This post was linked in the
tranny social media thread to highlight someone in the comments but the main post itself is just so insane.
archive
Why can't men wipe their own asses properly? The expensive underwear I bought my fiance has skid marks all in them.
And they were Me Undies!
I thought my fiance was hygienic. He brushes his teeth after meals, showers daily, wears deodorant, and keeps his beard neatly trimmed.
We normally split household duties and do our own laundry. I decided to do both of our loads of laundry today, since I had the time. As I was loading his clothes into the washer, my eyes were met with the unpleasant sight of shit stains clearly left on the expensive underwear I bought him. It was disgusting.
I am so disappointed.

EDIT: I bought the expensive Me Undies for him because they came in a set that includehd a matching pair for me. So it was a couple's gift for the both of us. A bidet seems to be a good option, but I think that I should also be honest with him and tell him what I found. He can throw the underwear away or scrub the stain out himself (I am not doing that). Hopefully him knowing that I am aware of the skid marks will hold him to account to be mindful of better hygiene.
I didn't notice any skid marks in any of the other underwear as I was throwing it all in the washer, but then again I wasn't looking too hard until I saw the stained Me Undies. Maybe it was a one-off, but I'm still going to tell him. I am marrying him and I expect better.
UPDATE: I feel pretty bad. I feel like I was unnecessarily confrontational because this did turn out to be a one-off incident. Apparently, this pair of underwear is "less breathable" and rides up, unlike his other underwear. So the stain came from sweating at work. He offered to pay for the bidet if we decide to buy it. Since the stain did not come out in the normal wash cycle, he threw it away and said he'd buy a new pair and only wear it on days when he doesn't work. We split laundry normally, so he cleans his own things.
I feel bad. He is normally clean and I became enraged from a single incident. I felt pressured from the comments to confront him about it.
But it's still my fault. He probably would have thrown away the underwear when he saw the stain didn't come out and me confronting him was entirely avoidable. He does his own laundry anyway and would have handled this on his own.
I feel like over time this sub has made me more insecure and judgemental.

I'm sorry. TLDR: Woman gets irrationally mad at skid marks in the
expensive, matching underwear she bought for her fiance, bitches about him being gross to reddit and then confronts him about it only to find out that it was a one-off because the underwear just sucks and not because he's unhygienic.
Like yeah shit stains are gross but just be like "ew" and tell him his underwear is stained, why get so mad about it? "Hopefully knowing that I'm aware of it will hold him to account" "I'm marrying him and I expect better" this is an insane thing to say. She at least acknowledged that she was acting irrational about it but then she blames reddit because she felt pressured by the comments and that the sub has made her more insecure and judgmental. You'd hope that she'd take this as a sign to stop going on reddit but that feels too optimistic.