Sam's "straight-edgism" is 90% an aesthetic preference, I get it because I'm much the same
drunk people suck dick, my parents drank and they sucked dick, 99% of people who drink suck dick unless they get the friend-exemption and even then I'd rather not be around them if they're drunk, I suck dick when I'm drunk and there's never ever not been the sensation of "well, that was completely retarded and I think less of myself for it"
weed aesthetics are similarly fucked up ugly, smoking it feels like failing an existential shit test
if it's ever a topic of conversation, it saves time to say I don't partake, despite there maybe being 1 day a year when I wouldn't mind