Pick-me women / #NotLikeTheOtherGirls General

what the fuck is up with women bragging about how big their sons were at birth? I've heard them talk about it so many times. it's fucking weird

Ironically, a large baby is a health concern for the mother and child.
Factors that raise the risk of large babies are:
Obesity
Longer than 40 week gestation

Doctors tend to push c-sections with mothers who have large babies because it can quite literally rip your innards out.
 
You take dumb babies places because you want to go there and it’s easier to take the baby with you than arrange childcare. And then you rationalize that taking your baby to the cafe or the zoo or the bookshop or whatnot is an enrichment and educational activity.
Also, honestly, you are really fucking bored. It's not the baby's fault they are an infant, but with all the will in the world, no matter how much you read to baby and do tummy time and all the other shit the books suggest... The fundamental reality is that you are in the house 24/7 with someone who can't talk, shits themselves and only ingests milk. Sometimes you need to go outside, where other adults are, so fucking badly. Like, toddler group and Bounce n Rhyme and all that shit are not for the babies. They are to keep the mothers vaguely sane.
 
I have seen this play out. One of the biggest shocks to me when I became a mum was that there are parents who love their kids and will sacrifice anything for their well being, and there are parents who are low functioning and love them but just can’t cope (leads to neglect) , but there are also a whole spectrum of parents who hate their kids and abuse them. Not just physically but emotionally.
I was aware of the ‘dad knocks me around’ stuff from school friends, but what I saw when I started having to interact with other parents shocked me.
Men tend be be physically and sexually abusive in an overt way (although this is also becoming sneakier with the Troon stuff.) but women destroy people.
I have seen women who hate men emasculate their sons. This usually starts with the ‘gender disappointment’ stuff. Seriously go into your nearest parent board and search for it. They want a girl mini me to dress up. These mothers are the ones with the trooned out boys, very often.
But I’ve also seen the awful dynamic where the girl is really pretty and the father may or may not be creeping and the mothers response is to destroy the girl. I’ve seen this a lot more with stepmothers (I have stepmother tales that would turn your hair grey.) I have seen one where the mother bagged and encouraged the girl (who has waist length, blonde, gorgeous hair) to get it all cut off, I’ve seen women tell slim girls they’re fat (and they weren’t.) seen women react with disgust to tomboy daughters.
It’s very disturbing to see. I suspect that women turn a lot of their disgust with themselves onto their daughters, and the cycle perpetuates.
Fathers aren’t exempt - there’s plenty of abuse from that side too. I’m just closer to the women’s group stuff and that has made me horrified too often
Ok I know this was a couple posts back but holy shit boymoms are the most useless handmaidens on earth. Women destroy people but the rape and actual violence that men commit just is it what it is, not on par with the evil women commit like saying mean words and being jealous. And so fuckimg what if women hate men and emasculate their sons? there’s literally nothing wrong with hating men. Lame ass pussy bitch
 
Maybe I'm just socially retarded, but I've read through the entire thread and still don't understand what "pick-me" girls even are. Most of the stuff posted has "literally me" vibes and that's just because it just is for me, I just didn't use it as a calling card for potential dates when I was single. What would have even been the point of me doing so, anyway?

'Course, these girls just come off as posers to me, that might be what's confusing me over the label. They come off as the equivalent of someone who joins a fandom just for the shipping and not bothering to learn more about the series itself, just replace fandoms with men's spaces.
 
Maybe I'm just socially retarded, but I've read through the entire thread and still don't understand what "pick-me" girls even are. Most of the stuff posted has "literally me" vibes and that's just because it just is for me, I just didn't use it as a calling card for potential dates when I was single. What would have even been the point of me doing so, anyway?

'Course, these girls just come off as posers to me, that might be what's confusing me over the label. They come off as the equivalent of someone who joins a fandom just for the shipping and not bothering to learn more about the series itself, just replace fandoms with men's spaces.
It’s niche but they exist and are pretty annoying. They only contribute to the further divide between men and women. Basically they’re like JustPearlyThings. Actually she’s prime example of the pick-me girl who ironically cannot get picked.
 
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Nevermind the fact that she's a black woman simping for a "whuite supremacist", any woman who would simp for serial woman-abuser and hamsterballs-roidmoid groomer Sam Hyde is a pick-me that should learn to love herself. It reminds me of the women who simped for Chris Brown after he beat the shit out of Rhianna.

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I hate Sam Hyde so much it's unreal. If I was in a room with Sam Hyde, Dick Masterson and Nick Rekieta and had a gun with three bullets I would shoot Sam Hyde three times just to make sure.
she’s so #edgy Zomgzz! >.< I bet all the white supremacists want her now!

ridiculous
I hate her pick me ass so much
 
she’s so #edgy Zomgzz! >.< I bet all the white supremacists want her now!

ridiculous
I hate her pick me ass so much
Why is every one talking like @AmberHeardSupporter ? Stahp. I have grown to love and appreciate AHS's unique voice and intransigence, but please, we don't need a bunch of copycats.
 
huh? how am I talking like her?
I was just making fun of Doja kek
I don’t think she’s trying to sound like me she’s just a based woman expressing her anger.

Lol, not a criticism! Not even serious - I was making a light joke because @nonnita said "I hate...so much," which is a phrasing @AmberHeardSupporter often uses ( or often, "I [just] hate...so much it's unreal"), and I'd just seen that^ a couple times earlier in the day by at least one other person. My comment was meant as :biggrin: not :mad:.
 
Lol, not a criticism! Not even serious - I was making a light joke because @nonnita said "I hate...so much," which is a phrasing @AmberHeardSupporter often uses ( or often, "I [just] hate...so much it's unreal"), and I'd just seen that^ a couple times earlier in the day by at least one other person. My comment was meant as :biggrin: not :mad:.
Sorry I am deeply autistic

threadtax: a woman so desperate to be one of the good ones willingly compares herself to trannies. So sad
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Lol, not a criticism! Not even serious - I was making a light joke because @nonnita said "I hate...so much," which is a phrasing @AmberHeardSupporter often uses ( or often, "I [just] hate...so much it's unreal"), and I'd just seen that^ a couple times earlier in the day by at least one other person. My comment was meant as :biggrin: not :mad:.
oh kek I thought you were being serious because you can't hear the tonality of a message so I automatically thought it was a criticism :P
 
This woman actually posted her cooking in the WOMAN HATE THREAD to get approval from men sperging about "women can't cook REEEE". Men who can probably not even heat up a frozen pizza. Amazing.

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I will admit I don't know how dire the situation is in the US, where I live everyone cooks at home every single day, it's literally unheard of for an adult not to be able to feed themselves so posting your dinner on KF seems like an extremely weird brag. I know in the US take-out and fast food is a lot more common, but I doubt I'm sure it's both sexes who are fat and lazy.
 
This woman actually posted her cooking in the WOMAN HATE THREAD to get approval from men sperging about "women can't cook REEEE". Men who can probably not even heat up a frozen pizza. Amazing.

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I will admit I don't know how dire the situation is in the US, where I live everyone cooks at home every single day, it's literally unheard of for an adult not to be able to feed themselves so posting your dinner on KF seems like an extremely weird brag. I know in the US take-out and fast food is a lot more common, but I doubt I'm sure it's both sexes who are fat and lazy.
Of course we can feed ourselves in the US. We have Doordash, Uber Eats and a number of pizza and Chinese places deliver, and if you're rich you can order from Goldbelly. We're not uncivilized.
 
I know in the US take-out and fast food is a lot more common, but I doubt I'm sure it's both sexes who are fat and lazy.
Yeahhhh I mean I think the laziness epidemic has spread its roots to some extent throughout the younger generation, although I wouldn't necessarily say that it affects both sexes equally. These days there are so many delivery services where you can get groceries without ever leaving your house; there are pre-made meals too, which you can either pick up at a store or also have delivered to you. In Japan for example you can get full boxed lunches at a convenience store. Convenience stores specifically aren't as big a thing in America, but there's so much fast food and prepackaged stuff everywhere that it more than makes up for it.

I think male socialization plays a part--I feel there isn't as high an expectation on them to be self-sufficient, whereas girls are kind of expected to look after themselves and others around them from a young age. We might be long past the days of widespread housewifery, but I think cooking, cleaning, housekeeping etc are still to some level considered "women's work".
 
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