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self.TransLater)
submitted 1 hour ago * by
Alissa_Whitehorse
I just found out tonight that my soon-to-be ex-wife outed me to her family tonight. Many of whom have become just like my family. I came out to her after years of hiding it and she fully accepted it. Our marriage is ending for different reasons. I'm in shock and am worried that the shame might become unbearable. I do consider myself trans but decided not to transition. I expressed my feminine self when I can to stay connected with how I feel inside while maintaining a balance of my life has an assigned male at birth. I could use some words of encouragement.
[–]infrequentthrowaway 1 point 1 hour ago
Soon to be ex because this is prompting you to end the relationship or was the relationship already headed downhill? I think that outing someone is fairly shoddy behaviour.
[–]Alissa_Whitehorse[
S] 1 point 59 minutes ago
We were getting our divorce due to her adultery. She was fully accepting of my trans identity and encouraged me to explore it.