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I've only been able to get horny once in the past six months. Why is this, and what can I do to fix it?
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What sort of thing you saw? I recommend trying to see something normal, brainwash yourself in to going back to normal but they can be ineffective and backfire so it's best to just socialise more if you don't, go outside, even seek therapy, group therapy if it's necessary ( i know that sounds depressing but this may give you a community with the same problem to support you ) and trying to meet someone regardless of your fears, maybe this can snap you back. Anyways could you define thoses fears? Fear of not being able to do it?Never been intimate. Scared to express any form of it as anything vanilla or sensible seems unappealing. Which almost certainty stems from being exposed early-on to very deviant stuff.
There are women into that shit (they're kinkier than they want you to believe), the theme I'm noticing across your posts is insecurity about potentially being judged.I fear that if I become too close and intimate that I'd want to play along with what I've seen and accustomed myself to viewing as sexually attractive. Which would immediately repel any women. I don't want to scare an innocent girl like that.
I get it, how often you have difficulty sleeping? From now on when you have trouble sleeping try to at least do something productive, read a book for example.I fear that if I become too close and intimate that I'd want to play along with what I've seen and accustomed myself to viewing as sexually attractive. Which would immediately repel any women. I don't want to scare an innocent girl like that.
Yes they exist but op is a virgin and I don't think that is a good idea to a guy without experience try this sort of thing, a lot of stuff can go wrong and it's unhealthy base your whole sexuality sole on this, you also need to be able to enjoy more normal stuff specially if he plans to have a serious relationship since a lot of times you need to make consetions( id that the right word?), he may like a girl that don't like certain things and being unable to do that may lock him away from a loving relationship. Plus we don't know what exactly he likes, maybe os something really extreme that only exist in porn.There are women into that shit (they're kinkier than they want you to believe), the theme I'm noticing across your posts is insecurity about potentially being judged.
You have to cross that river because nothing leads people to self-sabotage more than making absolutely sure their rep is maintained.
Used to have sleep problems. But I've largely fixed that with the purchase of an alarm clock.I get it, how often you have difficulty sleeping? From now on when you have trouble sleeping try to at least do something productive, read a book for example.
Don't want to be too specific here, as this is a public forum and all. But yes, it's extreme and something that could never exist in real life.Plus we don't know what exactly he likes, maybe os something really extreme that only exist in porn.
Oh fuck, then yes you have to cut right away. I feel sorry for you, it's must be really shameful to talk about.Used to have sleep problems. But I've largely fixed that with the purchase of an alarm clock.
Don't want to be too specific here, as this is a public forum and all. But yes, it's extreme and something that could never exist in real life.
Well now anytime I see you post I'm going to view it under extreme scrutiny to figure out what it is.Don't want to be too specific here, as this is a public forum and all. But yes, it's extreme and something that could never exist in real life.
Look I can cure your furry cumflation fetish but its going to be 500 bucks up front for labor and lubeUsed to have sleep problems. But I've largely fixed that with the purchase of an alarm clock.
Don't want to be too specific here, as this is a public forum and all. But yes, it's extreme and something that could never exist in real life.
What? Are you serious?If it helps I found that testosterone gel turned me straight.
Maybe you're hormones are out of whack.
I mean yeah? It was fucking weird. I've heard of a few other guys that went through the same thing.What? Are you serious?
Didn't you have a partner?I mean yeah? It was fucking weird. I've heard of a few other guys that went through the same thing
So the gay cure is real interesting, I heard of a supposed russian study about this but I don't know how effective that would be and no ones wants to research it. How long you were using T gel when you noticed that you wanted to fuck women? It was gradual and subtle or sudden? Why you decided to do that?I mean yeah? It was fucking weird. I've heard of a few other guys that went through the same thing.
I still do. I don't think he's noticed as he's been too busy with school and I'm pretty celibate right now. No idea how I'm going to tell him that I will eventually leave him for a woman and try to join the Mormon church he left, but that's a discussion that can wait until we're both working and financially self sufficient enough to afford moving out.Didn't you have a partner?
I think it took a few months of persistent use for it to kick in, I think it was a gradual thing. I mostly started as I was trying different antidepressants and such and a hormone screen revealed I had pretty low testosterone.So the gay cure is real interesting, I heard of a supposed russian study about this but I don't know how effective that would be and no ones wants to research it. How long you were using T gel when you noticed that you wanted to fuck women? It was gradual and subtle or sudden? Why you decided to do that?
Thank you, can I DM you later for more details? I want to take some notes.I still do. I don't think he's noticed as he's been too busy with school and I'm pretty celibate right now. No idea how I'm going to tell him that I will eventually leave him for a woman and try to join the Mormon church he left, but that's a discussion that can wait until we're both working and financially self sufficient enough to afford moving out.
I think it took a few months of persistent use for it to kick in, I think it was a gradual thing. I mostly started as I was trying different antidepressants and such and a hormone screen revealed I had pretty low testosterone.
Tbh I wouldn't be surprised if the whole gay thing was from all the soy food with estrogen in it.
SureThank you, can I DM you later for more details? I want to take some notes.
I love when shitposts turn into interesting shitI still do. I don't think he's noticed as he's been too busy with school and I'm pretty celibate right now. No idea how I'm going to tell him that I will eventually leave him for a woman and try to join the Mormon church he left, but that's a discussion that can wait until we're both working and financially self sufficient enough to afford moving out.
I think it took a few months of persistent use for it to kick in, I think it was a gradual thing. I mostly started as I was trying different antidepressants and such and a hormone screen revealed I had pretty low testosterone.
Tbh I wouldn't be surprised if the whole gay thing was from all the soy food with estrogen in it.