Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[Inside your walls]

i made a thread for it but i guess i should just ask these questions here

1 whats it like bleeding out of your balls
2 whats it like to have sex
3 what do you find attractive in a man
4 are you interested in modern dating
5 what kinda music are you into
6 have you ever experienced sexism
7 have you ever been raped
8 do you find getting choked or beaten hot
9 do you ever get grossed out by women talking about vagina 24/7
10 would you rather be a mother than a worker

Fuck it biting the bullet

1. You mean my chesticles? Painful

2. Ask your momma

3. Perseverance and kindness.

4.Absolutely not, had I not met my tard wrangler/bf I'd probably
just went to the Nuns and shitpost here from some monastery.

5.My music taste is all over the place, one day I'll just listen to rock
and maybe the next day I'll listen to house.

6.I dealt with retarded hicks that said really stupid stuff, but not with
traditional "WOMEN ARE DAWGS AND BELONG IN KITCHEN YAAH" type.

7. Rape victim question

8. No, because I'm not conditioned by porn addicts.

9.If I would consider Amy Schumer (kikeress) the only woman in the world, I'd say yes,
but I've yet to encounter a woman that talks about pussy non-stop.

10. I think this "You can be a mother or worker" mentality is retarded.
I want to be both but I don't wanna work an office job, because there's
nothing really appealing there (at least for me).

 

[Flaming_Barghast]

Probably not and I wouldnt even ask in the first place if I know that its gonna be a hot topic. Im open to other non chemical changes like working out or facial hair, changes which are reasonable to my boundaries. Same thing, if its a change within her operable boundaries and reasonable enough I dont see why it should be a problem. I dont even see it as confrontational, I dont know why it has to be.

Hair is a bit different for girls, it represents our social status, personality, all kinds of things. For a guy, it's just hair, for a girl, it is literally everything.
For example- my mom, when she was alive, would not see anyone without make up or having done her hair. She wasn't a prissy person, she was a nurse and worked hard, she did a lot of literal heavy lifting. Being a nurse, manicures and all that aren't very ideal, so her hair was how she expressed herself. When she got cancer, she only let my dad and I see her because we were both at the house. My other siblings, her own mother, and brothers especially, weren't able to see her after it got shaved unless she had a knitted cap on and had done her make up. She continued this until her last 2 weeks, where she only let her favorite brother in.
This sounds beyond extreme, but it is a thing. My stylist would always tell me how much women mourned their hair as soon as it had to get shaved.
Basically, you'll have a very hard time finding a chick who will have that be optional unless she states she wants a hair style change. Even then, ask her what she's thinking of first. "Short" could mean cutting off 3 inches, or it could mean lopping it off. Ironically, the people least likely to care about their hair are extreme lefties.

That's why the women are kinda being a little defensive, perhaps without realizing it. Keep in mind, tomboys may still wear make up, it just won't be obvious. I'm one of few women that don't very often and am constantly asked if I'm sick unless they know me. This is just another of many differences between genders. Man can afford to not care what others think, women were raised to ALWAYS be aware what others think, even if they try to say they don't let it effect them, it will in some ways, still.

 

[AWizard]

I remember glomping AND yaoi paddles. I remember a dude got his spine broken from a yaoi paddle injury once, too.
I wonder where he is today.

Things were probably a lot more fun back then when it was just socially inept dorky nerds, sperging over the latest cartoons and toys from japan, or meeting (sometimes over the hill) d-list celebrities from a sci-fi show, or meeting up with other geeks.

 

[suspended animation]

Are there any fictional relationships that ladies think are the ideal? Or fictional character that are their dream men?

I love Lizzie and Mr. Darcy's relationship; they're honest with each other and call each other out on their crap, but despite their clashing they do love and deeply care for each other. Love should always come with honesty and with acknowledgement of flaws.

My favorite fictional men are all flawed men who have a sense of humor about life. Being able to laugh at yourself and at other stupid shit you come across in daily life is so important. (This is why Dear Feeder is loved by the ladies- he has a great sense of humor.)

Is it unrealistic to seek an intellectually stimulating connection with a woman, as some men suggest?

No, and don't take advice from any man who claims women aren't intelligent.

You might have to seek women out in niche communities pertaining to whatever interests you, but there are absolutely women willing to engage in intellectual conversations.

As much as I like Luiz Guzman its insulting to the character that he played Gomez, same for the animated film. I dont care if the original comics portrayed Gomez as a fat incompetent pig, I want him to be a chad again.

I agree! I grew up with Raul Julia as Gomez and now I will not accept any Gomez who isn't handsome, charming and clever.

Lord Peter Wimsey and Harriet Vane

Love those books!

 

[A Crying Goblin]

I believe guys are coping hard when they say you shouldn't mind being bald since you're a dude or that women don't care as long as you're healthy in other ways. They either can't accept that they lost the genetic lottery with their bad hair genes, or they don't want to accept that it's going to take effort to fix their hair problems.

The fact is, and there are multiple studies to back this up, women don't like guys with shit hair health. There are some guys that can pull off the bald look very well, but the average guy can't. Even people that look good bald still usually look better with hair. The only time I think a man should shave his head or go completely bald is if he's tried everything but nothing is fixing his hair health. At that point it's better to go that way than to keep a head of hair that has very bad recession or thinning/bald patches.

Having nice and healthy hair can really make or break your looks and it's stupid for anyone, man or woman, to just accept it without a fight.

Long time lurker here, but I made an account just to respond to this. I know this is a post from way back 10 pages, and 8 days ago, and I also know you're not supposed to powerlevel and shit, but I'll explain myself in a bit. All I want to say is this is genuinely one of the most cathartic things I have ever read in my life. And I think you've explained it in a way I've never seen anyone else do it justice. Being genuinely honest with how you feel, and the facts of what most other women feel about it, whilst not also being cruel or needlessly bullying.

I've seen too many posts from either dudes saying "Just own it bro" because their either being polite or also coping hard, or women saying something to the effect of "It's not a big deal. most women don't care" For again the sake of being polite. Then in the opposite direction I see of course the usual "Hahaha bald" meme remarks coming from both Genders. It's rare to see someone being just so brutally honest but also treating people like human beings and not pussy footing around shit. I really respect that and thank you for that.

So basically my situation: Genetics fucked me in the ass hard, I started balding right after highschool when I was 18 years old. (Not joking) By the time I was 19 going on 20 it was extremely noticeable and I had basically the full on Tim Pool hairline fresh into my 20s. A lot of people made fun of me, even my own brother. Destroyed me and my entire self image. I've been shaving it regularly since age 20, I'm 22 now and been bald for close to 2 years. I've always likened it to the loss of a limb. It really is like losing a part of yourself. People can tell you "it's just hair bro nobody cares lel" all they want but that doesn't mean shit.

Thank you for being brutally honest yet also somehow polite at the same time, I legit almost cried reading your comment because I realized all this time I've been lying to myself. Part of my goal right now is just accepting myself and the realities of my life going forward.

 

[Sigmahat]

Dear fellow feeeemales,

What do you do if you're not officially banned from Discord, but you can't get a password reset or anyone to respond?

In my case, it's post on Kiwi Farms and hope someone recognizes my name.

 

[macrodegenerate]

Full Metal Alchemist actually has two of these: Izumi and Sig Curtis, and Maes and Gracia Hughes.

The Envy Mustang fight gets really dark after Envy impersonates Gracia and laughes about killing Maes.

"It's kind of interesting how the tongue can be rendered into a pile of bubbling grease. It's surprising how quickly it burns."
-Roy Mustang to a tongueless Envy.

 

[Lithuophile]

If you're a dude and you're considering hair transplant surgery, you are gay as fuck. If God takes away your hair, let His will be done. Surgically altering your body to make it more acceptable to society is a pointless endeavor and rebellion against nature; it achieves nothing since old age will rob you of your charm faster than cosmetics can repair it. You are Sisyphus pushing the boulder up the hill; it's less effort to just let life take its course.

There's a billion other things worth worrying about.

 

[Susanna]

So basically my situation: Genetics fucked me in the ass hard, I started balding right after highschool when I was 18 years old. (Not joking) By the time I was 19 going on 20 it was extremely noticeable and I had basically the full on Tim Pool hairline fresh into my 20s. A lot of people made fun of me, even my own brother. Destroyed me and my entire self image. I've been shaving it regularly since age 20, I'm 22 now and been bald for close to 2 years. I've always likened it to the loss of a limb. It really is like losing a part of yourself. People can tell you "it's just hair bro nobody cares lel" all they want but that doesn't mean shit.

You know, that's recent enough that finasteride and (oral) minoxidil might actually get you your hair back. A follicle needs to be dormant for many years before it actually dies, it's not like you're coming into the hair clinic age 45 to correct the bald patch you've been combing over since age 30, there's still a lot of hope for you. It's worth thinking about anyway, this does sound like it bothers you a bit. Don't let guys saying "haha I love my bald head, stop coping" get you down, it's your body and only you can decide if you like it better with or without hair.

You could just keep it shaved and see if a over a year of treatment your stubble gets thicker/spreads into the actually bald patches, it wouldn't be obvious to anyone else that you're trying a treatment. Regardless what you choose, have my ❤. It's a rough situation and I do feel for you.

 

[JamusActimus]

The jews took your hairline and foreskin.

It's Joever for you.

 

[Blobby's Murder Knife]

Here's a weird question, do ladies like guys that are just...clueless?

I ask because I've never adequately been able to ask a girl out, or describe my feelings, or anything like that. It's usually the gals that have to approach me. And I hate that. I wish I could turn the charm on, but I can't, I only ever attract women when I'm not actively trying. It's like negative charisma.

Is that what "cute" is? Have I cracked the code, or have I finally lost it?

In my experience, we almost always throw the first signal and this, we hope, gives the man the courage to approach. Now is that a successful strategy all the time, lol no, but in my experience, that's normally how it goes down.

Women don't like desperation so it probably factors into why women are more likely to approach you if you don't seem to be.

Cute is you are cute. But what cute is is individually determined by each woman. I think that men would say the same thing about how they find women attractive.

Long time lurker here, but I made an account just to respond to this. I know this is a post from way back 10 pages, and 8 days ago, and I also know you're not supposed to powerlevel and shit, but I'll explain myself in a bit. All I want to say is this is genuinely one of the most cathartic things I have ever read in my life. And I think you've explained it in a way I've never seen anyone else do it justice. Being genuinely honest with how you feel, and the facts of what most other women feel about it, whilst not also being cruel or needlessly bullying.

I've seen too many posts from either dudes saying "Just own it bro" because their either being polite or also coping hard, or women saying something to the effect of "It's not a big deal. most women don't care" For again the sake of being polite. Then in the opposite direction I see of course the usual "Hahaha bald" meme remarks coming from both Genders. It's rare to see someone being just so brutally honest but also treating people like human beings and not pussy footing around shit. I really respect that and thank you for that.

So basically my situation: Genetics fucked me in the ass hard, I started balding right after highschool when I was 18 years old. (Not joking) By the time I was 19 going on 20 it was extremely noticeable and I had basically the full on Tim Pool hairline fresh into my 20s. A lot of people made fun of me, even my own brother. Destroyed me and my entire self image. I've been shaving it regularly since age 20, I'm 22 now and been bald for close to 2 years. I've always likened it to the loss of a limb. It really is like losing a part of yourself. People can tell you "it's just hair bro nobody cares lel" all they want but that doesn't mean shit.

Thank you for being brutally honest yet also somehow polite at the same time, I legit almost cried reading your comment because I realized all this time I've been lying to myself. Part of my goal right now is just accepting myself and the realities of my life going forward.

That is rough at your age. I remember one of my marching band directors (yeah lol I was a mellophone fag), he was completely bald at 23 and I felt bad for him. I'd say, being completely honest as a woman, it isn't attractive BUT it isn't a dealbreaker either. Lots of bald men smash box all the time. The older you get, the less women care about looks if you are dating in the same age range. It may seem bleak now, but it isn't Joever yet.

I'm early 40s. At this point, I expect them to be usually either bald or with a quickly receding hairline. I'm interested in a guy now that is bald because there is just more than hair if you are hoping for a lot more than just a dicking down. If a woman is smart, she'll look past it if you have other merits. If some bitch won't even look at you because you are bald, good, you dodged a bullet because you don't need cunts that superficial in your life. If I had gotten this guy's pic and said, oh he is bald, fuck it, I would have been missing out on a very sweet and affectionate man. This is sort of going into advice for other women, but yeah.

I won't understand what it is to be bald, but I have been totally gray since I was 12 had have had to dye it for like nearly 3 decades now. It is exhausting because my only other options are actually to shave it all off and start over or let the gray grow out. Both are hideous options and it will probably take around 18 months for the process to complete. It is big gay, but there it is.

 

[Incel Death Note]

This whole thread sucks but I do want to ask women one thing.
Is eating pussy gay?

 

[Shidoen]

This whole thread sucks but I do want to ask women one thing.
Is eating pussy gay?

Not a woman but gay guys hate pussies so they’re gay. Tonguing and licking the Eye of Sauron that is a woman’s pussy is like slaying a great beast.

 

[HyperboreanRightsActivist]

Here's a weird question, do ladies like guys that are just...clueless?

I'm not a slayer but I've had no problem letting girls make the first move. Just don't be too dense about it and make it seem like you "knew" from the start. Tease her about it, etc.

I only ever attract women when I'm not actively trying. It's like negative charisma.

That's not negative charisma, that's unspeakable rizz

 

[JamusActimus]

Tonguing and licking the Eye of Sauron that is a woman’s pussy is like slaying a great beast.

Sounds like something Jordan Peterson would say.

Here's a weird question, do ladies like guys that are just...clueless?

If you're attractive then it's cute.
If you're not that creepy and you look dumb.

 

[Shidoen]

Sounds like something Jordan Peterson would say.

If you're attractive then it's cute.
If you're not that creepy and you look dumb.

It’s who I was rooting for when making that.

 

[mold]

I love Lizzie and Mr. Darcy's relationship; they're honest with each other and call each other out on their crap, but despite their clashing they do love and deeply care for each other. Love should always come with honesty and with acknowledgement of flaws.

oh I forgot Captain Wentworth and Anne Elliot

 

[FiveStarAce]

If you have depression, self esteem issues, etc. The last thing you need, and the biggest waste of time you could possibly engage in is a relationship. It's not gonna be a cure all. You need to go to a therapist, or simply just make sure your life sucks less before you can move to that. Imagine the type of person you can pull is you're a depressed loser with no self esteem, probably not someone well adjusted. In fact it will probably be someone as broken and as fucked up as you. Turning your girl into your therapist is a poisioned chalice. Am I saying to just emotionally stone walled to the point were she can't even tell if she is making you happy or sad? Obviously not. But telling some chick you date for 6 months about the things that keep you up at night is a complete joke of an idea and helps nothing.

THIS THIS THIS. Maybe TMI, but i struggle with depressive spirals since my EMS days, mostly caused by stress, and never really noticed until my last breakup. A romantic Partner isn't your therapist and when you are depressed, there is no love left in you anyway. You need an expert to help you figuring out what of YOUR behaviour is causing the depression and how to adjust YOUR behaviour.
My advice, take up wrestling, learn how to fight and i mean really fight. I noticed that the first depressing behaviour is often "giving up" or "not seeing the point" which is something that you actively train against if a guy is trying to choke you out after 30 minutes of sparring and you feel like shit. Also celebrate every step that got you so far as a little Victory. Helped me, maybe it'll help you.

 

[Mr. 305]

Dear fellow feeeemales,

What do you do if you're not officially banned from Discord, but you can't get a password reset or anyone to respond?

In my case, it's post on Kiwi Farms and hope someone recognizes my name.

Be happy you can no longer use it because Discord is for pedophiles

 

[Incel Death Note]

Not a woman but gay guys hate pussies so they’re gay. Tonguing and licking the Eye of Sauron that is a woman’s pussy is like slaying a great beast.

You're trying to tell me that eating ass is gay?