Since Dyn is complaining in the other thread about women never "saying how we really feel" I would like to talk about how that actually works out when you are talking to a man. In my experience whenever you try to talk to men about your feelings (usually because they are hurt by the man being a dumbass) men react in one of the following ways:
1. Tell you that what you are feeling is wrong, which is something he as the "logical sex" can just decide
2. Get angry and yell at you
3. Become defensive and offended and disappear for the rest of the day
4. Offer "solutions" to the problem such as "Have you tried just not feeling upset when I do the thing that upset you?!" And then if you don't agree with his solution become angry
This appears to be how most men react when you tell them "What's wrong". I think the anger reaction is the most common one. Most men absolutely are unable to apologize or even admit they have ever done something wrong. Rarely ever have I met a man who did. It really does train you to never say what bothers you and just quietly start to resent them.