Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[Incel Death Note]

No one answered my fucking question.

 

[Shidoen]

You're trying to tell me that eating ass is gay?

It’s not a Hetero or Homo dilemma, it’s just gross.

 

[Incel Death Note]

It’s not a Hetero or Homo dilemma, it’s just gross.

I was joking, sorry to get so real, did you feel attacked?

 

[Shidoen]

I was joking, sorry to get so real, did you feel attacked?

No I am the attacker

 

[A Crying Goblin]

You know, that's recent enough that finasteride and (oral) minoxidil might actually get you your hair back. A follicle needs to be dormant for many years before it actually dies, it's not like you're coming into the hair clinic age 45 to correct the bald patch you've been combing over since age 30, there's still a lot of hope for you. It's worth thinking about anyway,

Ye, problem is I'm poor as shit and don't really got the health coverage or expertise to work through that. The reason I didn't tackle it earlier is because.. Well to be honest I didn't understand what was happening to my hair at first back when I was 18/19. I knew what balding was obviously, my dad is bald too and he's been bald my entire life, so I figured I'd face it eventually... but I thought it was something that happened ONLY to 30/40+ year old males, I had no idea or comprehension I could get it in my teenage years, that moment I realized was devastating as fuck.

this does sound like it bothers you a bit. Don't let guys saying "haha I love my bald head, stop coping" get you down, it's your body and only you can decide if you like it better with or without hair.

It bothers me a lot. However It's not so much the fact that I'm bald, but rather the fact that it happened to me SO early. I feel like my youth was robbed from me and it's all because of stupid ass genetics. If it happened to me when I was 35 or something, I'd probably be like "Well whatever" I've been shaven for 2 years so the novelty has kinda worn off but I still look at pictures of myself when I had hair, and feel a blackhole in my heart

You could just keep it shaved and see if a over a year of treatment your stubble gets thicker/spreads into the actually bald patches, it wouldn't be obvious to anyone else that you're trying a treatment. Regardless what you choose, have my ❤. It's a rough situation and I do feel for you.

Thanks, you hear a lot of bad shit about this site but honestly you guys are chill as fuck and really cool.

The jews took your hairline and foreskin.

It's Joever for you.

Hah, they only took one of them, still got the other. (Thanks Mom!)

@Blobby's Murder Knife I can't reply to your post for some reason (The sites been going mental for me) But yeah that sucks about the grey hair thing, sorry you have to go through that, and again thanks for the nice comments. As for Women turning down a guy for being bald, it depends if you're talking about a romantic or strictly sexual relationship. I understand if it's a really hard roadblock for them. If you look at a dude and just cannot be turned on by him, regardless of what the dealbreaker is, then that's just how it is and I don't think anyone can really judge you for that. I'm not really sure if there is a Women equivalent for baldness?? (Maybe flat ass/tiny flat boobs????) But Idk on that one.

I have a lot of shallower aspects of myself too, where a girl with a flat butt is really a dealbreaker for me. I feel bad and I have nothing against any flat assed girls out there, just really a turnoff for me being honest. Big ass is what I like. But in terms of physical attractiveness, that's pretty much my only autistic thing. Boob size I really couldn't care less at all. Same thing with hair color/style, skin tone/race, height, means jack shit to me. She can be a chubster too, I don't mind it, I think women generally can get away with being fat better than males can (especially if her butt is already big to begin with) because they got naturally more estrogen originating bodyfat.

Anyway this is long winded as fuck, In general there are very few girls I find genuinely unattractive. Unless Boogie2988 level Deathfat, or really old which, I guess that's most men. My big problem is I don't really know what the fuck I want in a girl. Where the cutoff point is that I can say "Okay this girl is out of my league" I kinda feel like most girls are tbh

 

[dick brain]

My advice, take up wrestling, learn how to fight and i mean really fight. I noticed that the first depressing behaviour is often "giving up" or "not seeing the point" which is something that you actively train against if a guy is trying to choke you out after 30 minutes of sparring and you feel like shit.

I recommend running for the same reason, but running in particular because it's something virtually anyone can do virtually anywhere, alone, for free, with very little barrier to entry.

There's just so many benefits. On top of general health/fitness and conditioning yourself against pain and the instinct to give up, I read somewhere -- maybe The Happiness Hypothesis or The Inner Game of Tennis -- that the immediate physiological effects of endurance running are very similar to the immediate physiological effects of anxiety, such that becoming comfortable with running will make you better able to handle anxiety. And if you trail run, you get the added benefits of nature therapy/shinrin-yoku and challenged proprioception, plus it's easier on your joints.

I love trail running so much it's unreal.

 

[Lithuophile]

No one answered my fucking question.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

I recommend running for the same reason, but running in particular because it's something virtually anyone can do virtually anywhere, alone, for free, with very little barrier to entry.

There's just so many benefits. On top of general health/fitness and conditioning yourself against pain and the instinct to give up, I read somewhere -- maybe The Happiness Hypothesis or The Inner Game of Tennis -- that the immediate physiological effects of endurance running are very similar to the immediate physiological effects of anxiety, such that becoming comfortable with running will make you better able to handle anxiety. And if you trail run, you get the added benefits of nature therapy/shinrin-yoku and challenged proprioception, plus it's easier on your joints.

I love trail running so much it's unreal.

X1000. ...I am a shit runner, full-stop. I wish it were not so, but even when I did it semi-regularly, I was just not a natural (and/or I have a too-loud negative internal dialogue because I am disappointed in any low performance). But the running I have most enjoyed, and have most enjoyed being able to keep up on a sustained basis, has been trail running. Being in nature, as well as being on a constantly changing turf (and watching out for roots), keeps me engaged and less distracted by "omfg this sucks I'm terrible I hurt I'm such a lame loser," and instead elevates both my mind and my body. Shocker! - I can run farther that way, too.

conditioning yourself against pain and the instinct to give up

Even as a (again) non-runner, this is something I think is underrated. The pain of physical exertion is the good pain. Literally and metaphorically.

 

[AgendaPoster]

..I am a shit runner, full-stop. I wish it were not so, but even when I did it semi-regularly, I was just not a natural

We have a running thread. I work with runners like 3 days/week minimum and usually run daily.
Basically I've heard what you're saying like 100 times. You go out to run; 20 yrs dude passes you by while you're red faced sweaty and feeling like death at 1/2 of his speed; wtf is wrong with you?
Well, absolutely nothing.
increasing running performance takes monstrous amounts of mileage, proper diet and lots of rest, coupled with lots of active recovery and ideally strength training. Stopping even for 2 days can sometimes decrease your performance significantly if you were sedentary, although it's temporary. Bad food/inflammation, illness, bad sleep can make your runs hell. Bad form leads to injuries.
It seems simple, but it's a very technical sport.
There are almost no naturals. Just mileage, mileage, mileage, runs on the morning, runs on the evening, runs on the heat and at altitude, even runs to recover from harder runs.

 

[retard safari]

Oh, ho-ho-ho, I am one of these anti-social males being talked about and I can say a bit about it. I do currently have a GF and she is basically the only person I see, otherwise I don't leave my house except to get groceries or other supplies. I don't really feel a need to, it just seems like time that I could have spent on something else.

I also WFH and my interests are all solitary. I spend a lot of time seated at my computer arranging vertices. I also enjoy Home Improvement and cooking.

Through my Gf (it is always through them - it has always been this way) I have met other males, many have complained about feeling alone or alienated. It is apparently common. I used to feel this way but at some point I stopped caring and leaned into what I was working on, which gives me satisfaction. I try to spread this way of thinking to them but I don't think they understand. There are currently two males I was introduced to but I just don't feel like talking to them.

My hair is starting to become a bit thin. This makes me sad but what can you do. I take care of myself and am a clean person, this is because I am uncomfortable when not clean.

Anyway I do not feel the need to leave my home and really prefer not to. I generally do not enjoy meeting new people or going to events although I am contractually obligated to sometimes. I simply realized that I do not need to have friends. It is a strange thought that should I have a wedding in the future, I have no one to invite. I sort of think it's funny though. And I am a hatred and anger-motivated person so my first thought when meeting a new male is to pick them apart and think of all the ways they're annoying. To be honest, it is for the best I have sealed myself in here! I do not know how I have had GFs.

It has been fascinating to read about the women socializing networks, I have inferred that is how it works just by observing my Gf interact with her "girlies." It is very different from my experiences back when I tried to have friends.

I am probably autistic or something but really at the end of the day what does it matter, I do not care enough to pay a doctor to tell me.

Anyway I am having a great time with my mostly solitary lifestyle, it's not all bad.

 

[Blobby's Murder Knife]

@Blobby's Murder Knife I can't reply to your post for some reason (The sites been going mental for me) But yeah that sucks about the grey hair thing, sorry you have to go through that, and again thanks for the nice comments. As for Women turning down a guy for being bald, it depends if you're talking about a romantic or strictly sexual relationship. I understand if it's a really hard roadblock for them. If you look at a dude and just cannot be turned on by him, regardless of what the dealbreaker is, then that's just how it is and I don't think anyone can really judge you for that. I'm not really sure if there is a Women equivalent for baldness?? (Maybe flat ass/tiny flat boobs????) But Idk on that one.

I have a lot of shallower aspects of myself too, where a girl with a flat butt is really a dealbreaker for me. I feel bad and I have nothing against any flat assed girls out there, just really a turnoff for me being honest. Big ass is what I like. But in terms of physical attractiveness, that's pretty much my only autistic thing. Boob size I really couldn't care less at all. Same thing with hair color/style, skin tone/race, height, means jack shit to me. She can be a chubster too, I don't mind it, I think women generally can get away with being fat better than males can (especially if her butt is already big to begin with) because they got naturally more estrogen originating bodyfat.

Anyway this is long winded as fuck, In general there are very few girls I find genuinely unattractive. Unless Boogie2988 level Deathfat, or really old which, I guess that's most men. My big problem is I don't really know what the fuck I want in a girl. Where the cutoff point is that I can say "Okay this girl is out of my league" I kinda feel like most girls are tbh

It is OK, you are a newfag. You can't reply to posts if they are OP, over a certain length, or have too many quoted elements.

I think with some things, if you like the mind the body is attached too, some can be overcome. Like again, said this dude is bald. That's not the hottest thing ever, but some of the things he said to me last night absolutely were (no coomer posting retards or bix noods shit faggots). If I wasn't so old and he wasn't either, I'd have all his kids. Just holy fucking goddamn.

One of the fundamental misunderstandings between men and women is what we ultimately value or maybe we know, but refuse to recognize it at times. Women just don't value, overall, looks as high men do. It is for us an added incentive that you are hot if you offer us resources, which is mainly what we are after. At your age, I'd focus on having gainful employment and having a suitable place to bring women back to. Look like you take care of yourself, but that just means good grooming, shower, don't dress like a retardfaggot, and don't look like you sit in a chair 24/7 staring at KF. Tall order coming from some other terminally online Farmingcunt, but yeah. You just need to look like you touch grass now and again and have some outside hobbies.

As for your personal preferences, they are what they are. I wouldn't consider dating outside my race for instance. Been that way my whole life, just is what it is. Thankfully the world is a huge place filled with many options.

For me, I have a personal preference of someone of like the overweight NOT obese BMI range. I just don't like skinny men or even those that have the appearance of it, but that is just me. But there is a definite range where I'd be like he can smash my box if he otherwise seems normal enough as far as weight. But that is just personal preference. You'll find women that absolutely love that as many as hate it.

Something for men to keep in mind is that women often throw the first signals for men to approach. We also struggle very much with fear of rejection. Do you think we can just walk up to any man and have a relationship? Maybe he'd hit and quit, but if that's not what you want, that is a way taller order. We get rejected all the time ourselves. We just got to keep at it. I struggled with this myself because I wasn't sure what was going on with the dude I was interested in. I thought I was throwing every signal under the sun to him like hey retard I am interested, but he didn't really get it until a certain point where I was almost ready to give up. But now it is fanfuckingtastic.

 

[bile demon]

The temperance movement directed their ire at alcohol itself, rather than the businesses that were using the predatory practices.

Completely understandable, the "antisemitism" label is really hard to shake off.

 

[A Crying Goblin]

@Blobby's Murder Knife I don't really understand race fetishes or preferences tbh. This goes for both cooming over a certain race or rejecting them. Hot girls are hot. I couldn't care less where she's from. Though I will say on average, Latina/Mestizo, Arab, and North African girls I find the hottest. I'd say it's less of any specific ethnic or race thing, just the fact I like the physical traits these ethnicities more often are known to have: Medium to lighter skin (but not pale) Dark hair, round wide eyes, and rotund rear ends. But none of these things are a hard preference or anything close to a dealbreaker. (besides the butt) I'd still absolutely date a pasty Redhead freckle girl, an Asian, or a Black girl.

 

[JamusActimus]

@Blobby's Murder Knife I don't really understand race fetishes or preferences tbh. This goes for both cooming over a certain race or rejecting them. Hot girls are hot. I couldn't care less where she's from. Though I will say on average, Latina/Mestizo, Arab, and North African girls I find the hottest. I'd say it's less of any specific ethnic or race thing, just the fact I like the physical traits these ethnicities more often are known to have: Medium to lighter skin (but not pale) Dark hair, round wide eyes, and rotund rear ends. But none of these things are a hard preference or anything close to a dealbreaker. (besides the butt) I'd still absolutely date a pasty Redhead freckle girl, an Asian, or a Black girl.

You need to protect the white race.

 

[AgendaPoster]

You need to protect the white race.

Needless to say that you can have as much sex as you are capable of with whomever gets you hard, and yes some Latinas and blacks/Arabs can be quite hot, but when it comes to preserving your genetic material, you should choose something of worth. Most peoples keep it "in the family". No need to prove how anti-racist you are by marrying some Asian chick like famed cuckservative Christopher Rufo or adopt a bunch of bleqqq diversoid children like so many alleged right wingers.

 

[A Crying Goblin]

You need to protect the white race.

I don't believe in such a thing as a single white race. If we're going by scientific things there's at least 4 or 5 different races of "white" people and like 30 different kinds of "black" people. It's mostly meaningless jargon to me.

Needless to say that you can have as much sex as you are capable of with whomever gets you hard, and yes some Latinas and blacks/Arabs can be quite hot, but when it comes to preserving your genetic material, you should choose something of worth. Most peoples keep it "in the family". No need to prove how anti-racist you are by marrying some Asian chick like famed cuckservative Christopher Rufo or adopt a bunch of bleqqq diversoid children like so many alleged right wingers.

I'm never having kids, or adopting so all of this is meaningless noise from my perspective.

 

[TyrasGuard]

Thanks to everyone who helped me with "Operation: Perfume". It was a success. I still have no nose for it, all perfumes smell good to me, some things I can't change but now I know which ones to not pick.

That said, I do need to ask some for some perspective. I don't know what's goes on social media. I barely use it. Maybe I'm overthinking it but I'm trying to help a friend.

Spoiler: The issue:

So, he wants a relationship with a girl. This girl loves to send him what she says are "gym progress pics" with her naked in front of a mirror. Unsolicited. My guy has already fucked her and was thinking in starting a relationship because, he likes her but this issue has us stumped.

It isn't only her either, there is a place we go to play tennis and the women there, at least the single ones, have either leaked nudes by either the girls themselves or the men who they sent them to. I assume some of the guys too, I really don't understand why people send nudes of themselves to people who they can just fuck.

Are nudes like social media currency? Is it more common than what it looks like? Is she a total whore and is it likely that many men have those pics too and will likely result in him end up shitfaced in a bar? I don't wanna hear him cry that we should've seen this coming 10 years from now.

I get liking to fuck but I don't understand why people, men or women, send nudes at all, especially when it's people you fucking know that you could've just taken 10 minutes to visit and fuck instead.

Unsolicited nudes have caused major disasters for some people at the company I work at, I don't really understand the kink at play.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Thanks to everyone who helped me with "Operation: Perfume". It was a success. I still have no nose for it, all perfumes smell good to me, some things I can't change but now I know which ones to not pick.

That said, I do need to ask some for some perspective. I don't know what's goes on social media. I barely use it. Maybe I'm overthinking it but I'm trying to help a friend.

Spoiler: The issue:

So, he wants a relationship with a girl. This girl loves to send him what she says are "gym progress pics" with her naked in front of a mirror. Unsolicited. My guy has already fucked her and was thinking in starting a relationship because, he likes her but this issue has us stumped.

It isn't only her either, there is a place we go to play tennis and the women there, at least the single ones, have either leaked nudes by either the girls themselves or the men who they sent them to. I assume some of the guys too, I really don't understand why people send nudes of themselves to people who they can just fuck.

Are nudes like social media currency? Is it more common than what it looks like? Is she a total whore and is it likely that many men have those pics too and will likely result in him end up shitfaced in a bar? I don't wanna hear him cry that we should've seen this coming 10 years from now.

I get liking to fuck but I don't understand why people, men or women, send nudes at all, especially when it's people you fucking know that you could've just taken 10 minutes to visit and fuck instead.

Unsolicited nudes have caused major disasters for some people at the company I work at, I don't really understand the kink at play.

Its not a kink is common thing fuckbois to ask and women knowing no better think that sending nudes will keep a man . The closest thing i have send as nudes to my current partner is me not wearing pants but very granny underwear making fun of Instagram thots showing my legs basically. Its not a kink most of the cases but your friend needs to talk to her about not sending nudes for some people is just how things roll and he needs to explain to her he opens these pictures at work with people around he doesn't want some tits slapped there when opens . Unless she gets off on it . Communication is key just he needs to make sure he doesn't come off as a judgmental asshole and make it clear that he finds her attractive and all but its very uncomfortable for him having nudes on his phone while at work or in general and he won't be sending any.

 

[melty]

Communication is key just he needs to make sure he doesn't come off as a judgmental asshole and make it clear that he finds her attractive and all but its very uncomfortable for him having nudes on his phone while at work or in general and he won't be sending any.

This. She could send them because that's what guys want right? It might have been expected from previous partners. She could also be a whore sending them to everyone. It's best for him to just talk to her about it.

 

[AgendaPoster]

Its not a kink is common thing fuckbois to ask and women knowing no better think that sending nudes will keep a man .

Every woman that sent nudes to me I blocked as being unserious/wanting "Internet sex" (i.e. masturbation crap).
You wanna fuck, say so, and you better be fit and live close. Don't care about your nudes. Clothed is enough to form an opinion.
Also if you send penis pics or nudes to women you are retarded too.