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but online it's mostly just messaging all the time and occasionally sending each other gifts
You gotta find something to do online, as Master Baiter said. If gaming is not your thing, you can watch movies together, or even just look at youtube. Despite all the faults of Discord, the fact that it lets you stream your screen was a godsend in long distance we watched so much anime together, holy shit or you can do a video call while doing something like cooking and just shoot the shit.
Also the thing where she tells you about men that hit on her might just be an at attempt at transparency. At least to me seems like telling about it indicates more trust than potentially flirting with people behind your back and never saying anything. The few times it has happened to me I always figured it's better to disclose that such event took place, and we had a laugh about it, but then again it was always random weirdoes, not friends.
 
Dude there is so much you can do online take it from me , me and my partner were long distance for the first two years because we were 3 hours drive. Eventually you are going to get tired of long phonecalls with nothing to do but talk. Luckily we got into dnd online group and played some games. Otherwise we were like talking basically with messages.

Honestly you should take the jump unless it's leaving you unemployed. At the end of the day love is just a gamble you can do so much to avoid getting fucked and there is a chance still that you might get fucked anyway.
So you're saying long distance call fatigue is a thing for couples? Because she definitely has no problem calling her gaming friends all the time. We used to watch shows together but that stopped at the end of last summer for some reason.

At the end of the day, I think the reward is greater than the risk because at least I'll be earning more money and have more opportunities in her city than I do here. It's just the potential for emotional damage if shit goes south is kind of weighing on me. I don't really know any people in that area and I associated just about everything there with her.
You gotta find something to do online, as Master Baiter said. If gaming is not your thing, you can watch movies together, or even just look at youtube. Despite all the faults of Discord, the fact that it lets you stream your screen was a godsend in long distance we watched so much anime together, holy shit or you can do a video call while doing something like cooking and just shoot the shit.
Also the thing where she tells you about men that hit on her might just be an at attempt at transparency. At least to me seems like telling about it indicates more trust than potentially flirting with people behind your back and never saying anything. The few times it has happened to me I always figured it's better to disclose that such event took place, and we had a laugh about it, but then again it was always random weirdoes, not friends.
We're not into the same games and idgaf about that. She can get drunk and fuck around in League with her girls for all I care while I play Helldivers or War Thunder or whatever. We actually did use to watch youtube together but that kinda stopped too, as well as trashy reality TV to lol at. I've talked to her about this before but she says she's more busy which is kinda true. Last time we had a serious discussion about this was also after the almost-breakup so you can imagine how "well" that argument went. That was just a bad time for me in general with stress from work on top of all the regrets I had for what I did. I feel like I do need to assert myself more in this relationship now more than ever. I already convinced her to send me an anniversary gift (I did the same to her obviously).

As for the men hitting on her thing, I was probably seeing way more than what it actually was. She's always tried to be transparent with me since the beginning because being a decently attractive woman does mean you'll get weirdos hitting on you all the time. I just misinterpreted that as in she gets a huge dopamine rush from stuff like that.
 
I just misinterpreted that as in she gets a huge dopamine rush from stuff like that.
You’re right, don’t worry about that, the dopamine rush only happens if it’s a hot guy (so few of them ever are), or if it’s someone you care about yourself. Strangers hitting on your girlfriend doesn’t mean she’s cheating on you, it just means men are horny.
 
How bad of an idea is it to date a girl from the farms? Asking for a friend.
you will never know unless you try but on the other hand every single guy who tried flirting with "women" from the kiwi farms that i know of have been doxed and his nudes leaked . Thread with precaution . I would recomend after break up to go back with a sock .
 
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