://archive.ph/z5Qnv)
https://twitter.com/VictoryDanceOfc
https://www.furaffinity.net/user/victorydanceofc/
https://www.deviantart.com/victorydanceofficial
victorydance.bsky.social
Bottom line to it all is I really hope someone competent can get that poor kid out and into a real family free of perversion, neglect, and degeneracy. Until then, enjoy laughing at these two pathetic fucks.
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Nidoqueer? That's the dude who was targeted by Synthia the Dragon or whatever the fuck that tranny pedo furry's name is.
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if ya want to write faster play Typing Of The Dead
True & Honest Fan
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Hey, new to the forum. Might as well spill some month old milk:
https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/10662153
https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/10667239
Sorry if a bit sketchy for my first post, I could dig some more but I would have to browse links that go toX twitter, witch I loathe, and I just came back from work on top of having a shit ton of pages from the SRS and GRS among other threads to keep up to since I’ve lost track when the site was on tor only. (I read on phone but I don’t see myself posting with a filthy touch-screen)
Also this there’s something so pissy about this LemonDeer furry (who likes to get drunk as far as I’m aware) and almost probably the rest of them, It’s very likely that almost all of them are blithering idiots and only like 2 or 3 with some resemblance of a level-headed take.
Can’t even degenerate in peace when you are the low level weirdo and them being high tier screaming psychos, I might as well for once get into a useful fucking hobby. (¿Boxing, anyone? ¿Maybe also get into drawing? This graphical tablet craves for some action it looks miserable with all that dust)
https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/10662153
https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/10667239
Sorry if a bit sketchy for my first post, I could dig some more but I would have to browse links that go to
Also this there’s something so pissy about this LemonDeer furry (who likes to get drunk as far as I’m aware) and almost probably the rest of them, It’s very likely that almost all of them are blithering idiots and only like 2 or 3 with some resemblance of a level-headed take.
Can’t even degenerate in peace when you are the low level weirdo and them being high tier screaming psychos, I might as well for once get into a useful fucking hobby. (¿Boxing, anyone? ¿Maybe also get into drawing? This graphical tablet craves for some action it looks miserable with all that dust)
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Alright, I can tell you're a newbie, so I'm not going to rip into you too hard yet, but lemmie give you a couple of tips for future posts:
-Always archive any links you post, because you never know when something is going to get removed. If you're not sure how to archive, here's a moron-proof archive addon for Chrome/Brave (and here's a version for Firefox). I'll do it for you this one time:
Here's an archive of the first FA link you posted, and here's an archive of the second FA link.
-Summarize the links you posted. We don't need an in-depth play-by-play analyzing every sentence, but most of us aren't going to read these text walls unless we know what we're getting into.
-Please do not powerlevel about how you're involved and/or looking up degenerate furry shit. We all know that a good chunk of Animal Control's regular posters are furries themselves, but don't paint a target on your back. None of us want to know about the Sonic the Hedgehog porn you get off to.
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if ya want to write faster play Typing Of The Dead
True & Honest Fan
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I will try to adapt here, verbal abuse is kind of my jam even if it hurts, better than talking with them baizuo if you ask me.
Also speaking of synthia the dragoness ¿is that bri'ish creep still around or did he finally decided to do a flip at a skyscraper?
Also speaking of synthia the dragoness ¿is that bri'ish creep still around or did he finally decided to do a flip at a skyscraper?
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Longtime lurker, first time poster. Hope I don't fuck up too much.
A stream where a furry in suit ends up being harassed by its hosts.
Of course, Odin had to chime in. The guy in the suit was apparently a paid actor, receiving $800, and the suit was purchased for the stream itself. Odin interviews the maker of said suit at 35:56 in the latter video.
EDIT: Attached the two downloaded videos, but no idea how to make them appear in the post.
A stream where a furry in suit ends up being harassed by its hosts.
Of course, Odin had to chime in. The guy in the suit was apparently a paid actor, receiving $800, and the suit was purchased for the stream itself. Odin interviews the maker of said suit at 35:56 in the latter video.
EDIT: Attached the two downloaded videos, but no idea how to make them appear in the post.
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So, they couldn't even antagonize a real furry? Lame.
Edit: holy shit, they are fucking retarded.
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Given Odin has a long history making an ass out of himself on YouTube and sensationalizing stupid shit, I feel like anything in his videos should be taken with a grain of salt.
A while ago, I debated making a thread/OP on Odin due to his constant attention-seeking behavior, but the problem is that he doesn't consistently put out milk like other lolcows. It's less of a stream of content and more of random notable spurts.
So random thought for my AC Kiwis: would there be enough interest for me to put the work into making a proper Odin OP?
A while ago, I debated making a thread/OP on Odin due to his constant attention-seeking behavior, but the problem is that he doesn't consistently put out milk like other lolcows. It's less of a stream of content and more of random notable spurts.
So random thought for my AC Kiwis: would there be enough interest for me to put the work into making a proper Odin OP?
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Whatever the evidence is, it will smell like cum. I salute you for the fortitude to consider it.
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I feel like an Odin thread would be useful since Odin seemingly has a lot of stuff that would be interesting to read about.
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If you of all people didn't think the guy produced enough milk back then, and he hasn't changed his habits since, I really see no reason for him to get a thread. Maybe a writeup, but if he's an infrequent cow his shenanigans might as well just be posted here or in some other megathread.
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a thread may in fact be the catalyst to the milk floodgates spewing forth
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Im all for it. Coincidently, I was hoping someone would after hearing of him again. He's a large figure in the Furry YouTube scene so I can see a good write up on him. Given how whiney he is I think the thread alone would produce milk. Inb4 "HOMOPHOBIC STALKER CHILD WEBSITE DOXXED ME"
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I am glad I stirred up the conversation. I find Odin insufferable, and while the post wasn't meant to hint at a thread, I'm for it.
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Just mention "David Carradine". A lot of normies became aware of the practice after that actor's death.
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David Carradine wasn’t dressed in a fursuit and wrapped up in a latex gimp-bubble tho.
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That's why you lead with David Carradine, and when you're sure the normie got it you break out the fursuit and the vacuum cleaner.
The only thought more horrifying would be surviving being found like that.