Pick-me women / #NotLikeTheOtherGirls General

One thing I’ve noticed with guys is that some will say they desire a woman that has more male interests, but also get mad at women wanting to be part of male dominated hobbies, claiming it’s invasive. If women then create their own group within a male dominated hobby, it’s open to getting lots of mockery. A lot of spaces used to be traditionally male that arguably shouldn’t have been, in cases like gaming, which appeals to both men and women. I do think some feminists just went overboard and started to call anything men like as “sexist” or “problematic,” but it shouldn’t negate the fact that some men will desire very contradictory things. Like how women should just be made to put up with being treated like they’re lesser in male dominated hobbies. Men can’t have it both ways, and if they desire women that are interested in male hobbies, they shouldn’t alienate those that want to be part of it.
They want you to watch them do the thing, bark like a seal, and then regurgitate whatever factoids about the thing that they are overly fixated on.

My husband has learned that if he wants to listen to prog in this house to shut up about what year the album was released and who was the session musician for who. Jesus. Why are men so fucking autistic about stats? Thank God mine isn't a sports guy. The way I hear my friend's husband's talk I just want to die of boredom.
 
It's crazy to me that even in A&N and in places like 4chan there are pick-me's. Like... why? Those scrotes really aren't worth demeaning yourself for. I would understand it more if you're a pick-me for guys that are actually cute like maybe in high school you pretend to like beer and sports to date a cute jock guy. But posting "women fuck dogs" memes to get the attention of guys that look like this:

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Why???
 
It's crazy to me that even in A&N and in places like 4chan there are pick-me's. Like... why? Those scrotes really aren't worth demeaning yourself for. I would understand it more if you're a pick-me for guys that are actually cute like maybe in high school you pretend to like beer and sports to date a cute jock guy. But posting "women fuck dogs" memes to get the attention of guys that look like this:

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What they actually get:
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What “pick me” women think they’re getting:
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I'm willing to give them the benefit of a doubt that they are only collecting an army of insipid simps who go "wow omg ur so based for a gurl" and fluffing their egos a bit and not seriously looking for a boyfriend amongst these genetic rejects. Shoe0nhead and Pearl Davis are proof that it's super easy to get online validation and money from men just by shitting on other women. Scrotes are literally that dumb they will simp for any woman who tells them what they want to hear.

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She’s the most “pick me” ever, going as far as to lose her own self respect. She’ll be okay with whatever her boyfriend does (like Greg openly cheating on her), if it means she’ll get validation. She’ll take on whatever identity it is that will attract the type of guy she wants, even if she doesn’t really like it as much as her boyfriend does (like Star Wars). It’s hard to know what she actually likes (outside of constant validation), since her hobbies and interests are whatever the person she’s dating likes.
 
She’s the most “pick me” ever, going as far as to lose her own self respect. She’ll be okay with whatever her boyfriend does (like Greg openly cheating on her), if it means she’ll get validation. She’ll take on whatever identity it is that will attract the type of guy she wants, even if she doesn’t really like it as much as her boyfriend does (like Star Wars). It’s hard to know what she actually likes (outside of constant validation), since her hobbies and interests are whatever the person she’s dating likes.
The worst thing about her is that she is probably a millionaire off simp bucks (some guy literally paid for her 50k patreon tier) and yet she still lives with her parents and can't clean her own room. So it's not even like she's just a boss bitch who has figured out how to empty scrotes pockets, she is just genuinely retarded and addicted to male validation over the internet.
 
The worst thing about her is that she is probably a millionaire off simp bucks (some guy literally paid for her 50k patreon tier) and yet she still lives with her parents and can't clean her own room. So it's not even like she's just a boss bitch who has figured out how to empty scrotes pockets, she is just genuinely retarded and addicted to male validation over the internet.
She’s on the internet too much and it’s probably why she lives with her parents still and her room is dirty. Someone has to make her food while she does the important work of saying whatever it is that will get her easy simp bucks (her takes aren’t even that great most of the time).
 
She’s on the internet too much and it’s probably why she lives with her parents still and her room is dirty. Someone has to make her food while she does the important work of saying whatever it is that will get her easy simp bucks (her takes aren’t even that great most of the time).
someone needs to save her rabbit. i swear she's shown his cage on video before and it's full of shit and piss.
 
When I had my kids you kind of have to engage and it was like an onslaught of Other Peoples Opinions.
Oh fuck I'm having flashbacks to the school gate mums. It's like a light-speed return to middle school where somehow you're identified as a low status victim for showing up in work clothes and not volunteering for harvest festival. And you can't even not care because if you don't play the game they'll ostracise your kids.
 
I’ve found over the last several years that pursuing your own interests and not worrying too much about who it attracts or repels (of either sex) is really the best course in life.

Do you like doing A or B? Then go do A or B, and stop worrying about whether or not it will attract friends of your own sex or potential partners from the opposite sex. If people were just themselves more, I feel like those who naturally mesh better together, whether as friends or as partners, would naturally find each other.

For example:
I rescue and foster cats as a hobby, because I love cats. Is liking cats normally seen as a manly thing that women find attractive in guys? No, not really. But it’s what I’m passionate about, so I do it anyway, and as it turns out I’m now dating a girl who loves that I love cats. By just being myself and pursuing what I’m interested in, I found a partner who likes me for who I genuinely am.

It’s cliche, but “being yourself” really is the best way to approach life. Something I truly hope “pick-me” girls and their male equivalents can discover someday. You shouldn’t have to change who you are and try to ‘serve’ someone else just for friendship/romantic relationships.
 
If someone thinks you need to change who you are to be in a relationship with them, they aren't worth being in a relationship with.
I agree to an extent, but here are some things I would like a person to change if they were to date me:
  • Bathing regularly
  • Lose weight (if overweight)
  • Learn to maintain a normal conversation
  • Learn to cook basic things like scrambled eggs if they don’t cook at all
Actual hobbies and interests I wouldn’t care to change because I’m not interested in marrying myself
 
I agree to an extent, but here are some things I would like a person to change if they were to date me:
  • Bathing regularly
  • Lose weight (if overweight)
  • Learn to maintain a normal conversation
  • Learn to cook basic things like scrambled eggs if they don’t cook at all
Actual hobbies and interests I wouldn’t care to change because I’m not interested in marrying myself
I think basic human social functions are a given. Obviously it shouldn’t be a blanket statement to say be who you want to be, but (with some exceptions) you shouldn’t change your interests or what you’re passionate about for others.
 
She’s the most “pick me” ever, going as far as to lose her own self respect. She’ll be okay with whatever her boyfriend does (like Greg openly cheating on her), if it means she’ll get validation. She’ll take on whatever identity it is that will attract the type of guy she wants, even if she doesn’t really like it as much as her boyfriend does (like Star Wars). It’s hard to know what she actually likes (outside of constant validation), since her hobbies and interests are whatever the person she’s dating likes.
Guarantee she enjoys dissing other women in service of getting more male validation. If that counts as a hobby.
Take some not ladies. You too can become the cosplay gf

I can be the cosplay gf but I can't promise you will enjoy the characters I choose to cosplay.
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This one was “Hamlet, Prince of Denmark”
 
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Take some not ladies. You too can become the cosplay gf

Women: "I just want a guy who washes his ass."
Men: "I just want a girl who spends thousands of dollars on costumes to roleplay my favorite waifus so I can live out all my hentai fetish porn fantasies, because due to my chronic porn addiction I need constant novelty to coom at all."
 
Is @Otterly a pick me? All she does is post typical chud responses in thunderdome
Leave elderly boomer women out of it. She has no idea about dating horrors of today, she has read about but hasnt experienced it irl , like forever gf, porn-addiction, horryfying myriad of kinks due to said porn addiction, hobosexuality and gold digging, histrionics and outright hate for women that the internet causes and she didnt had that during her dating phase. So far with few exeptions the woman had decent responses . I think she is one of those women who has gotten lucky and cant comprehend the slyness , shityness, entitlement and egoism of the average millenial or younger male because she hasnt experieced it first hand or second hand.

On the other hand just the pearly things got a video lol

the ultimate pick me boss

 
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