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The Sisterhood ™️ is 100% a meme. This extends to work as well. Most of the #girlbosses can’t stand each other and try to rip each other’s throats out. The female subordinates are also much more likely to get bullied and pushed around than the male subordinates.
The women I know that worked in 100% female environments say it's hellish. But the moment a man shows up the cattiness and backstabbing dies down to a level he might not notice. Until he leaves.
 
The women I know that worked in 100% female environments say it's hellish. But the moment a man shows up the cattiness and backstabbing dies down to a level he might not notice. Until he leaves.
It does kind of work like this for women too. Women do the "every other woman is my friend" thing not because of lady camaraderie but because it is a way of keeping the other girls in line until she can talk enough shit about them to ruin her reputation.

For the black sheep of a female only workplace sometimes there is no indication the other girls hate you until you are explaining some bogus HR claim to the boss.
 
Not custody, moreso troubled kids if I remember correctly.
Judith Schendlin was a Manhattan Family Court judge so while she did hear mostly juvenile cases on occasion she heard other cases. I knew a lawyer that appeared before her and yes, she was no nonsense judge. Didn't suffer fools gladly.

For the black sheep of a female only workplace sometimes there is no indication the other girls hate you until you are explaining some bogus HR claim to the boss.
"She was mean to me!"
"How so?"
"She blocked the internet on the computers I am not allowed to use!"
"..."
"OK sure I broke the rules but she didn't have to be so mean to me!"
 
The other thing that we aren't privy to as much is that women extort the fuck out of each other. In the man world the idea of BYOB is so firmly coded that we don't understand just how transactional female friendships are.

Didn't bring a bottle of wine to the gals night cause you are broke? You'll never be invited back. Too tired to take Jen shopping and for another ten dollars worth of starbucks she will never pay back? I hope you enjoy friday night with your cat.
It's funny now that you mention it. I've had male friends that have used me but it was rare that they'd give me nothing in return, despite how disproportional it might've been. But I've had more than a few female friends that put on a really close act only to use, use, use until there's nothing left and then when you're all used up, you're just someone to gossip about.
 
To many viewers, Bateman is "awesome" and "bad ass" like Rick Sanchez or John Wick, despite the conflicting personal issues, dubious ethics and critiques of "capitalism" the artists are attempting to highlight through these characters.. I would have expected uncultured swine to understand.

If all you got out of American Psycho was, he killed all those people he's a monster. Or look at him he's banging the babes and killing people who annoy him. Then you clearly aren't capable of digesting media beyond a surface level and any further arguments, on anything, are wasted on you.
 
Lmao
The girl I am dating often vents about women are pathetic friends and how their female society will eat each other.
Wasn't their a family guy skit on that?
There was a whole episode where Peter gets a group of female friends and literally the second he’s not in the same room as them they start talking shit about him.
 
I've grown to really dislike fat women as a concept.

It's not even an actual hatred because that would involve some kind of passion, but it's a sort of sad indifference since it seems like a waste. I'm not cruel to them or anything but basically once a woman ceases to have an identifiable waistline they stop registering.

Sometimes I think maybe it's unfair to immediately write fat women off, lots of people have struggles and maybe if you included them your habits would rub off, but for every single dude I've known who's made the mistake of dating a girl on the border she always got fatter and worse afterwards.
If she started out a little chubby but still cute, she will look like a slovenly hog within a year or so. We have a deathfats section, you can see it play out in real time.

That doesn't apply for chubby men. They usually stay the same or improve.

If a woman in a relationship does lose weight, it often winds up being a portent of her being unfaithful. I guess losing weight for herself and her partner isn't worth enough, unless a woman gets some kind of external validation in exchange for self improvement then why bother?

And the problem is nowadays, depending on the area, up to like 1/3 of young women are fat when not even close to that amount of men in the same area are.

Idk, it's kind of gross and sad. You just have to ignore them and leave them to their fate (FATe).

There was a whole episode where Peter gets a group of female friends and literally the second he’s not in the same room as them they start talking shit about him.
But men won't immediately melt into a puddle if other people think mean thoughts about them, so that has a lot less significance.
 
The usual form that white collar female ambition takes in office jobs is unbelievably annoying to anyone who isn't a spoiled narc. Go check Google to see what I'm talking about. The blogposts. The memoirs. The fawning news articles. The hair color changes, the bitching is the same.

"I worked at AmaGoogleFaceAppleBoeing for 10 years! I made a generous salary but you Just. Wouldn't. Be. Lieve. *presses the back of her hand to her forehead* How. HARD. Being. A. *flings herself onto a couch* WOMYN. Is in the evil mean corporate dudemanbro cigar chomping misogyny hell world."
"I was a manager making deep into the six figures but I never. FEEEEEEEELT. Respected, men just don't GET it."
"I worked over a decade at this company making bank with zero guns pressed to my temple but I felt. SO TRAPPED."
"My experience is that men are so fragile. All I do is Mean Girl vaguebitch and aimlesscomplain that there aren't 50% wimmin in C suites and they start DEFENSIVELY quoting stats at me about women choosing different jobs! It's so knee jerk, their use of facts in response to my whining about the number of cooters in power. Something must be wrong with them."

Women should never have been allowed in jobs with HR departments. The endless complaining. The demands that work take a backseat to paranoid misogyny-baiting. HR department white collar office culture kisses up to the bitchiest, self-aggrandizing, backstabbing, victim-wallowing toxic feminine traits in the business, and only ever tells them that they'll get whatever they want as long as the whining continues.
 
And the problem is nowadays, depending on the area, up to like 1/3 of young women are fat when not even close to that amount of men in the same area are.
It's pretty much 50 percent especially since covid.

The copes that women use just wouldn't work with men. I was watching an epsiode of No Reservations in Thailand with my buddy and his GF years ago and she goes pointing at the veg heavy soups they were eating and says "see that's why they are so skinny over there it's easier to get your veg"

Now I wasn't going to start some shit especially cause generally speaking she's really nice and actually has common sense.

Did it ever occur to her that she could be eating those soups either from a Thai restaurant or by making them at home cause Thai curry is pretty easy to make? Fuck no. If you ever saw this girl's car floor you would know the problem immediately she like most women in 2023 is a fast food addict. But no if she lived in magical fantasy Thai-Land she would be skinny it's not like junk food or overwieght people exist there.

Bitches get a grip you are in a 24/7 state of being disingenuous with both yourselves and everyone around you. Put down the baconator and delete DoorDash and you might lose some weight. I'm telling you man these hoes are filthy.
 
It's pretty much 50 percent especially since covid.

The copes that women use just wouldn't work with men. I was watching an epsiode of No Reservations in Thailand with my buddy and his GF years ago and she goes pointing at the veg heavy soups they were eating and says "see that's why they are so skinny over there it's easier to get your veg"

Now I wasn't going to start some shit especially cause generally speaking she's really nice and actually has common sense.

Did it ever occur to her that she could be eating those soups either from a Thai restaurant or by making them at home cause Thai curry is pretty easy to make? Fuck no. If you ever saw this girl's car floor you would know the problem immediately she like most women in 2023 is a fast food addict. But no if she lived in magical fantasy Thai-Land she would be skinny it's not like junk food or overwieght people exist there.

Bitches get a grip you are in a 24/7 state of being disingenuous with both yourselves and everyone around you. Put down the baconator and delete DoorDash and you might lose some weight. I'm telling you man these hoes are filthy.
Being a food addict is embarrassing and brings in even more unwelcome criticism, so they lie to themselves and to everyone else.

I've always heard how PCOS makes you gain weight but I only recently heard someone explain that it fucks with your blood sugar and puts you into panic and you start binging. Which sounds a lot more reasonable and a problem that can be worked on besides "it's just a magical curse and you can't prevent it".
 
If all you got out of American Psycho was, he killed all those people he's a monster. Or look at him he's banging the babes and killing people who annoy him. Then you clearly aren't capable of digesting media beyond a surface level and any further arguments, on anything, are wasted on you.
Again to remind, I am remarking on what I believe to be the popular perception. I am claiming this is how this character is viewed, in part because the people who make movies like this do not understand the mindset of the people who watch their movies. I have not expressed my personal views on the movie or its characters. Personally I tend to find most of the cinema in the US pandering, patronizing, lazy, shallow and in general quite dreadful. The majority of the most recent examples I have found comparable to Gladkov's Cement.

I have met people who hate specific actors because of characters they have played in movies, because the characters they depicted were "not nice." I have heard of people threatening Jack Gleeson because they do not like what Joffrey Baratheon did to the Stark family. Such people seem to lack the ability to distinguish between actors and the roles they play. Likewise I suggest there are those who cannot discern between what a writer or director is trying to portray and how this portrayal is seen by a wider audience.

Perhaps you lack the capacity to see how claiming a popular perception does not imply one holds that perception. That's not my problem.
 
I've always heard how PCOS makes you gain weight but I only recently heard someone explain recently it fucks with your blood sugar and puts you into panic and you start binging. Which sounds a lot more reasonable and a problem that can be worked on besides "it's just a magical curse and you can't prevent it".
Women have lead themselves down a road where everything, everything has to be catastrophized.

It's not that you don't listen to women cause they have nothing to say or no interesting opinions. You ignore women because every innocent look is "stare rape", every meeting with the boss is "workplace bullying", every parent that does things differently is "child abuse".

Women are just constantly trying to write themselves into a movie that doesn't exist so that is why you don't listen to what they have to say... Plus it makes them mad when you just walk out in the middle of the conversation cause it reminds them of their dad leaving. :story:
 
The women I know that worked in 100% female environments say it's hellish. But the moment a man shows up the cattiness and backstabbing dies down to a level he might not notice. Until he leaves.
Since this is current year, I've seen small descriptors on businesses that say "women owned" or "women operated" either on the storefront itself, the website, or google maps entry, or all. I often times find myself steering clear of those places the same way if they claim they're lgbt troon friendly.
 
I've grown to really dislike fat women as a concept.

It's not even an actual hatred because that would involve some kind of passion, but it's a sort of sad indifference since it seems like a waste. I'm not cruel to them or anything but basically once a woman ceases to have an identifiable waistline they stop registering.
Fat women are either jolly or they're sad wallflowers and the latter is what's upsetting because you can see someone suffering, but suffering mostly because society is more shallow about what women offer.
Sometimes I think maybe it's unfair to immediately write fat women off, lots of people have struggles and maybe if you included them your habits would rub off, but for every single dude I've known who's made the mistake of dating a girl on the border she always got fatter and worse afterwards.
If she started out a little chubby but still cute, she will look like a slovenly hog within a year or so. We have a deathfats section, you can see it play out in real time.
All women get fatter. It's one of those game theory games where once you're committed they can loosen their standards. You accept that as part of it. I agree though that it sucks.

In all likelihood both husband and wife will wind up fat hogs anyways in later life, so might as well try to pair off with someone you can still look lovingly at even when they're a hog.
That doesn't apply for chubby men. They usually stay the same or improve.
??? Men are known for doing the same thing. Perhaps not as much, but again, men have less pressure on them about their looks (and way more about basically every other aspect of their lives and personality).
If a woman in a relationship does lose weight, it often winds up being a portent of her being unfaithful. I guess losing weight for herself and her partner isn't worth enough, unless a woman gets some kind of external validation in exchange for self improvement then why bother?
Or, the woman starts getting huge amounts of attention they didn't used to get and it intoxicates them.

People respond to weight loss in all kinds of ways. Some people have a hard time mentally adjusting and still feel unattractive like they're fat (which is what a fat incel should gun for, one of those pretty women that doesn't realize they're pretty). Some get embittered by it. I think there's often a sort of bitterness to the indulgence of people who get more attractive, like revenge on the world/themselves but in practice its their significant other that suffers.
And the problem is nowadays, depending on the area, up to like 1/3 of young women are fat when not even close to that amount of men in the same area are.
I can't particularly think of that with regards to Whites, but I've noticed Mexican women tend to be fat and Mexican men tend to be worker-fit and I assume it's because of their physical labor. Likewise Black women tend to be fatter than Black men and I assume it's because SOME of the men are sporty.
Idk, it's kind of gross and sad. You just have to ignore them and leave them to their fate (FATe).
Or treat them like fellow humans/children of God.
 
I'm not talking about you. I am remarking on wider society.
Fair enough. Sorry for being so confrontational; I live in a Blue state.

In one of his Connections episodes, James Burke remarked that complaints about human violence are unfair. Given how apes normally behave in the wild, and that civilization is only a few tens of thousands of years old at best, it's remarkable that hairless simians get along as well as they do. Animal torture, troonery, incest, rape, infanticide, cannibalism and the like are more "normal" in the natural world than you'd think. Given our present trajectory, we might have everything sorted in the next ten thousand years or so - assuming we don't exterminate all life on the planet, of course.
 
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