Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

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We can always tell when men hire pick up artists or pay for "self-help" programs specifically designed to get rhem laid. It doesn't work, you are embarrassing yourself and everyone around you, it's a red flag indicating that you're stunted/autistic/mentally ill/geneticly inferior, and it's incredibly effeminate and weak. Stop wasting your money.
nah my guy is different they are not all the same in their abilities like my guy has a masters in psychology
this isnt your meme pick up artist on youtube but a skilled professional who understands the female mind
he cracked the code a long time ago and is showing me the five step plan to go from simping to pimping

worth every penny and will probably even pay for itself once i get a money mommy
 
both? it is a bobbin that goes on the side under the dogs and I just have no idea what I am doing
Just look on YouTube dude, it’s too difficult to explain without physically demonstrating and pointing at stuff.

All machines have the same basics, and once you’ve set it up a couple of times it’s easy.

 
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femkiwis have you ever gotten involved with a guy you liked looks and personality wise and didn’t feel absolutely anything at all even though the guy did… how would you approach this situation… :'(
Do you want a relationship with him? And if so what about the current situation prevents you from liking him?

Or are you asking for advice about how to reject him?
 
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YES! Also, don't apply conditioner to your scalp, only to the length of your hair. If you can, stay away from heat, only use a blow dryer when it's necessary. Don't sleep with wet hair. And if you can, use satin pillowcases, it will cause less friction while you sleep.

If you want to get more into hair care, applying argan oil to you ends helps a lot. A good leave in targeted to your hair type will help with definition and should be applied to damp, clean hair.
 
femkiwis have you ever gotten involved with a guy you liked looks and personality wise and didn’t feel absolutely anything at all even though the guy did… how would you approach this situation… :'(
What's the question here?

If you don't like him or don't feel drawn to him, cut it and go.

People can be great, but not great for you. And it's not (and you shouldn't make it) your job to convince yourself into an involvement.

Waste of everyone's time, at best. And results tend to vary from protracted annoyance to life destruction.

Know yourself, and respect yourself.
 
Are experience gaps in relationships doomed to end in insecurity and resentment? It's nothing extreme in my case. She's my first serious gf after getting some non serious online attention from girls here and there for a few years but I feel like I missed out on dating around because the lockdown completely obliterated normal dating for me forever. Meanwhile she's had 2 serious exes and a couple flings by 26 and I'm the first man she's been with in 2 years.

Throwing this away to maybe possibly get with other women would be peak hubris and we've got a connection that I've never felt with anyone else before in my life. It's just fucked thinking how I compare with her past, even though she says I'm better than men who have had waaaay more gf's.
 
For the ladies that wear a ponytail that comes right out the back of the head: how do you drive with that? Do you just not rest your head on the headrest, or do you balance it on the ponytail?
 
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Are experience gaps in relationships doomed to end in insecurity and resentment? It's nothing extreme in my case. She's my first serious gf after getting some non serious online attention from girls here and there for a few years but I feel like I missed out on dating around because the lockdown completely obliterated normal dating for me forever. Meanwhile she's had 2 serious exes and a couple flings by 26 and I'm the first man she's been with in 2 years.

Throwing this away to maybe possibly get with other women would be peak hubris and we've got a connection that I've never felt with anyone else before in my life. It's just fucked thinking how I compare with her past, even though she says I'm better than men who have had waaaay more gf's.
Nigga she tells you are better bro you are going to ruin perfectly good relationship due to your anxieties and insecurities. Also riding the carousel because " you can do better" or " the grass is greener on the other side ' it made a lot of milenial men single dads or single and lonely in their 40s . Its a path you don't want to get on. Whatever you do sort out your relationships before your 40th bday because after that its a hard wall and you will be designated to that creepy guy unless you age too damn well and you are in the top 20% earners.
 
For the ladies that wear a ponytail that comes right out the back of the head: how do you drive with that? Do you just not rest your head on the headrest, or do you balance it on the ponytail?
You hover your head forward a little bit so the ponytail doesn’t touch the headrest. Resting your head on the coin-sized spot formed by the hair and the hair tie is not comfortable. More tolerable if you used a scrunchie, those flex a bit, but I’d still rather just hover.
 
Nigga she tells you are better bro you are going to ruin perfectly good relationship due to your anxieties and insecurities. Also riding the carousel because " you can do better" or " the grass is greener on the other side ' it made a lot of milenial men single dads or single and lonely in their 40s .
I know what I got, not to be cliche and like I said in my last post, I'm fully aware that ruining this would be the dumbest fucking idea ever. That would be a hubris straight out of a Greek tragedy. So I don't and I've gotten better at this believe it or not. It's just that sometimes the anxiety and insecurity creeps into my mind. She, on the other hand, is very jaded about dating and men so I doubt she's the type who'd do the same thing to me even though I constantly live in fear of it.

This feeling wouldn't go away if I got with another woman either. It's a no win scenario.

Nigga she tells you are better bro you are going to ruin perfectly good relationship due to your anxieties and insecurities.
She's been with men who were shorter and uglier than me but also one that was hot. I'm paranoid that she's just settling for me and only likes me for having a decent job and being "nice" to her. And yeah, girls feel the same way about guys too. In some ways, we're not so different.
 
She's been with men who were shorter and uglier than me but also one that was hot.
Bro women aren't men when it comes to relationships. Looks are relevant to the point do i vomit in mouth if i imagine having sex with you or do i need mind altering substances to fuck that if the answer is no its a check on checklist we go through. I had genuinely taller, hotter and with bigger dick than my current partner and every single one of them i could not stand longer than few months. Never thought gee i want them back. Nope all i think welp thank god they aren't in my life mostly because their personalities were grinding my gears and had general negative effect on me . Like nigger if she is jaded she ain't going to look around she knows the horrors that lurk out there and she probably will cling on to you til she can't.
 
I'm paranoid that she's just settling for me and only likes me for having a decent job and being "nice" to her.
Well it sounds like she said she likes you and you two connect really well. Especially if she’s jaded, I would imagine she would be discerning of you and wouldn’t be dating you unless she wanted to.

Also if you fear she’s “settling for you” why not then try to go above and beyond? Be the best you can be for her? I worry that my husband was settling for me, so I do my best every day to try and make him feel lucky that he has me. It’s ultimately impossible, since he is so great, but at least I can channel the anxiety productively. But I would also recommend working on fixing what ever insecurities you have.

Final point, in regards to looks, I know it’s hard to understand since looks are important to men, but women don’t really care. The association/familiarity they have with a face is more important to them then the 1-10 scale. Unless she is messed up emotionally, the longer you are in a positive relationship the more she will associate your face with happiness, safety, her future, etc. Of course you both have to maintain a positive relationship, that’s were the struggle is for most couples.

Though body type can matter to women, but there is a surprising amount of variety in a what women want, so I can’t give advice. You’d have to ask her. And she’s dating you, so you most likely already clear whatever bar she has there.
 
Bro women aren't men when it comes to relationships. Looks are relevant to the point do i vomit in mouth if i imagine having sex with you or do i need mind altering substances to fuck that if the answer is no its a check on checklist we go through. I had genuinely taller, hotter and with bigger dick than my current partner and every single one of them i could not stand longer than few months. Never thought gee i want them back. Nope all i think welp thank god they aren't in my life mostly because their personalities were grinding my gears and had general negative effect on me . Like nigger if she is jaded she ain't going to look around she knows the horrors that lurk out there and she probably will cling on to you til she can't.
Also it's usually the manosphere type who project this image of all women being vain as a means to justify how they act.
 
Bro women aren't men when it comes to relationships. Looks are relevant to the point do i vomit in mouth if i imagine having sex with you or do i need mind altering substances to fuck that if the answer is no its a check on checklist we go through. I had genuinely taller, hotter and with bigger dick than my current partner and every single one of them i could not stand longer than few months. Never thought gee i want them back. Nope all i think welp thank god they aren't in my life mostly because their personalities were grinding my gears and had general negative effect on me . Like nigger if she is jaded she ain't going to look around she knows the horrors that lurk out there and she probably will cling on to you til she can't.
All I can say is, I hope you're right. I tend to laser focus on all the insecurity stuff in spite of all the good things that have happened. She's stuck with me despite all the challenges we face and an almost-breakup that I did.
Well it sounds like she said she likes you and you two connect really well. Especially if she’s jaded, I would imagine she would be discerning of you and wouldn’t be dating you unless she wanted to.

Also if you fear she’s “settling for you” why not then try to go above and beyond? Be the best you can be for her? I worry that my husband was settling for me, so I do my best every day to try and make him feel lucky that he has me. It’s ultimately impossible, since he is so great, but at least I can channel the anxiety productively. But I would also recommend working on fixing what ever insecurities you have.

Final point, in regards to looks, I know it’s hard to understand since looks are important to men, but women don’t really care. The association/familiarity they have with a face is more important to them then the 1-10 scale. Unless she is messed up emotionally, the longer you are in a positive relationship the more she will associate your face with happiness, safety, her future, etc. Of course you both have to maintain a positive relationship, that’s were the struggle is for most couples.

Though body type can matter to women, but there is a surprising amount of variety in a what women want, so I can’t give advice. You’d have to ask her. And she’s dating you, so you most likely already clear whatever bar she has there.
You know, I never looked at it that way. I try my damned hardest to be a good bf, especially after I almost left her last summer. I sent her a card and an apology letter after we talked things through.
 
Ironic sonic is giving a putty party for another stem sperg but me simping for Elaine is a nono. You're probably a fat sped you fucking bitch
 
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I made the wise and reasoned decision to text my ex instead of the advice I was given, pray for me
 
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