Jesus. No matter how much you think Rekieta hates his wife and kids it seems one's imagination will always come up short. Saying shit like that during the holiday season too.
Narcissists live in different stages of aggression and need vices or other people to tolerate their unnecessary bullshit in order to tolerate what they're feeling (and manipulate) to self-regulate (cope). Learning isn't really their forte. There's no point in trying to reason with it. They can't cope with even the tiniest of pushback because most of their energy is spent trying to keep their inner rage under wraps, so relationships that require this too often become emotionally disruptive. The moment they're shown their own behavior under a different light, their black and white thinking kicks in. They're emotionally wired with poor coping mechanisms and so their intolerance towards things like "an opposing worldview" keep them from having to deal with their anger issue. After all, they're emotional experts and thus extremely stable and content human-beings so it must be everything else is to blame for every uncomfortable feeling that goes through their body. So what if it hurts your feelings. They deal with uncomfortable feelings every micro-second just fine, why can't you?
You weren't kidding. He sounds MAD when he reads that guy's message too. Borderline raging over the suggestion that a longstanding marriage is something to cherish.
The worst part about the whole saga is that you could find a photo from 18 months ago and the difference is still as stark to present day.
Honestly, he sounds both mad and on the verge of tears. He physically places his head in his hand and covers his eyes as he says, "I'm NOT LUCKY!" (see below). Personally, I think that his immediate transition from talking about his marriage to prenups shows that either: (1) He desperately wants to divorce Our Wife, but can't due to the monetary support he'd get slapped with or (2) Our Wife is currently planning to divorce him, and he knows she's gonna take him to the cleaners.
Can confirm there's no ring. He shows both hands simultaneously in this rant.
Am I hearing this correctly? Is this a reference to some anime or something?
>I don't have a physically addictive personality
No, he is A man in the relationship
I hate to step into the role of drunk Balldoman whisperer, but I thought that the "oar" was his slurred way of saying "order", and that by "order", he actually was referring to a prenup, which is would be an agreement and not an order, but whatever. The "tow the yacht out of the water" I thought was referencing protecting/hiding assets in a divorce. But then the rest of the clip was totally incoherent, so it could just be drunken rambling.
Thanks for that. I was too lazy to actually check. I had assumed the "no ring" thing was the Casino playing something up from one video but based on what people are saying it's sounding like a pattern in the last month or so.
edit: in case you don't want the name label:
I have legitimately worked with someone whos brain was shrinking and filled with holes that gave him regular seizures ,did cocaine, and would forget things as you tell him that is more coherent than Nick.
