Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[SpiceyHuman]

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I know that it shouldn't suprise me, and I should expect such reasoning and behavior from a narc, but I still cannot help but be utterly baffled at Alex in this situation.

She truely and whole heartedly, cannot see that going around pantless in public is wrong. She genuinely thinks it's just the mean old internet trolls picking on her disabled self. She literally feels like this whole thing is an agenda agiasnt her, and clearly cannot understand she was breaking the law.

It's literally blowing my mind at how ridiculous it all is.

 

[Pudgy Bear Claws]

Ari is such an adorable little bub she makes my dusty ovaries clench. Grandma and grandpa have been really good for her.

 

[Chongqing]

Ari is such an adorable little bub she makes my dusty ovaries clench. Grandma and grandpa have been really good for her.

Ari is a little blessing, that's for sure.

 

[JenkinsJinkies]

I know that it shouldn't suprise me, and I should expect such reasoning and behavior from a narc, but I still cannot help but be utterly baffled at Alex in this situation.

She truely and whole heartedly, cannot see that going around pantless in public is wrong. She genuinely thinks it's just the mean old internet trolls picking on her disabled self. She literally feels like this whole thing is an agenda agiasnt her, and clearly cannot understand she was breaking the law.

It's literally blowing my mind at how ridiculous it all is.

This is what really makes a good lolcow for me, the unwavering belief they're in the right no matter what and any detractors are merely trolls and haters.

 

[often puzzled]

Yesterday, Alex started to show a day in the life with her child. Hilariously, she didn't manage to finish and trailed off midday. As you might expect, we saw zero footage of her even pretending to do anything for Ari: instead, she spent much of the day posting an endless succession of selfies (which I didn't save; we've all seen it).

She had recently posted a video (that I apparently neglected to save) of her "waking up" with Ari at 6 AM. You can see that it's filmed sideways, while Alex is still in bed herself and still visibly hooked up to her CPAP. In other words, Ari woke her up, Noah (or someone) came to deal with Ari, and Alex went back to sleep. I'm sure that all the mothers in this thread are very familiar with this exact experience-- or not.

She also filmed a "GRWM to file a police report." It was 3 or 4 PM when she posted that, and she continued to post for the rest of the day, so I'm guessing this was an empty threat rather than something she actually went through with:

She's currently blaming TikTok for the indecent exposure call.

Spoiler: Ari from stories

Spoiler: day in the life (Instagram stories)

"motherhood looks like"-- photo of a takeout coffee cup (I think?) and a bottle



"first meal of the day, pepper and ketchup is essential"-- image shows macaroni and cheese covered in pepper, with ketchup on the side.



"now taking my meds crushed in apple sauce"



Still from video of Ari playing with Alex's wheelchair. Alex was heard saying that Ari loves to play with the wheelchair.



"my bottom lip came off from eating"



"tired af"



Still from GRWM (video at beginning of this post)



"the harassment continues . . . four hours now someone has been using my email to sign up for a whole bunch of bullshit. And they have tried to hack my accounts."

Spoiler: grid post

Grid post and comments.

Spoiler: two day in the life videos

It seemed like this was going to be a series that covered the entire day, but then she quit.

She's also revived Ari's own Instagram account, but it's all content that she also posts on her main. She periodically revives the Ari account and then seemingly forgets it exists.

NOAH WATCH: He's around and shirtless. My favorite moment in this one was his brief cameo in the GRWM police report video: Alex is ranting at the camera about haters blah blah blah, and Noah, ignoring her entirely, briefly drifts through the background to pick up Ari. They've got their own life that has nothing to do with her.

 

[JenkinsJinkies]

"first meal of the day, pepper and ketchup is essential"-- image shows macaroni and cheese covered in pepper, with ketchup on the side.

I fucking gagged at that, is there not non disgusting food that's easy for her to eat?

 

[athousandrustynails]

motherhood looks like"-- photo of a takeout coffee cup (I think?) and a bottle

I'm not a mother but this has got to be pretty insulting

 

[The Judean People's Front]

She probably forgot to tell Ari's actual caregivers that she was gonna play Mom for a full day instead of a 15 min stretch and thus had nothing to film. Whoops.

 

[StanleyYelnats]

I fucking gagged at that, is there not non disgusting food that's easy for her to eat?

It’s vile. Chantal also is a fan of this dish. She likes Kraft blue box with ketchup. Maybe it’s a cow thing?

 

[often puzzled]

She says she puts ketchup and ranch dressing on all the foods because it helps with her swallowing. Lubrication, I guess?

Anyway: she's posted a video across her platforms, claiming that Reddit has doxed her address, various phone numbers, and more. Say what you want about the sub, but they're sticklers for the rules and have never posted any of that. She's straight-up lying and trying to get the sub taken down-- not realizing that, if she does, there will be a new sub (probably more than one), Discords, and god knows what else.

Also, she's now blaming Reddit for the police visit. As recently as yesterday, she was blaming TikTok.

The video:

Spoiler: caption and comments from grid post

Sorry for the bonus update, but she's kept the content coming fast 'n' furious this week.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

She says she puts ketchup and ranch dressing on all the foods because it helps with her swallowing. Lubrication, I guess?

Anyway: she's posted a video across her platforms, claiming that Reddit has doxed her address, various phone numbers, and more. Say what you want about the sub, but they're sticklers for the rules and have never posted any of that. She's straight-up lying and trying to get the sub taken down-- not realizing that, if she does, there will be a new sub (probably more than one), Discords, and god knows what else.

Also, she's now blaming Reddit for the police visit. As recently as yesterday, she was blaming TikTok.

The video:

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Spoiler: caption and comments from grid post

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Sorry for the bonus update, but she's kept the content coming fast 'n' furious this week.

I love that comment that not only is Kiwi Farms is gone, but that our user base migrated to Reddit. As if any self-respecting Farmer would turn to Reddit even in These Trying Times. I'm insulted.

I'm gonna guess the next video or at least one soon will be like "oh my god, you guys, have you heard of the Kiwi Farms? They are definitely the ones calling child services! It's a WHOLE WEBSITE dedicated to bullying meeee!"

 

[athousandrustynails]

Pretty horrifying that her ass lickers will balls-out say she DESERVES to make a profit from her child.

 

[Breadbear]

They've got their own life that has nothing to do with her.

Someone upthread said it, but Alex is becoming/has become a piece of screeching furniture for most of the household.

I fucking gagged at that, is there not non disgusting food that's easy for her to eat?

Not really, not with the swallowing issues she has. The best thickness/texture for her to swallow would be somewhere between "syrupy" and "runny mucus."

I'm not a mother but this has got to be pretty insulting

Oh it is.

 

[Stroppy Trollop]

I think Noah's parents need to kick Alex and Noah out and keep Ari.
Because what are Alex and Noah going to do?
Start couple's counselling? Take parenting classes? Get Alex set up with a licenced caregiver? Acquire a suitable and accessible 2 bedroom apartment in a good neighbourhood that's close to good daycares and schools? Buy a wheelchair accessible van? Find stable jobs that pay well? Hire a really expensive lawyer to regain custody?
Psssshhh.
Maybe... just this once... someone could do what's actually best for the baby instead of tiptoeing around her irredeemably useless, chaotic as hell, fuck-up "parents".
Because what's the end game here? Do Alex and Noah have a plan Ari's future? I mean, yeah... right now is a super fun time with Ari--dressing her up in all those heinous outfits and posing her like a doll for social media--but what comes next? Are Noah's parents going to let Alex and all of her bullshit and drama rule the day? For how long?
If I was Noah's parents, I'd tell Noah to put on a goddamned shirt and get a goddamned job to support his daughter. And, if Alex and Noah are no longer a couple, Alex can sink or swim (LOL) because why are Noah's parents now fully responsible for a profoundly disabled full grown adult?
It's absolute madness.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

I think Noah's parents need to kick Alex and Noah out and keep Ari.
Because what are Alex and Noah going to do?
Start couple's counselling? Take parenting classes? Get Alex set up with a licenced caregiver? Acquire a suitable and accessible 2 bedroom apartment in a good neighbourhood that's close to good daycares and schools? Buy a wheelchair accessible van? Find stable jobs that pay well? Hire a really expensive lawyer to regain custody?
Psssshhh.
Maybe... just this once... someone could do what's actually best for the baby instead of tiptoeing around her irredeemably useless, chaotic as hell, fuck-up "parents".
Because what's the end game here? Do Alex and Noah have a plan Ari's future? I mean, yeah... right now is a super fun time with Ari--dressing her up in all those heinous outfits and posing her like a doll for social media--but what comes next? Are Noah's parents going to let Alex and all of her bullshit and drama rule the day? For how long?
If I was Noah's parents, I'd tell Noah to put on a goddamned shirt and get a goddamned job to support his daughter. And, if Alex and Noah are no longer a couple, Alex can sink or swim (LOL) because why are Noah's parents now fully responsible for a profoundly disabled full grown adult?
It's absolute madness.

I totally understand all your points, but it would be a hard call to make, knowing how much Ari and Noah are bonded and, theoretically, Alex and Ari. It's a pretty big step, kicking a child's mother and father out of her life. I do hope they have put some limitations and expectations on both Noah and Alex, but it's a tough call, imo, to say that Ari would be better off with Alex and Noah gone most of not all the time. Kids love their parents even if they're complete fuckups, usually, especially babies.

In that vein, Nana and Papa Smith are really thinking of Ari above everything, I think. They want her to have her parents in the picture as much as possible even to their own detriment.

 

[Stroppy Trollop]

Can't quote at the moment... but, yes. I agree with you, The Judean People's Front.
Guess I got a little caught up in the moment thinking of Ari and all the controversy that surrounds her because her mother is such a unrepentant hosebeast. I like to think that Noah's parents are doing their best by Ari under very trying circumstances. I don't envy their position.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex is on a tear today and is suddenly balls-to-the-wall going against Reddit (not for the first time). She said yesterday that the no-pants call came from TikTok, but she's suddenly decided it came from Reddit and that Reddit must die. None of this is making her look good, and even her Instagram audience thinks she needs to simmer down.

We also got some shoutouts on Reddit:



Thank you for noticing my "literal Google Map screenshots" of the house! The deep dark intel about the house came from Zillow. This site is basically the CIA, obviously.



"What is the farm? She lived on a farm?

Spoiler: Don Alex tilts against the Reddit windmill

It has not all come from Reddit, moron.



I'm not even sure what this means. "They do not do it on Reddit, they do it on other platforms, because Reddit will remove them if they find out they are doing that." Huh? So are they sharing your address or not?

Spoiler: the Reddit screenshots she shared

I mean, is it cyberbullying if they're right about your nasty teeth?



Hilariously, the new mod also has SMA*. I always scan for their posts when I check on Reddit, because they often have really good insights. A+ choice of mod.

* I don't mean it's hilarious that the mod has SMA. That's not funny in the least. I mean that it's hilarious that this is a """cyberbullying""" """ableist""" with the same disorder as Alex-- since Alex always claims that people hate her because she's disabled.



"Here is one example of someone sharing my address online."



. . . . followed by "oops, I can't find the screenshot." Because the screenshot doesn't exist, you drip-drying mouthbreather.



A screenshot of proof, wherein a person says that they received a message from a rando who claimed to have been the one who called CPS. The Redditor said this message made them very uncomfortable, so they didn't respond. Two other people say that they got the same message and thought it was just someone fishing for information.

In other words: proof? What proof?



I would consider it accurate, not bullying.

Spoiler: pantsless gremlin freak claps back & dogs eating sex toys

Reading comprehension who?





In the middle of her all-day tirade, she shared this post about free refunds for sex toys eaten by dogs. Uh. Okay?

Spoiler: some stupid polls

It's not because you're disabled. It's because you're an asshole.



If you don't think that mothers in general are relentlessly told that they can't do anything right, then you need to talk to more mothers. However, most mothers have likely never posed nude with only their infant covering their coochie, so that's kind of a you problem.

Spoiler: grid post, you HATERS

Caption of post is the text on the image:

"Dear @reddit

I am a disabled mother. My story has gotten a lot of attention, and I do have a wide reaching media presence. People have used your platform to create a ‘snark’ page that bullies and berates me as well as harasses me. It is now to where I feel unsafe because someone that is in this group has shared my address on other platforms. I ask you to take the page down immediately as it is a danger to the safety of my child and my family. It has also gotten me fired from various jobs because these people message my employers. I need my job to be able to pay for my caregivers, my life, my medication, my daughter, and my living expenses. This is illegal. DO SOMETHING.

if you all can, please share this and tag Reddit that would be very appreciated "



Commenters kind of aren't having it. Even the supporters tell her it's time to get offline.

Alex concludes by learning nothing:



What a dumbass. I feel sorry for everyone in the Smith house tonight. However, just because Alex is a terrible person and a worse mother, it's no reason to call the cops, CPS/DCFS, or your congressman. Things will implode on their own, so stop fucking kicking the hornets' nest.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

"What is the farm? She lived on a farm?

I am deceased, holy shit

The Redditors and her comment section are nearly as good a cow as she is, collectively.

 

[glass_houses]

I think Noah's parents need to kick Alex and Noah out and keep Ari.
Because what are Alex and Noah going to do?
Start couple's counselling? Take parenting classes? Get Alex set up with a licenced caregiver? Acquire a suitable and accessible 2 bedroom apartment in a good neighbourhood that's close to good daycares and schools? Buy a wheelchair accessible van? Find stable jobs that pay well? Hire a really expensive lawyer to regain custody?
Psssshhh.
Maybe... just this once... someone could do what's actually best for the baby instead of tiptoeing around her irredeemably useless, chaotic as hell, fuck-up "parents".
Because what's the end game here? Do Alex and Noah have a plan Ari's future? I mean, yeah... right now is a super fun time with Ari--dressing her up in all those heinous outfits and posing her like a doll for social media--but what comes next? Are Noah's parents going to let Alex and all of her bullshit and drama rule the day? For how long?
If I was Noah's parents, I'd tell Noah to put on a goddamned shirt and get a goddamned job to support his daughter. And, if Alex and Noah are no longer a couple, Alex can sink or swim (LOL) because why are Noah's parents now fully responsible for a profoundly disabled full grown adult?
It's absolute madness.

The age Ari is at requires 24hr care. At her age, even leaving her alone for a minute while you take a quick piss is dangerous. Babies and toddlers are intense and even comfortably well off, physically and mentally healthy parents struggle at this age. Noah is taking care of Ari; no doubt that the grandparents help quite a bit, but he is the primary care giver and removing him will place considerable strain on his parents, not to mention being incredibly upsetting for the bub. Ari is, right now, happy, a good weight, and is engaging with the world appropriately.

I have to admit it, but at this stage it looks very much like I completely misjudged and underestimated Noah. Good for him, even better for Ari.

 

[SpiceyHuman]

I am deceased, holy shit

The Redditors and her comment section are nearly as good a cow as she is, collectively.

FR. This had me cackling like a banshee at 1am in my kitchen.