Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

For the love of God, someone explain perfume to me. They all smell similar to me unless it has more alcohol (Which I've been told it is a good way to know which ones are shitty)

I have no idea what the fuck to pick, they all smell nice.
Make sure there aren't any bad memories attached to that scent. One time I bought perfume for a woman. I didn't know what to get so I just bought a fancy one that I thought smelled nice. It turned out I picked one that her recently deceased family member would always wear. It made her cry and ruined her birthday.
 
You know I think I might actually have a shot at dating a girl lately. This one from my class made a point to send me a friend request on discord, and is always really enthusiastic talking to me. I asked her if she had weekend plans and she immediately seemed interested in hanging out and helping me with some work.

Cautiously optimistic. I hope I don't mess it up.
 
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I feel sorry (actually I don't) for whoever matches with AHS. Just one mention of Depp then they're saying bye bye to Richard
You know I think I might actually have a shot at dating a girl lately. This one from my class made a point to send me a friend request on discord, and is always really enthusiastic talking to me. I asked her if she had weekend plans and she immediately seemed interested in hanging out and helping me with some work.
>Girl
>Discord

50/50 chance it's a tranny.
 
Man looking to buy for my woman.
Perfumers usually sell samplers of their various scents so you can try them out. Maybe get her one from a nice high end place (please don't cheap out on perfume) then get a full size bottle of whichever is her favorite?

Perfume basically is supposed to work with the natural scent everyone has (you know how you can have someone's old shirt or w/e and it smells like them?) rather than cover it up with its own smell. It can take a few tries to get one that meshes well. It's kinda like how in cooking, some spices pair well with certain meats or vegetables and some clash with them.
 
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I feel like people in this thread are overestimating how many hobbies normal people have.

I'd wager half of women have no hobbies outside of tv, social media, reading, clubbing, etc. (I.e. passive consumption) If the other half have hobbies it's just some etsy/printerist tier arts and crafts shit.

If someone builds a semiconductor fab in their garage or scales a before unseen mountain it's always a guy.
 
Can't really give any solid suggestions without knowing how your anxiety manifests itself, but you can't go wrong with meditation and good therapy (not pill pushers)
I was on anti anxiety meds for a few months. that's shits a scam. They sell it to you as it will make you feel better while you improve yourself, but in reality it makes you feel content with your shitty life and you don't feel the need to get better. Getting off of them was a wake up call for me.
 
I don't know if it's related, but I've had a few people in my college social circles tell me they thought I hated them until we actually had a conversation at some party or event. I didn't think much about that until the third person said that to me. I always try to be nice and friendly to people, so don't know what I could be doing that's so off-putting.
Seconding everyone else who said this sounds more like resting bitch face than uncanny valley effect. It could be both, but you said you're often lost in thought, so if your "I'm thinking about stuff" face looks angry, people might assume you're in a bad mood when you aren't.

Will women like me if I show up to our first date in my Hold It Together hoodie?
The right woman will.

I was on anti anxiety meds for a few months. that's shits a scam. They sell it to you as it will make you feel better while you improve yourself, but in reality it makes you feel content with your shitty life and you don't feel the need to get better. Getting off of them was a wake up call for me.
Something I saw on /fit/ that stuck with me: "Meds work great if your default state is 'fucked'."
Doctors put people on SSRIs and similar meds as a forever-medicine, but they probably shouldn't be used for that. They're really good at stabilizing you, sure, and the "getting better" part can take years, but the goal should be the eventually get healthy enough that you can go without unless you have something unfixable like a birth defect or TBI.
An example case of this I've seen is someone who fucked themselves up being vegetarian and then vegan for a decade. It's taken her literal years to recover from it so far, but she's doing better. You can't just take someone like that and be all "Ok, eat animal products, you're good now, bye." It's going to take a while to rebuild your body, rebuild nutrient stores, etc.
 
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Ok, I am an ignorant femoid needing femoid, facts.

I read a lot about women becoming more loose after they give birth. But in recent years, I also learned that it is a muscle and can be normal after giving birth cuz you know, it is a muscle.

Which one is true? Do we get loose permanently after giving birth or not?
 
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Ok, I am an ignorant femoid needing femoid, facts.

I read a lot about women becoming more loose after they give birth. But in recent years, I also learned that it is a muscle and can be normal after giving birth cuz you know, it is a muscle.

Which one is true?
It's a muscle. Kegals are great for women after giving birth.
 
Ok, I am an ignorant femoid needing femoid, facts.

I read a lot about women becoming more loose after they give birth. But in recent years, I also learned that it is a muscle and can be normal after giving birth cuz you know, it is a muscle.

Which one is true? Do we get loose permanently after giving birth or not?
Here's what I've been told/read from mothers. Yes, childbirth can make you looser, especially if you have a lot of kids close together and don't give your body enough time to recover and rest. What makes it worse is not taking care of yourself and not working out your vagina afterwords.

I've read that places like France take vaginal health seriously and part of post natal care involves women going to their OBGYN and every week doing pelvic exercises and get electro/laser treatments to ensure it's healing well and goes back to normal. In the USA, we don't have that. After you give birth, you're sent home and lots of women just go on suffering with weak pelvic floor muscles and stress incontinence like it's just a fact of life, when it doesn't have to be that way.

In severe cases where exercise doesn't help, there is a surgery to tighten things back up.
 
I was on anti anxiety meds for a few months. that's shits a scam. They sell it to you as it will make you feel better while you improve yourself, but in reality it makes you feel content with your shitty life and you don't feel the need to get better. Getting off of them was a wake up call for me.

Benzos are poison lol. Only drug (along with alcohol which works very similarly) that can actually kill you through withdrawal - it can cause massive seizures even in people who aren't predisposed to them. There are non-benzo drugs like buspirone that are prescribed for anxiety but I haven't tried any of them. Benzos didn't do anything for me but make me tired while still having mental anxiety.

What really helps me is super basic meditation focused on bodily awareness - breathing exercises, body scans, etc. Often times when I have spiraling anxious thoughts I don't even realize I have those physical anxiety symptoms going on - clenched jaw/muscles, shallow breathing, etc. and those specific exercises basically involve focusing on and consciously relaxing the physical symptoms. You can do these anywhere any time you're anxious.
 
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