Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[4506-C]

I think that's probably true, just trying to cover all my bases as much as possible there.

Show the ladies your impressive reaction score and all will be well

 

[Fareal]

I don’t know if I can overestimate the importance of being clean (body and clothing) and not smelling.

I have a more sensitive sense of smell than average, but I honestly cannot endure people who stink. Halitosis in particular. Be very attentive to oral health, get regular dental checks, and floss and check for tonsil stones. Always carry breath mints.

 

[WTBOnlineFather]

check for tonsil stones. Always carry breath mints.

The rest I can get behind but sheesh, talk about high maintenance

 

[Fareal]

The rest I can get behind but sheesh, talk about high maintenance

I haven’t kissed my spouse in nearly twenty years due to the utter horror stench that emits from his mouth hole. Not even at the wedding. The smell is so bad colleagues have complained about it and it appeared in at least one performance review. The children physically gag at it.

I will die never having been kissed since I was a teenager, because someone else refuses to take basic oral hygiene seriously.

Please put in this maintenance. It will be much appreciated.

 

[WTBOnlineFather]

I haven’t kissed my spouse in nearly twenty years due to the utter horror stench that emits from his mouth hole. Not even at the wedding. The smell is so bad colleagues have complained about it and it appeared in at least one performance review. The children physically gag at it.

Is that out of neglect or does he actually do all the stuff you mentioned including mints and shit? Cuz if so and it doesn't help, god damn do I feel sorry for the guy. That'd basically be an unearned death sentence for your social relations.

 

[Stan]

I haven’t kissed my spouse in nearly twenty years due to the utter horror stench that emits from his mouth hole. Not even at the wedding. The smell is so bad colleagues have complained about it and it appeared in at least one performance review. The children physically gag at it.

I will die never having been kissed since I was a teenager, because someone else refuses to take basic oral hygiene seriously.

Please put in this maintenance. It will be much appreciated.

I can't imagine what his teeth look like. Why is this so common amongst men? I don't think it's because parents slack off on teaching boys how to brush compared to girls. Is it just men getting a pass on being slobs or what.

 

[Fareal]

Is that out of neglect or does he actually do all the stuff you mentioned including mints and shit? Cuz if so and it doesn't help, god damn do I feel sorry for the guy. That'd basically be an unearned death sentence for your social relations.

Oh, no. He does none of that. He believes that it is unreasonable and offensive for other people to request that he not cause them to look around to see who just shit themselves. He finds it completely unreasonable that I will not play tonsil hockey with someone who everyone turns their face away from when he speaks. It is that bad.

He has complete agency over his body, it’s his choice. I gave up trying even in the most gentle and tactful of ways about fifteen years ago. He is now losing several teeth a year.

So, bros. Toothpaste. Mouthwash. Floss. Mints. Dental care. Just do it. Even if you never want to get laid in your life, please just do it for everyone you work with.

 

[Nonconsentual Pronouns]

Greetings foids. I have a question. Looks wise, what do women value more, body or face?

I don't have a straightforward answer to this, but I hope that may make the answer I do have more helpful. The answer is given as though I'm back in time in one of my instances of being single.

IDGAF what a guy looks like unless he's either terrifying or shown some part of his personality to attract or repel me first. If his personality is ugly, my mind will highlight everything wrong with his appearance and I'll find him ugly on the outside as well, face and all. If his personality has attracted me, it makes me attracted to his face simply because it's him. However, the shape that a person's body is in tells me a bit about themselves, since that's something we generally have a lot of control over. I'd never consider being with someone who's first impression is that he's lazy, greedy, overall selfish and just doesn't give a fuck about anything other than sitting around with his goyslop and coomer bait (or just has no time to eat properly and exercise, much less spend time with me). A guy who's at least not obese or brown and doesn't look like that thing from The Goonies has a shot if he comes across as a good person with compatibility, even a tiny bit of stability and enough self care to signify that he gives a fuck.

That being said, there is the plain fact that the body can be drastically changed, while that's not really the case with the face. This can be a very large influencing factor with a lot of women, especially the ones who haven't gotten enough reality checks to chase them out of their "project" phase and still think that they "cAn FiX hIm".

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On the topic of KF being the place to ask women for advice and the like, where else are you going to hear real women tell it to you straight if we won't burn the coal or touch a fatty? Askreddit? 4chan? LMAO, please do try and then report back with how well that worked out.

 

[anliteralidiot]

Damn. I was hoping ladies preferred body because I can't really do much about my face. Oh well.

That's why I prefrenced my vote with it being multiple factors. If I put a number to it, it's like personality is 60% of the draw for me.

This doesn't mean that I'll date a deathfat, or someone who's Cyraxx-ugly, but I'm willing to look passed those (to an extent) if the personality is a great match for me.

Try out different facial hairstyles. They can help "sculpt" your face. Like, my husband looks awful without his goatee, because he doesn't have the best chin. But, the facial hair helps strengthen his chin, and makes a visual line from his neck.

 

[LMlurker]

I added the edit at the end of the OP specifically to avoid this thread being made. Although I appreciate people trying to help. I don't really want advice at this point. I just wanted to know if this issue was present in a significant portion of the female population in their 20s/30s. I posted this in the man hate thread because I didn't want sympathy. I just wanted a question answered.

While it's rare for a woman of that age not to have friends, there ARE a significant population of women that haven't ever had a serious romantic relationship. A lot of women never make it past the fling stage with their dating app matches, and a lot of them just quietly stop seeing men for large portions of their 20s and 30s. I recently had a relationship with a woman in her early 30s who told me she had never had an actual boyfriend. She wasn't crazy hot but she was attractive enough; it's just that most women aren't willing to hold out on the sex stuff in order to force a relationship, so if they're particularly unlucky the whole thing just passes them by. The fact that they're all loaded up on libido-killing antidepressants and stimulants doesn't help. You gotta think, for every khv man there's a woman who hasn't ever been taken seriously by the men she's slept with, it's a mathematical necessity. If men and women both would lower their standards a little, they'd all be better off.

 

[NoReturn]

I added the edit at the end of the OP specifically to avoid this thread being made. Although I appreciate people trying to help. I don't really want advice at this point. I just wanted to know if this issue was present in a significant portion of the female population in their 20s/30s. I posted this in the man hate thread because I didn't want sympathy. I just wanted a question answered.

Is it really 'mostly no'? Is there no mirror female population of catladies and femcel outcasts? Is it a uniquely dude issue? It's a genuine question.

I know a lot of people itt said it's uncommon in women, but it can be common in autists and spergs. The kind of women some deride as "non-women" or "don't count".
Like @Flaming_Barghast mentioned, it's less of a "mirror population" than a phenomenon that's less visible to men.

Consider:
Anon may be an ugly outcast, so he only plays games and goes on 4chan, but Anonette might be better at socializing only because she's dragged into it by other women.
From Anon's perspective, he might think Anonette is a normie if he sees her in public, not realizing she's the one that called him a faggot the night before on /a/.

How to get into skincare? Im mid twenties so i figure theres still something to be saved in my case but without family or rl womenfriends its kinda hard to get into cus if i ask my friends im just called a faggit and im pretty sure most of them just wing it anyway.

I'm pointing you to an answer in the Skincare thread. This is a good place to place to start: https://kiwifarms.net/threads/skincare.31649/post-17230681

+1 to the skincare thread, but also, remember you are a dude. Your skin is different in ways you can use to your benefit.

Greetings foids. I have a question. Looks wise, what do women value more, body or face?

Like @DYLAN ‘DIELAWN’ VOLK said: Not fat.
If I see a fat woman I don't view her as harshly (barring hamplanets) as a fat man. This is specifically because I know enough about biology and fitness to understand how much "work" goes into being a fat man vs. a fat woman.

 

[Anne Hyroe]

He has complete agency over his body, it’s his choice. I gave up trying even in the most gentle and tactful of ways about fifteen years ago. He is now losing several teeth a year.

I know this is a place for the moids to ask for help but Dear God woman, leave him. You’ve been together for years, have children and he won’t even do something basic that would benefit himself for your sake? Bin him.

 

[Sperghetti]

Is it really 'mostly no'? Is there no mirror female population of catladies and femcel outcasts? Is it a uniquely dude issue? It's a genuine question.

Okay, @The Skeksis Emperor and @Fareal's posts now have me wondering... Is the underlying problem with these lonely shut-in men actually that they don't have any male friends? Because they're right, being single (even unwillingly) doesn't necessarily mean you have no social life and nothing to do, especially in the internet age.

I think I'd flip this around: Why does it seem to be so common for men to associate the lack of a partner with a life empty of anything but work and sleep?

 

[NoReturn]

Okay, @The Skeksis Emperor and @Fareal's posts now have me wondering... Is the underlying problem with these lonely shut-in men actually that they don't have any male friends? Because they're right, being single (even unwillingly) doesn't necessarily mean you have no social life and nothing to do, especially in the internet age.

YES.
Men need men. Everyone knows women are social, that doesn't mean men are biologically built to be antisocial retards who live alone in the woods.
That's unnatural.
If you have a bunch of male social animals with no larger pack, they tend to group up and make their own all-male pack. You get all male monkey-troupes, all male canine packs, all-male cetaceans gangs...
Men need friends and older male mentors. They're fragmented from each other these days and that's fucked up.

I think I'd flip this around: Why does it seem to be so common for men to associate the lack of a partner with a life empty of anything but work and sleep?

Because in the absence of male friends, brothers, or a dad, who's going to drag that man out of his house? It's easier and cheaper to stay inside and online and talk to other men on Discord or whatever to get your social fix than it is to physically leave your space.

 

[mold]

if you have no hobbies/interests and you are a man then make money, retard

 

[AgendaPoster]

List of ASL please
So I know which one of you ladies I should ask for advice

 

[Anne Hyroe]

List of ASL please
So I know which one of you ladies I should ask for advice

American Sign Language? I hope you find the deaf girl of your dreams

Lmao * deaf, it autocorrected to dead twice.

 

[dvnc]

Greetings foids. I have a question. Looks wise, what do women value more, body or face?

Face. Eyes. Hands. Arms.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Greetings foids. I have a question. Looks wise, what do women value more, body or face?

Not being a fuckboi and not riding the carousel . Looks are temporary glory of Rome is eternal.

 

[AWizard]

Why does it seem to be so common for men to associate the lack of a partner with a life empty of anything but work and sleep?

What age bracket are you talking about?