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Most women like it rough in the other hole, dude.
Lolcow Andrew Peter Carlson / Anaiah Carlson / Tamarlover / Xtamarlover - Jewish/Christian Wannabe Cult Leader, Stalker, Ugly af, dogfucker, mayor of spitsville
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He used to stalk Melinda. Now he stalks some innocent, possibly nice woman. I don't think we're moving in the right direction.
I see you became a true expert on women and relationships.
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The man’s improving. If he is back to stalking, he’s gonna stalk. We can’t do anything about it. Best, then, to celebrate small accomplishments, like him having a (possibly) better taste in women
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Not true at all. What we have discovered over the past 60 or so years is that women prefer shithole sex to vaginal any day of the week. The patriarchy held women back by forcing women to be embarassed to use their asshole and have vaginal only to produce more children for the capitalist machine.
Just google "shithole or vagina" and any and all statistics point to the shithole being the new pussy. So next time you're near your coworker pinch her butt and say "how about a finger or my dick up your ass?" She will know you mean business Onieh.
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Im not stalking. Im respecting her wishes. She said we can talk at work but unless she says otherwise she doesnt want us talking on the phone anymore since last month. She indicated possibly changing her mind if i truly change myself.
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That is not a very good sign.
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I didnt ask for her number. She asked our supervisor for my number and sent me a text out of nowhere last year. We were talking and sparks were flying but we had many ups and down
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Did you send her a dick pic? Bitches love dick pics.
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I didn't say you were. I was merely commenting on my friend's hypothetical.
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I don't think you are capable of changing yourself, at least not for the better. If you could, you would already be a better person.
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So let me see if I am following.
A girl from work went through a a third party to contact you, and it went well for a while.
You did something that repulsed her.
She has told you not to talk to her outside of work any more.
What did you do?
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Multiple times, she has been upset with me because of my excessive lust. For example, she doesn't like that I masturbate to her pictures. Another time, we were talking on a video call, and she saw in the reflection of my glasses that I was touching myself as we were talking. Well the thing that upset her recently which is why we aren't talking is I told her that I screenshot her ass while we were talking on video calls. She didn't know, but I decided to tell her. You might say why would I ever think to tell her that? There's a reason i told her that. Its because i was telling her about something else, and she asked me to tell me if I had done anything like that with her and I had to be honest so I told the truth and said yes I did. Because I don't want to lie to her. So was it that bad? In my view, its not that bad. But I know for her its very bad and it devastated her she felt i completely betrayed her. So I feel horrible about it mainly because of how much I hurt her by having done it. And now I want to fix things between us. She said she would consider talking with me on the phone again but only if I truly change. So i told her I will work on myself and only when I can tell her honestly that I have truly changed that I will ask her if we can talk again on the phone and that there's no guarantee she may still say no she said. So I am going to try because part of me truly does want to change and I don't want to lose her because of this, so I am willing to change whatever it takes to try to change her mind about me. And there is also more to the story that makes it not as cringe. Basically, we weren't just friends, but we were never together nor in a relationship. But there was stuff she said and did too that was inappropriate in a similar way. Not nearly as bad as me, but she said and did things too that make the situation more complicated than just me being a creep. Like that's say for example if your wife found out you were masturbating to pics she sent you and she didn't like that. is it really that big of a deal if your wife who wants to have sex with you and then you masturbate to pics of her? It's a similar thing between me and her then. We reached a level of more than friendship where me masturbating to pics of her shouldn't have been much of an issue, but for her, it makes her uncomfortable that someone would do that with her pics. If i ever enter a relationship with her i'm going to try to figure out why she is so against the idea of her lover masturbating to her pics. Maybe she can explain to me what upsets her so much about it. To me I would think most women would rather their partners masturbate to pics of them than watch porn. Anyways that's the gist of it.
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You treat her like an object.
This upsets people.
I could do the whole psychoanalyze thing here but you would neither care nor listen.
The way your brain is wired vis a vis women is completely and utterly fucked.
This upsets people.
I could do the whole psychoanalyze thing here but you would neither care nor listen.
The way your brain is wired vis a vis women is completely and utterly fucked.
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Yeah, okay, I think I see the problem here.
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So a woman would rather a man treat other women as sex objects than only herself?
Seems kind of silly. The very notion having sex with someone is sexualizing them and having them as a sexual object of desire. Making love is mutual sexual objectification of one another in love.
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Or, you know, treat her like she's more than just a groady sex toy.
You literally just told us that you crossed boundaries with her because you can't stop pulling your dick out during every interaction with her. What sort of message does that send?
From the sound of it, she seemed genuinely interested in your outward facing personality, sought you out, and you immediately revealed that you're sort of a disgusting person that equates a person showing interest in you as a thumbs up for just...being a disgusting human being. You know who else pulls out their cock and starts jerking off when a person calls them to say 'hey, how's it going?'. Fucking retards with no impulse control.
Like, do you imagine, at any point during a casual or serious conversation, that it is okay to just yank your four inch fuckstick out and jerk off, while maintaining the conversation?
I'm really struggling to see you as a person that claims they want to get better or as you've insisted, that you're a good person.
Somewhere in your brain, there is something telling you that because you desire a woman, she has no rights to her comfort, privacy, or body. You seem to struggle with the disconnect that her rights to what people do with her and to her body override your own desires. You pay lip service to the idea that you'll 'get better'. How do you propose that you get better, because from your barely coherent ramblings on here, you don't think you have a problem.
Your porn addiction has permanently damaged your brain. You fucked up an almost guarenteed win that incels like you have killed for because you translated interest in you as some sort of free pass to objectify and degrade her.
So here's some pointers that I give out to mid functioning teenagers that manage to reach sexual maturity:
- Just because you have a penis does not give you the right to pull it out whenever, wherever. There is a time and a place for it.
- If people are nice to you, this does not mean they want to see or hear about your penis. If a mature, consenting adult wants to interact with your penis, they will tell you.
- Telling a person that you masturbate to their pictures/thinking about them is not appropriate casual conversation, normal people find this to be extremely creepy and a violation of their privacy and body. I will grant you some leeway here in that most people do do this, but it is not the complement you think it is to just blurt it out in casual conversation.
- If you find that you cannot control your impulses when you are around certain people, particularly people that have told you to stop the things you cannot control yourself from doing, you owe it to them, and ultimately, to yourself, to stop going near those people or interacting with them.
If a co-worker went out of her way to contact you, expressed interest, and you then immediately fucked that up because you are a degenerate, chalk that up as loss and a learning experience. She does not want to interact with you. Politely offering the olive branch by telling you to not talk to her outside of work is a kind person telling you to leave her alone.
You have massively fucked up a chance to enter a heteronormative relationship because you cannot view women as an equal and do not know how to control your impulses. Meditate on this.
I was really rooting for you here, buddy.
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Your autistic retardation rears its head. What you were doing was a step or two removed from shoving your hand down your pants and cranking it to a woman on the bus or slipping your phone under a bathroom stall in a lady's room. It could even be worse depending on how you view things because you did it to someone you know. You once again show that you have no understanding of relationships, trust, or social contracts. I've never polled anyone of the women I'm friends with, but I'd bet my mortgage they'd be disgusted if they found out one of their friends busted a nut while thinking of them. The fact she's even talking to you says a lot.
Never change.